A Man Shouldn't Change Their Daughters, Diapers?

[Coco Loco]

You got her pregnant…

And she calls you gang…

This! That bytch been batshyt crazy. I only have sympathy for the baby

 

[mag357]

If you wipe off the tip of your shyt after taking a piss with toilet paper, you def didn't have yo daddy in your life.

U trying to clown somebody for being clean and hygienic.
And MFers dapped that sht. Smh

U da same people that only wipe ur ass with dry tissue and keep in moving.

nikkaz drawz got pissy fronts and Doo Doo crumb backs
U Might ass well just wear a diaper my G

 

[Sauce and Footwork]

Old school.


She’s following old school rules. Men don’t bathe, clothe the baby or change diapers, etc.

Not being funny but besides seemingly having the kid out of wedlock (?), she’s following old school rules.

He’s got a good one

Thats fukking stupid lol and it’s called being lazy and inconsiderate. Real fathers help with the children, not just paying bills and playing with them. Changing diapers , assisting with baths and dressing when they are that young. Feeding them when your wife needs help

Regardless, a woman who is old school just gonna say she got it, on some relax I got it shyt, or I don’t like how you do it stuff. That’s fine

It’s absolute insanity for a woman to not allow you to perform such a basic act on your baby assuming you have potential inappropriate sexual behaviors.

 

[Why-Fi]

i would think better parents should be thinking more so about the childs development than their own gender biases but i guess putting the kid first is too much to ask

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of course i had to do it sometimes, your honor. besides there are countless other ways to bond with a child besides pee-pee and poop-poop

fighting mommy over who is changing the diaper isnt one of them

 

[stepbackj34spud]

This is wild shyt. Yall have to stop posting dumb shyt. If i ever have a daughter, cant nobody tell me i cant change her pamper.

 

[Unbothered]

It sounds crazy but I get it. Might not have anything to do with her not trusting or thinking the baby's father sickly gets down like that.

It could be that she was taught or told by other women in her family to watch over her daughter when it comes to bathing, changing diapers, etc y'know let the women attend to the girls and let the men of the family attend to the boys.

If this was a baby boy, she'd probably be okay with it because, y'know, he's a man, and that's his son, but with a daughter, I could understand why she feels the need to be the only one washing and changing her diapers.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

of course i had to do it sometimes, your honor. besides there are countless other ways to bond with a child besides pee-pee and poop-poop

yeah everything is a choice with parents, it's just don't think people know that it has a psychological impact otherwise i think they would get over the "ewww it's gross" or the "you have a penis so you can't do it" arbitrary excuses, knowing that it's another chance to bond with the kid. i don't think better parents would want to limit those types of opportunities for dumb reasons.

 

[Devilinurear]

Yeah she definitely was molested as a child.

 

[Rekkapryde]

This is either incredibly naive, or trying to downplay the reason why some follow this rule.

You are right; people are sick. You can comb this site alone to read stories about ppl who were molested at a very young age. You can do Google searches and read absolutely disgusting, heartbreaking stories about kids who are too young to talk/communicate who were harmed when they were still in diapers.


Hell, I know a stuuuuuupid white broad whose daughter was injured “down there” by the SONS of her best friend at her home daycare.

All of us women in the office looked at her like she was a fukking idiot because she didn’t understand why she said he daughter came home and said she was “hurting”.


Another story: someone I know in college used to babysit for a woman who had a known drug problem. She tried to help take her kids out of the apartment because her mother had men all up in there.
Know what happened one day when she went to change the baby girl’s diaper? The orifices were gaping.
Because the mother was selling her daughter to the men who were coming in and out the apartment. So obviously in this case the mother was the problem (along with the disgusting men), but it took a 16/17YO teenage girl to call the police and get it handled.
So yea, breh.




People are sick.



Old school rules: the women handle the babies.

Everyone knows at least one person who was molested, but wanna act shocked when women put certain rules in place to at least try to protect children, as if rape, molestation and incest aren’t issues that happen all the damn time.

You 200% right about not letting any and everyone do shyt with your children. Too many sick fukks out there, including family members sadly

But a daddy gotta be a dad and help bath and wash their babies too.

 

[Why-Fi]

yeah everything is a choice with parents, it's just don't think people know that it has a psychological impact otherwise i think they would get over the "ewww it's gross" or the "you have a penis so you can't do it" arbitrary excuses, knowing that it's another chance to bond with the kid. i don't think better parents would want to limit those types of opportunities for dumb reasons.

gotta pick your battles, none of us are perfect

 

[Sauce and Footwork]

It sounds crazy but I get it. Might not have anything to do with her not trusting or thinking the baby's father sickly gets down like that.

It could be that she was taught or told by other women in her family to watch over her daughter when it comes to bathing, changing diapers, etc y'know let the women attend to the girls and let the men of the family attend to the boys.

If this was a baby boy, she'd probably be okay with it because, y'know, he's a man, and that's his son, but with a daughter, I could understand why she feels the need to be the only one washing and changing her diapers.

It’s a baby .. not a 2 or 3 year old girl even. A baby.. it does come with implications and incredibly anti-intellectual

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

gotta pick your battles, none of us are perfect

well, now you at least know

 

[Sauce and Footwork]

I appreciate having your child’s safety in mind…. But how do you decide to procreate with a man you think could be even 1% capable of having anything but pure intentions with your baby lol. People have babies who hate each other and don’t trust each other. That’s called being an irresponsible adult and makes you a horrible parent by default for your poor decision making.

We not talking little girls … we talking about babies right now. Babies

 

[Tookalossfellbackcameback]

Oldest daughter is 16...changed her diaper and gave her baths. Youngest daughter is 4...changed her diaper and gave her baths.




Now that I know what I know about certain posters it's crazy to see folks with ZERO children giving their input on this type of shyt.

 

[Sbp]

I’m not trolling. Lawd.


Never mind.



Of course dads change diapers.


My point was that it was old school for women to generally handle things like bathing, clothing and yes, diapers (obviously not exclusively).

Who didn't know that though? That was a point that did not need to be made. The woman said she doesn't want her child's father to change her diapers because she doesn't trust him around her like that. Her reasoning had nothing to do with old school values and traditions. She is not that type of woman otherwise he'd be referring to her as his wife. I'm sure you were able to come to that conclusion as well. You came in throwing a curveball just to get attention.