Admit it brehs, a 30+ year old women who isn't married is someone you question

[MikelArteta]

Why would anyone want to settle?

I can settle right now or settle ten years from now.

I say eff that.

Even a old fossil can find a bottom barrel man (ala settling) if she really wants to get married.

some shorties out here looking for Mr right though, most women I meet over 30 never married and some are even childless.

They're really trying to hold off having kids till they met the right dude, the only thing I question is since she's a woman, why can't you meet a good man?

Anyone usually over 30 single, never married nor kids will have some issues with perception by others, they really feel you shouldn't be in that situation.

Good friend of mine is a 37 year old female no kids, man but she's a attorney so she's looking for her equal and I completely understand with all that education and hard work why should she settle for something she could have had any day of the week?

 

[MikelArteta]

This is a good article

Http://elitedaily.com/dating/need-know-soul-look-soulmate/936336

This article is well written and it made me think of this thread.

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

It is a red flag.

Especially if she fine. Cuz fine broads will be wifed up. They get way too much attention. Even ugly to average hoes be married. Looks at all your friends wives. They average as hell. Women need to be in a relationship no matter what. That's why we always scratching our heads when we see that fine hoe whose husband is an Alcoholic, loser type guy. They would rather not be single.

 

[mcdivit85]

To be honest, I feel more pressure to knock out a kid than get married. I don't know, I don't want to get divorced, so that means that's a whole lot of years to be married, my ovaries on the other hand got a shelf life so....

So, you feel more pressure to be a BM than a wife?

Peace

 

[HiphopRelated]

People out here chasing careers and money breh, once she doesn't have a gang of kids, all's fair.

A girl(23) hit me up on whatsapp couple weeks ago talking 'bout she's unemployed, but just wants the simple life and a man to love her...bushes

 

[Da King]

A women in her 30's biologically wants to be with a man and have kids or kids in the near future, so miss me with that shyt about a women in their 30's choosing to be single

 

[Raava]

In 2015, 30 wouldn't raise my eye. Because women are working and making money just like men now. So, many women wait longer to get married than in years past. If a woman is focused on getting her degree(s) and getting a great job first, then she might start looking for a husband around her late twenties.

Then she has to do some dating to find a quality dude, which will not happen overnight in most cases. Especially with n#ggas on The Coli running around. Dudes her age still living at home, still playing video games, still making excuses for why they can't make it in the real world, etc.

Now if she's 35 and up and has never been engaged or in a relationship that was leading to marriage, then I would be suspicious. Especially because women get ansty in their 30s for marriage, so they tend to date with purpose from 30 forward.

But married and kids by 30? In 2015? How many women fit that criteria? Especially in large metropolitan cities?

Peace

Any woman looking for a safe haven here...

In your 20's you are still developing as a person. I don't know why people keep selling this dream to future generations that things should be and are settled in your 20's. That is what messes a lot of people over. Then people get older and go crazy or depressed because the don't have everything and aren't married by 25.

That's not real life for the majority.

 

[Raye82]

Why did u reject him?

I loved him, but I was way too young (at least in my mind) and he was much older than me, so he was ready.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

This bullshyt again?
Every woman is not meant to be married.
Gotdamn, why is this hard to get through yall rock heads?

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

So, you feel more pressure to be a BM than a wife?

Peace

to have kids...whether that means having with the dude of the moment, someone i'm in a long relationship with, someone who becomes a life partner, or someone i'm married to

as i said, i can get married at 44, i can't have kids at 44, it is what it is

 

[360dagod]

A woman over 30 who is "single" is like Wes Welker right now...

Either a veteran team who needs "insurance"will sign him..

Or a team will give him a 1 year bs contract with a most likely upgrade by mid-season or at the end of the year..

His concussion injuries are red flags and teams will be hesitant to sign him to a deal unless it really benefits them..

Also he is a "slot receiver" who really cant do much else....Either that nikka takes what is offered or stays a free agent....

That's where its at with women over 30

Unless you find that one guy who bids against himself, you will be getting the wes welker treatment

 

[Zero]

What do you guys want
If she is married young, she didn't go through her hoe phase and will eventually cheat on you thus she's a hoe.
If she's older and not married, she's a hoe that's been ran through and no one wants her.

I think I'll go live under a rock now

 

[mcdivit85]

to have kids...whether that means having with the dude of the moment, someone i'm in a long relationship with, someone who becomes a life partner, or someone i'm married to

as i said, i can get married at 44, i can't have kids at 44, it is what it is

Yea but the world needs less babymamas....not more. I'm sure if you focus on finding the right dude and curve "dudes of the moment" that you can have both.

Black children need more fathers in the home. Not to be preachy at all, I just hate seeing women selling their potential children short for their own desire. And this is coming from a dude who was raised by a single mom.

Peace

 

[LadySimone]

What do you guys want
If she is married young, she didn't go through her hoe phase and will eventually cheat on you thus she's a hoe.
If she's older and not married, she's a hoe that's been ran through and no one wants her.

I think I'll go live under a rock now

Most of these men are stupid. Too many white MRA blogs.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Yea but the world needs less babymamas....not more. I'm sure if you focus on finding the right dude and curve "dudes of the moment" that you can have both.

Black children need more fathers in the home. Not to be preachy at all, I just hate seeing women selling their potential children short for their own desire. And this is coming from a dude who was raised by a single mom.

Peace

i totally agree, but at the same time i know not everyone gets the perfect happy ending/life scenario, and i may very well be one of those that don't