A serious thread for anyone who might be able to relate

[Easy-E]

@Nudie

I can relate.

Try going on 25, bein an outcast.

I'm not an introvert or shy, but, just disconnected.

I just trying to put more into keeping my soul clean (devote more to spirituality) and paying my parents back.

I'm not not sure of anything, but those two things.

You're young...sounds like growing pains. Try to learn from them, not run away.

 

[Theraflu]

I feel you my nikka, but you still in a position to rurn that shyt around. You ain't done nothing self destructive yet, that's always a plus.

I went through similar situations but I turned to violence and frivolous spending to hide my pain. I'm a productive upstanding citizen now but it's too late for me to enjoy my "youth". You still can.

I also turned to violence, during those days I was a terror. I was just always angry as fukk and ready to spark someone in their jaw if they crossed my way

I've changed now tho

 

[Ohene]

I feel you my nikka, but you still in a position to rurn that shyt around. You ain't done nothing self destructive yet, that's always a plus.

I went through similar situations but I turned to violence and frivolous spending to hide my pain. I'm a productive upstanding citizen now but it's too late for me to enjoy my "youth". You still can.

I feel you breh. Right now though I'm more so focused on just building my wealth and my career, and most importantly my knowledge (particularly related to my career).

I know that feel though. When bad something happens so you decide to reach into that wallet. For one person it might be buying a tub of ice cream. For another it might be a new watch. For some it may be a new face or pair of titties. Either way though I know thats not the path to go; it might put a smile on your face for the meantime but it aint helping your subjective well-being.

 

[Ohene]

Be You Breh! If More nikkas Had Parent Like Yours The Black Community Would Be A Better Place. Seems To Me Your Parents Instilled Work Ethic And Values That Many Should Aspire To. They Gave You DirectioN In Life Where Many Of Your Peers Have None.Wish I Had Parents Like That Instead Of Learning these Lessons On My Own.


Ps If You Who I Think You Are You Still A Cocky a$$hole Tho

 

[raw613]

I never had an issue socializing but what i do relate to is that clearly you are a person that spends a lot of time in your own thoughts. This in many scenarios can be good, but i had to learn at other times to just live in the moment. The people around you worth being close to may notice you have some idiosyncrasies but won't think any less of you if your comfortable in your skin. As far as people that don't know you that well or your not close to, I wouldn't worry about perception, its your journey, keep in mind they can only judge by the limited information they have and a lot of them probably don't give it that much thought. The ones that do, you don't owe an explanation to anyway. Overall tho, you seem focused, which is good but you don't want to take yourself seriously 24/7 either so sometimes you just gotta enjoy life while you can breh. sorry if i typed an essay lol

 

[Seea]

I hear you. You probably won't have much in common with most people ever. But you need to own that. Accept it as fact, but keep it in perspective. And pay attention to people more. The ones who have a lot in common with you are around; you might have missed them just being dismissive.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Man, I was the same way. You kinda just have to let the past be. I missed out on a lot of things, got asked to prom 2 years in a row and still said no (and I'm a dude!) by decent girls too. You know, but it's like fukk you gotta just get over it, and stop soaking in your tub full of sympathy because no one gives a fukk about your problems, they just care if you can do something for them.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I never had an issue socializing but what i do relate to is that clearly you are a person that spends a lot of time in your own thoughts. This in many scenarios can be good, but i had to learn at other times to just live in the moment. The people around you worth being close to may notice you have some idiosyncrasies but won't think any less of you if your comfortable in your skin. As far as people that don't know you that well or your not close to, I wouldn't worry about perception, its your journey, keep in mind they can only judge by the limited information they have and a lot of them probably don't give it that much thought. The ones that do, you don't owe an explanation to anyway. Overall tho, you seem focused, which is good but you don't want to take yourself seriously 24/7 either so sometimes you just gotta enjoy life while you can breh. sorry if i typed an essay lol

Spending time in your own thoughts is a big one for me. I'm not disconnected, I know a lot of people, I just tend to not get too close to them. Like being acquaintances is fine, but being friends with me is some hard shyt for someone to do. Not because I'm stuck up, I'm just used to spending time alone.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Better start getting your mind right....say you graduate and get a good job, you aren't automatically going to get bytches and social status. Move out of your parents crib, find your lane and start hanging around with people who have similar values.

Don"t be so judgmental, well if you do keep it to yourself. Start peeping game as well. If you want anything in life just find someone who has it and do what they do. Most parents suck but just because they did a bad job it doesn't mean you have to pay for the rest of your life.

 

[Mass]

I slept on this thread
This is quite a REAL thread
I am the same way as the OP

 

[Ohene]

Better start getting your mind right....say you graduate and get a good job, you aren't automatically going to get bytches and social status. Move out of your parents crib, find your lane and start hanging around with people who have similar values.

Don"t be so judgmental, well if you do keep it to yourself. Start peeping game as well. If you want anything in life just find someone who has it and do what they do. Most parents suck but just because they did a bad job it doesn't mean you have to pay for the rest of your life.

While I understand the judgmental comment I do also feel that I'm just misunderstood. I prefer to think I'm rather observant.

As far as my mind, whats wrong with it as it is now? None of this has to do with me wanting bytches or social status to be honest. Especially not the latter. I'm a very laid back, low key dude and I like it that way. I'm not the type to wish I had a roster of 5, 10 chicks. Give me one loyal, not too challenging woman and I'd be satisfied.

 

[Versa]

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This is great.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

stop over analyzing shyt

you are not deeper than anyone

stop the self loathing

and get p*ssy and enjoy life brah



it's really that simple

 

[Ohene]

Man, I was the same way. You kinda just have to let the past be. I missed out on a lot of things, got asked to prom 2 years in a row and still said no (and I'm a dude!) by decent girls too. You know, but it's like fukk you gotta just get over it, and stop soaking in your tub full of sympathy because no one gives a fukk about your problems, they just care if you can do something for them.

My first girlfriend asked me to take her to prom (before we were a couple) and I rejected her . Kind of regret it I cant lie. Didn't go to my prom either but I dont regret that.

 

[Ohene]

stop over analyzing shyt

you are not deeper than anyone

stop the self loathing

and get p*ssy and enjoy life brah



it's really that simple

this is the exact kind of shyt I'm talking about.

A ) Not at all did I say I hate myself, in fact its the exact opposite as @Theraflu said.
B ) Nothing in any post in this thread should give off the idea that I think I'm deep.
C ) Sometimes its not that easy to just get p*ssy and "enjoy life". It simply isn't that simple.