A Man Shouldn't Change Their Daughters, Diapers?

[Kasgoinjail]

I get it. My Wife was thinking about it before we had our first. When old school was a thing, women didn’t work. Our home is her job. Our children is her job.

Imagine poppin out a baby and have to go back to work after six weeks. Sending your child off with some strangers.

We need to get back to the one income homes so women can be women.

How long is Maternity leave in the states?

It's 52 weeks here in UK

 

[Gloxina]

Dr Jewel did mention that at one point she had to surgically reconsruct a child's private area due to the abuse.

Women can be just as violently abusive too.
And abuse also happens to boys

Fred

Oh absolutely— which is why I said babies in general, not just little girls. My examples just included girls.

And yea— it’s absolutely heartbreaking what happens to some children.

 

[Wildin]

Aight then, I'm not buying them either

 

[Gloxina]

But, Miss, both of those situations you mentioned were negligence and abuse allowed by the mother. See, if there was an actual father in the life of those two girls who cared about her like a father would, you know the husband if the women who followed the old ways, then the likelihood of those situations happening would be drastically decreased.


Your statement of only the women cleaning the girls, would not have stopped those situations, because it was the women themselves who failed.

You’re right.


One of my good friends- raped by male cousin (blood relative).

One of my old staff members- raped by stepdad before mom divorced him while she was still a kid.

Another staff member- teenage girl actively being raped by stepfather (started when she was in junior high) while working with us and we had to help her move out of the family home and press charges.


The list goes on.

My point is, there will be women who allow husbands, babydaddies, etc to handle the babies or allow someone else to handle the babies and something will happen to the child.
It happens all over the globe.

No, it’s not every father, or uncle, or grandfather, or big brother, but it happens enough that we have plenty of ppl in each generation with horror stories about things that happened in their childhood.

This is simply about decreasing the chance.

 

[Belize King]

How long is Maternity leave in the states?

It's 52 weeks here in UK

Six weeks for many companies. This is paid by the way. Many companies give three months now.

You see how far behind the US is right!

Soon enough we will get to a year because people arent having enough babies.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Some women are mentally ill.

After sex, this one girl asked me "How come you never clean my chitlins?" I was like She said "fukk me in my ass"


I looked at her like "for one, that is nasty, and 2, why would you even describe it like that?"

 

[Gloxina]

Some women are mentally ill.

After sex, this one girl asked me "How come you never clean my chitlins?" I was like She said "fukk me in my ass"


I looked at her like "for one, that is nasty, and 2, why would you even describe it like that?"

What that got to do with this topic


And yes, she nasty lmao

 

[Buckeye Fever]

What that got to do with this topic


And yes, she nasty lmao

Just describing another example of weirdness in SOME women

 

[Belize King]

My Wife doesn’t work. We have two daughters (5 and 2). It didn’t cross my mind not to change my babies diapers. It crossed my Wife’s because she is a woman and knows all of the assault and molestation stories.

She was touched as a child by her mother’s boyfriend. Her older sister was as well. Older sister told mom and what did mom do? Nothing.

I found out a few years ago, my sister was raped as a child. Mutilated.

Does that have anything to do with me, her husband? No. But because I am a man, there is always the fear of men. Not fear me touching my children. Fearing a man being in those sensitive areas, if you understand what I am saying.

Point is, as men we should be able to empathize with women. We should also have the discussions, with our girlfriends, before we marry then produce children. As long as all parties are on the same page, all is well.

Of course, the issue is children out of wedlock and lack of discussions about child rearing.

 

[fifth column]

Weirdo topic, I only thing that cross my mind when changing my daughter is not getting shyt on my hands

 

[SheWantTheD]

Sounds like something happened to her at a young age.. possibly by her father

The mom might not always be available to change the diaper.. they need an intervention smh

 

[Brolic]

This is either incredibly naive, or trying to downplay the reason why some follow this rule.

You are right; people are sick. You can comb this site alone to read stories about ppl who were molested at a very young age. You can do Google searches and read absolutely disgusting, heartbreaking stories about kids who are too young to talk/communicate who were harmed when they were still in diapers.


Hell, I know a stuuuuuupid white broad whose daughter was injured “down there” by the SONS of her best friend at her home daycare.

All of us women in the office looked at her like she was a fukking idiot because she didn’t understand why she said he daughter came home and said she was “hurting”.


Another story: someone I know in college used to babysit for a woman who had a known drug problem. She tried to help take her kids out of the apartment because her mother had men all up in there.
Know what happened one day when she went to change the baby girl’s diaper? The orifices were gaping.
Because the mother was selling her daughter to the men who were coming in and out the apartment. So obviously in this case the mother was the problem (along with the disgusting men), but it took a 16/17YO teenage girl to call the police and get it handled.
So yea, breh.




People are sick.



Old school rules: the women handle the babies.

Everyone knows at least one person who was molested, but wanna act shocked when women put certain rules in place to at least try to protect children, as if rape, molestation and incest aren’t issues that happen all the damn time.

Hood rat single mother babble.
This is the biological father of the child, not a step father, uncle, cousin, boy friend, or male friend.

It’s sick/weird for her to even think that her daughter’s father would do that.

If she’s gonna be that wierd about him changing her diaper, then does that mean she also won’t leave him around his own daughter unsupervised?

 

[Gloxina]

My Wife doesn’t work. We have two daughters (5 and 2). I didn’t cross my mind not to change my babies diapers. It crossed my Wife’s because she is a woman and knows all of the assault and molestation stories.

She was touched as a child by her mother’s boyfriend. Her older sister was as well. Older sister told mom and what did mom do? Nothing.

I found out a few years ago, my sister was raped as a child. Mutilated.

Does that have anything to do with me, her husband? No. But because I am a man, there is always the fear of men. Not fear me touching my children. Fearing a man being in those sensitive areas, if you understand what I am saying.

Point is, as men we should be able to empathize with women. We should also have the discussions, with our girlfriends, before we marry then produce children. As long as all parties are on the same page, all is well.

Of course, the issue is children out of wedlock and lack of discussions about child rearing.

QFE




I know that was tough to share, and even tougher to learn what happened to the ladies in your life when they were children.


Many men take it personally without, as you said, having some empathy and trying to understand why women take these precautions. The message may be better received from another man.

 

[Elle Seven]

Dr Jewel did mention that at one point she had to surgically reconsruct a child's private area due to the abuse.

Women can be just as violently abusive too.
And abuse also happens to boys

Fred

I was thinking this, too.

No shade to @Gloxina . I think you mentioned we all know someone or of someone (likely female) whose been molested.

Problem is, even on this board, we've seen many male posters say they were molested as boys, too, though - by women.

 

[Gloxina]

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Hood rat single mother babble.
This is the biological father of the child, not a step father, uncle, cousin, boy friend, or male friend.

It’s sick/weird for her to even think that her daughter’s father would do that.

If she’s gonna be that wierd about him changing her diaper, then does that mean she also won’t leave him around his own daughter unsupervised?

you’ve never heard of incest?

Girls…girls (kids) have never been raped by a father? Blood relative?

Child abuse statistics — Indiana Center for the Prevention of Youth Abuse & Suicide

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U.S.: key facts on incest 2022 | Statista

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