A Man Shouldn't Change Their Daughters, Diapers?

[Gloxina]

I was thinking this, too.

No shade to @Gloxina . I think you mentioned we all know someone or of someone (likely female) whose been molested.

Problem is, even on this board, we've seen many male posters say they were molested as boys, too, though - by women.

Oh- for sure. Like I said, that’s why in my initial comment I said that women bathe the babies —no gender specified. Because it happens to both.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

I was thinking this, too.

No shade to @Gloxina . I think you mentioned we all know someone or of someone (likely female) whose been molested.

Problem is, even on this board, we've seen many male posters say they were molested as boys, too, though - by women.

So true
The broader scope is safeguarding children in general, from abusive men and women
The Coli is well aware of my stance on that.

Fred

 

[Piff Perkins]

They say shyt like this and then tell me we're the ones that need to go to therapy.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

Not trying to make another topic about Kendrick, but I feel like there’s a lot more under the surface to Not Like Us being such a hit other than the beat. It feels like a lot of people really resonated with the message of publicly calling out someone who was perceived as a predator. Like he gave a voice to a lot of people to release that rage. For everybody who grew up and had that uncle that nobody wanted to talk about but still was allowed at the BBQ. For everybody who had to take the long route home because of that one house in the neighborhood and nikkas was quick to fight each other over nonsense but never ran up on Mr. So and So about how he would speak to the little girls walking by

The older I get the most I start to realize that this stuff was hella common for black folks and might be literally the only thing we are “on code” about

 

[Ironman]

A man doesn't have time to deal with stupid ass shyt

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

being ptsd'd out is nothing to admire or encourage.
seeking help and overcoming fears >
and if you can't trust em, what future say?

 

[Gloxina]

Not trying to make another topic about Kendrick, but I feel like there’s a lot more under the surface to Not Like Us being such a hit other than the beat. It feels like a lot of people really resonated with the message of publicly calling out someone who was perceived as a predator. Like he gave a voice to a lot of people to release that rage. For everybody who grew up and had that uncle that nobody wanted to talk about but still was allowed at the BBQ. For everybody who had to take the long route home because of that one house in the neighborhood and nikkas was quick to fight each other over nonsense but never ran up on Mr. So and So about how he would speak to the little girls walking by

The older I get the most I start to realize that this stuff was hella common for black folks and might be literally the only thing we are “on code” about

“Certified Loverboy/certified ped0phile”

————————
“Trying to strike a cord/
And it’s probably A minoooooooooooor”

Is def the most popular line in that song and it’s not just because it’s catchy

 

[Kasgoinjail]

*for the Coli record

I did not click the link in the OP
Therefore I declined to comment directly on the topic

Fred

 

[Brolic]

Y

you’ve never heard of incest?

Girls…girls (kids) have never been raped by a father? Blood relative?

Child abuse statistics — Indiana Center for the Prevention of Youth Abuse & Suicide

www.indianaprevention.org

https://www.statista.com/statistics /1368830/us-key-facts-on-incest/

Incest Rates in America & Beyond | Incest AWARE

What are the incest rates in America and beyond? There is a lack of evidence-based research, but you can learn what we do know here.

www.incestaware.org

Of course it happens, but the links you posted don’t single out fathers. Most fathers aren’t abusing their kids. The abusers
are usually step fathers, uncles, cousins, and family friends.
All of the abuse stories you mentioned in your previous posts were done by men who weren’t the fathers.

There is nothing wrong with a father changing his daughter’s diaper.

 

[MajesticLion]

The one person above all others who should be helping is there in the trenches with you...and you're going to upchuck everything fermenting in your head, because you want to live your life afraid.


You either live your life or you live your life in fear. You cannot do both.

 

[Gloxina]

Of course it happens, but the links you posted don’t single out fathers. Most fathers aren’t abusing their kids. The abusers
are usually step fathers, uncles, cousins, and family friends.
All of the abuse stories you mentioned in your previous posts were done by men who weren’t the fathers.

There is nothing wrong with a father changing his daughter’s diaper.

I’m simply telling you why there are some women who ain’t with it.

 

[Brolic]

I’m simply telling you why there are some women who ain’t with it.

So does a father have the right to say the mother can’t change his son diaper? I’ve seen/heard a lot of stories about women abusing boys.

 

[Gloxina]

So does a father have the right to say the mother can’t change his son diaper? I’ve seen/heard a lot of stories about women abusing boys.

Do what you want in your household


Again, I was simply stating that old school rules were women handled babies. Period.

 

[fifth column]

I’m simply telling you why there are some women who ain’t with it.

Changing diapers is the responsibility of both parents, only unserious ppl would allow themselves to create a scenario around this necessity

 

[mag357]

Yea, it would be plausible if we returned to actually having families. You know, husband, wife, children. Not this messed up thing we have now, Baby Momma, Baby Daddy, children out of wedlock.

We want the old ways to be prevalent, then we need to actually follow the old ways from the start. Putting the cart before the horse is not the way.

Edit: Also, grandmothers are overtaxed as it is. Generation after generation of out-of-wedlock children being pushed on her to deal with while the mother works or plays.

U wrote this so I wouldn't have to.

People ain't realizing not everybody is growing up in these houses where mama got a new boyfriend and he up in there looking at the lil girls funny.
Next month she'll have another dude in there
They ain't never been able to trust men and never known real safe love.
This is where all this Comes from.
This sht is cool in today's society, but it ain't cool

Some of us are raising kids in loving households.
With Strong, caring men around.
Nobody even thinks crazy sht like "the men can't change diapers."
All these lil ass girls we done raised to be grown women.
But I can see how they are just different than all the these other chix out here. These people are damaged