Admit it brehs, a 30+ year old women who isn't married is someone you question

[Ninjaz In Paris]

I feel guilty I even feel this way but I can't help it . Because you know they're not single out of choice

This is dumb



And you would still hit anyway.

Didn't say I wouldn't hit

this exchange...

 

[GoFlipAPack]

What do you guys want
If she is married young, she didn't go through her hoe phase and will eventually cheat on you thus she's a hoe.
If she's older and not married, she's a hoe that's been ran through and no one wants her.

I think I'll go live under a rock now

Ive said it once and ill say it again. Thats Coli logic for you!

 

[mtu wa chuma]

there's wayyy more pressure on women i feel when it comes to approaching 30. with men it's more about securing a steady job/career, with women it's about gettin married and havin a kid. thing is though when a man finally finds his way and carves out his life, he could always marry younger if he wants to.

i know so many girls who continue to get married, i suspect, out of pure desperation and the fear of being single at 30. you could tell which ones they are because when you see them on facebook they barely smile in any of their engagement party pictures.


STACY WAS TAGGED IN JOHN AND STACY'S ENGAGEMENT CELEBRATION!!!

I've seen those loads of times. The dude will be cheesing like he's won the lottery whilst she looks

And I'm watching the pics like ​

 

[Carlton Banks]

Truthfully I look at women 35+ single are damaged goods to me.

 

[MikelArteta]

the only thing I would say as a man marrying a older chick is dealing with does she really love you for you, or are you just a placeholder. Ala the decent guy who just came along and can offer her security, children, marriage, fidelity but she doesn't feel passion or love for you.

Just basically having a fancy masters degree out of grad school can get no job that you really love so you just settle for the time been with your eye on something greater.

Just basically the 12th man on a nba roster, anyone can fill that slot

With life expectancy and the way the world is now, rushing into marriage can lead to disaster.

you gotta be smart brehs and screen
Don't mingle wiht these brehttes who just want a relationship just for the sake of being in one, mingle with the ones who want a good and fulfilling relationship. Mingle with the ones who are excited to be with you are and are compatible, mingle with the ones who have traits of Dependability, Honesty, Stability, Humour,Morals
and Manners

Be wary of the ones that fall for you so easily, because then what's to stop them from falling quickly for the guy they meet at the library or the grocery store?

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

my mom had me at 35 my dad was 40

i am the first born

 

[Carlton Banks]

the only thing I would say as a man marrying a older chick is dealing with does she really love you for you, or are you just a placeholder. Ala the decent guy who just came along and can offer her security, children, marriage, fidelity but she doesn't feel passion or love for you.

Just basically having a fancy masters degree out of grad school can get no job that you really love so you just settle for the time been with your eye on something greater.

Just basically the 12th man on a nba roster, anyone can fill that slot

With life expectancy and the way the world is now, rushing into marriage can lead to disaster.

you gotta be smart brehs and screen
Don't mingle wiht these brehttes who just want a relationship just for the sake of being in one, mingle with the ones who want a good and fulfilling relationship. Mingle with the ones who are excited to be with you are and are compatible, mingle with the ones who have traits of Dependability, Honesty, Stability, Humour,Morals
and Manners

Be wary of the ones that fall for you so easily, because then what's to stop them from falling quickly for the guy they meet at the library or the grocery store?

I know a woman just like this. She's almost 40 and was my HR Manager years back but we stayed good friends. She was in a happy stable marriage with 2 kids but only married for the exact reason you just stated. Now she's divorced and dating a 23 year old dude and is way more happier than before. I would definitely agree that passion and love definitely the most important thing. That seems to be what's missing these days more than anything.

 

[MikelArteta]

Truthfully I look at women 35+ single are damaged goods to me.

so a woman should stay in a non fulfilling relationship, or one riffled with abuse, infidelity ?

Regardless of your age, fearing being alone is no justification to canoodle or cavort or stay with someone who does not respect/value you. I salute any individual regardless of age or gender who conquers that fear and vanquish it and learn to uphold your own happiness in your own casing, blooming in your autonomy and setting better principles for yourself then and only then you won’t endure receiving pitiable treatment and will never be reliant on anyone to fulfill you. Don't squander precious time on an individual who violates your bottom line over and over and over and over.

 

[MikelArteta]

Life you only have one shot at being happy.

Ill never "settle" or marry just for the sake of it.

If someone great comes along and meets my checkpoints great, if not I'm fine being single. This single life has been good to a nukka

I know a woman just like this. She's almost 40 and was my HR Manager years back but we stayed good friends. She was in a happy stable marriage with 2 kids but only married for the exact reason you just stated. Now she's divorced and dating a 23 year old dude and is way more happier than before. I would definitely agree that passion and love definitely the most important thing. That seems to be what's missing these days more than anything.

 

[Carlton Banks]

so a woman should stay in a non fulfilling relationship, or one riffled with abuse, infidelity ?

Regardless of your age, fearing being alone is no justification to canoodle or cavort or stay with someone who does not respect/value you. I salute any individual regardless of age or gender who conquers that fear and vanquish it and learn to uphold your own happiness in your own casing, blooming in your autonomy and setting better principles for yourself then and only then you won’t endure receiving pitiable treatment and will never be reliant on anyone to fulfill you. Don't squander precious time on an individual who violates your bottom line over and over and over and over.

Well I'm speaking from experience since all I ever seem to date is older women and they all had similar qualities which explained why they were single. Not saying they don't 't have the right to be single, it's just going to always be a question in the back of my mind asking why. Most women want that happy relationships. Women value relationships, love, and all that shyt. So even if she's not there yet, if she has the qualities and personality, i can't help but ask. I'ma just do the Tyga thing and wife one of these young girls (minimum 18 tho) who haven't been damaged or gone to the game yet.

 

[Will2x]

Man I'm so glad I'm not having a wedding. Found the woman of my dreams in my 20s

 

[MikelArteta]

Well I'm speaking from experience since all I ever seem to date is older women and they all had similar qualities which explained why they were single. Not saying they don't 't have the right to be single, it's just going to always be a question in the back of my mind asking why. Most women want that happy relationships. Women value relationships, love, and all that shyt. So even if she's not there yet, if she has the qualities and personality, i can't help but ask. I'ma just do the Tyga thing and wife one of these young girls (minimum 18 tho) who haven't been damaged or gone to the game yet.

 

[Carlton Banks]

Sometimes I think, "damn older women really have it bad yo." When you think about it, in the end they the ones that really get left in the end. There's only so many options they have. By the time she's 39 most men her age aren't checking for her and are looking for young girls who have all this time to have kids. She could date a young guy but they just wanna fukk and ain't gonna stick around when she gets older. It's rough out here for these wimmenz

 

[MikelArteta]

Sometimes I think, "damn older women really have it bad yo." When you think about it, in the end they the ones that really get left in the end. There's only so many options they have. By the time she's 39 most men her age aren't checking for her and are looking for young girls who have all this time to have kids. She could date a young guy but they just wanna fukk and ain't gonna stick around when she gets older. It's rough out here for these wimmenz

not really especially in this day and age there are a surplus of men in their late 30's, 40s/50s who have been divorced.

Thing is the best of the crop for the most part is gone, you are left with guys who just want to get married again because of co dependency issues, older men with erectile dysfunction and bitterness from failure of marriages, menw ith children paying child support and alimony. Single men who are just bachelors and don't really want commitment. And the tiny percentage of good men with no baggage but they have so many options at their disposal that you really have to be great to win them.

In essence the table turns, chicks had the power in their late teens, early-late twentiess but men have the power after that.


However you can find love at any age

I'm turning 30 this year and i'm happy I never got married nor have any kids, and I'm happy being single, my life is finally on the upswing, about to get a new job in finance at a hospital that will increase my yearly earnings substanially, im in the gym now getting rid of this skinny frame , back volunteering, back in church, healthy for the first time in many years. I feel like I'm just finally getting started and its a great damn feeling

 

[Flay Mayweather]

If you think like this relationships are bound to fail. You're not giving it a chance to even get off the ground.

its facts tho

especially for my generation.