A lot of women aren't attracted to their husbands

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

if men were on a ship with majority women 24/7 they would cheat too
i dont care if they have meg thee stallion at home

This. What the hell does them cheating far away from their mate without repercussions have to do with being attracted to their mate? It's called opportunities and low character.

 

[Wiseborn]

Actually no, I had my fun in the Navy my guy. I'm just being realistic from experience. I done seen someone's wife walk up to me and my boy and ask us to watch porn with her while on deployment. According to you that's normal though . I just hate how a lot of yall hypocrites say that #GMB is immature when it makes the most sense. If you want proof ask anyone on this site that was also in the Navy, they will tell you the same thing.

How do you watch porn on a ship? And where does it happen?
I've seen those little ass racks y'all call beds

 

[Wiseborn]

This. What the hell does them cheating far away from their mate without repercussions have to do with being attracted to their mate? It's called opportunities and low character.

You have a point. I saw two chicks low key fighting over a higher rankings dude on the deployment and I asked one of them in a roundabout way what happens when they got home? ( All parties were married) and she said nothing would happen. And nothing did it was like it didn't happen not even gossip seemed to get back to the married folks.

 

[Wiseborn]

Dont ever take it personally. If she ain't attracted to you who cares. Not like its your fault what you look like.

Just live your best life and fukk people who you have attraction to and enjoy the moment for what it is. Once she's not in your precense anymore she is for the streets. If you have that mentality you can never get hurt its just

This complete monogamy in the extreme situations is usually unlikely

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Women ain’t shyt. Grand opening grand closing

@Crayola Coyote staying on brand

 

[ThrobbingHood]

men do this all time.

They're just not as vocal about it, when they do it.

The way I see women run with this statement make seem as if all men are rolling in dimes and they never compromise on looks, for the sake of comparability.

I've dated a few women that weren't as on my level attraction wise, and I heard it from my peers and family.

My own mom trashed my ex gf for being too plain or homely looking, while constantly encouraging me to do better.

Heck I remember posting a pic of my ex & I on the main board before. Unanimously almost all the women on here trashed her(she wasn't black) while saying I could do better(DM's were exchanged ), while all dudes on here found her attractive. ( ).

When i date I care more compatibility than I do looks. Obviously a woman should be a attractive but I'm not expecting a dime, maybe a 6 or 7.

Breh. This is me exactly. Imma keep it 100 and I’ve said it before. My current girl and previous ex’s were strong 6/7s in the face but always had banging bodies. But for me, if I’m dating seriously, looks are 4/5th in the list.

Of course I wouldn’t say that to my current lady. You just have to tell em they’re beautiful. Just don’t let them see you interacting with any dimes though. One of my jump offs waved to me when I was with my girl. I tried to hit her with the:

My lady didn’t talk to me for a week.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

How do you watch porn on a ship? And where does it happen?
I've seen those little ass racks y'all call beds

Phones,laptops and tablets. On deployment most people spend their free time working out or watching media (movies,porn, TV shows). That's why everyone brings hard drives on deployment to exchange movies n shyt. Most people watch porn in their racks, just make sure you close your curtain . On my last deployment we had a pervy supervisor (IT1) and he would watch porn on thee TV in berthing. So I would come down the stairs ready to sleep only to see Lacey Duvalle gettting blasted on the big screen.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

You have a point. I saw two chicks low key fighting over a higher rankings dude on the deployment and I asked one of them in a roundabout way what happens when they got home? ( All parties were married) and she said nothing would happen. And nothing did it was like it didn't happen not even gossip seemed to get back to the married folks.

Norfolk?

 

[Yo Mama]

I do have to say though that there is much more of a chance for attraction to grow exponentially from a woman's point of view than from a man's.

Even if a woman doesn't find a guy attractive at the first meeting there is still a big chance for that to change if more time is spent together/they get to know each other more. I hear and see this all the time, in the beginning she was kind of "meh" about him but then either other attributes like intelligence, humor, loyalty etc reveal themselves and suddenly she's obsessed.

If a guy doesn't think you're cute from the beginning it's pretty much over relationship wise.

So all in all, cheating is more of a lack of character thing to me.

Lol.

My friends father used to say us:

"Girls NEVER marry a man who doesn't love you coz he isn't going to change and fall in love with your coz of your personality one day.

Its better if you marry a man you aren't inlove with coz you have a higher chance of maybe loving him one day."

____________

I agree with the bolded.

 

[African Peasant]

You seem agitated.

 

[African Peasant]

Nah, the military is actually the perfect situation to test a marriage. The military is one of the rare cases where one spouse can disappear for a year on deployment. People reveal their nature in such an environment . I seen all kinds of people join the military: hillbillies, intellectuals. The military nowadays mostly attracts people trying to pay for college or healthcare NOT necessary people with a certain character. I've seen all kinds of characters while I was in.

You don't test a marriage. It's a dumb idea in the first place.

If you create the objective conditions for something to happen... well it will propbably gonna happen.

In a place of extreme promiscuity between men and women, sex is likely going to happen.

Having men and women in closed spaces or foreign is just a dumb idea in the first place.

Even the most faithful woman with the most attractive man at home might end up cheating if yu sent her six months in a boat or military base with a bunch of other men, even men inferior to her man.

The "she'll cheat" because the other man is more handsome is very simplistic explanation of women's behaviors and sexuality.

This. What the hell does them cheating far away from their mate without repercussions have to do with being attracted to their mate? It's called opportunities and low character.

OP does not seem to understand what he's talking about.

 

[semicko82]

I wish we could bring the Wild West back, a lot less cheating would be going on knowing that man can kill you. The French got it right, you can kill another dude and get off with crime of passion. Instead we got these bullshyt CAC laws protecting filthy swines

that’s kinda naive thinking breh

 

[King Poetic]

White Women are pros at that

I work with ton of women at my insurance company and a sister who is a gossiping queen telling me about at least 5 beckys and 5 Susan’s who all just got married because they wanted to be married by 30 or 35, regardless of how the dude look.. and a few was out here cheating on they man

this is why dudes who are in a relationship, should never rushed into a marriage, take your time..

that’s why I like how don cheadle did his shyt.. took him 15 years to finally married his woman and not rush off like mos def and wife a chick after 3 weeks

 

[King]

A lot of women are force fed the “looks don’t matter” “just look for a provider” and get stuck humping a fat hairy balding man for the rest of their lives. You never see good looking men complaining their wives don’t want to fukk them it’s the fat ugly old ones who have to beg their wives for sex.

Nah, it's mainly mental. Attractiveness is more important to men.

I know handsome dudes who got cheated on. Most of the time the dudes they cheated with were average looking, but more "mentally stimulating"

When a dude even gets to the point where he has to beg his wife for sex, he lost his woman's respect and attraction in the relationship

 

[Goat poster]

How a man looks (whatever that means) probably doesn't have as much to do with him getting cheated on as you think.

Cheating is more about having options, a lack of discipline, something possibly not being fulfilled with your current partner, and/or the opportunity presenting itself.

Most people (male and female) would do something under the right circumstances and with the right person. Most people would say contrary; however, I believe otherwise.

Women get dikk thrown at them daily which gives them the opportunity to be more selective about who they have sex with than most men. The majority of men aren't getting the offer of sex thrown at them to the degree your average and above average woman is getting it thrown at them.

The only exceptions to that rule are men having money, assets, and popularity as well as men that women are just overwhelmingly naturally attracted to.

A lot of men laugh at other men, but some man either is currently or was slutting out the woman you love right now.

Nobody wants to willingly be a fool, but you better believe she learned all those tricks she's using on you somewhere. Women are much more cunning and calculated than we are as men. Most of them aren't going to get caught up doing bone headed shyt, but that doesn't mean that aren't doing shyt.

For most fellas, all you got to do is check their phone and their whole history of philandering is right there for curious eyes to see.

Realist post in the thread.