Yeah men have got to get over the idea of controlling a women's mind, body, and soul. I mean they never have. Just require respect for the union and family(its still gmb because you can't even get this).If you are a fit, intelligent, papered-up man on your purpose, the only thing you need a woman for is to give you healthy, intelligent, attractive kids and assist you in providing for their upbringings and contributing to your dynasty. Marriage or not.
After that is fulfilled, you shouldn't give a goddamn what she does when you aren't around. You'll never fully know unless she does something flagrantly disrespectful or you hire somebody to follow her.
Not being an incel, but women hit that wall at some point, and while they control sex, men control commitment and everything else. Just be somebody and have shyt. Women learn to sniff out success and confidence like bloodhounds from as young as five years old.
Eh, it’s not unrealistic for a woman to marry someone shes attracted to that is also a decent provider, its adding whatever other checks, especially if they’re very elaborate that make it more difficult/near impossible. Definitely has to figure out what she really prioritizes, and make compromises in other areas that aren’t as critical for her. Many do.
In fact per the op, there is a number of women that aren’t attracted to their husbands. Suffice to say many of these women may have prioritized other things over attraction and sex, and make those compromises in those areas, only to find that over time when compounded by other issues taking place in the marriage, that his looks and sex mattered more than she realized.[/QUOTE]