A lot of women aren't attracted to their husbands

[RisingSon]

Monogamy is unnatural

 

[Silky Johnson]

Prove me wrong. I seen it in the military from first hand perspective .

Whenever we got a new woman in my division and she would spend the first few weeks talking about her husband all day and how much she loves him. A lot of us would hit the because we already knew what the deal was. Fast forward to a few months and she's getting a train ran on her on the ship (I have personally seen this happen 3 times while I was in the Navy). It's even worse on deployment. These wives were throwing orgies in their hotels whenever we hit a port . Imagine kissing your wife on the mouth when she pulls back in from a deployment where she got ran thru. Each time I wanted to tell the husband, but I figured they wouldn't believe me.


The fact is that women have to balance between men they find attractive, and men with resources. A man with both is rare so most women just marry the man with resources and get some D on the side from men they attracted to .
That's why I always when #Uglygang convice themselves to stack their paper; what makes you think she won't cheat on you my guy.
#GMB A lot of you married brehs about to be mad

What kind of man is personally watching pull their dikks out on at least 3 occasions?

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

How a man looks (whatever that means) probably doesn't have as much to do with him getting cheated on as you think.

Cheating is more about having options, a lack of discipline, something possibly not being fulfilled with your current partner, and/or the opportunity presenting itself.

This is a good point.

But it works this way more so for men than women.

Women have less testosterone and thus a lower sex drive which means more self-control.

When women cheat it's often because of attraction and emotions that come from that attraction.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Like Ashley said, women are much more encouraged to overlook looks whereas men wouldn't dare compromise on the looks department because it's very important to them. The financial aspect, being somewhat of an upstanding guy and if he might be good with kids are much more emphasized than sexual compatibility and attractiveness.

I feel you. It should be normalized for both genders to prioritize attractiveness though.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Simply put, women marry for security, not love. If it was for love, they wouldn’t be pushing for marriage. Is a ceremony going to make you love someone even more? That whole “commitment” talk is just a euphemism for collateral.

“I’m not going to invest all these years into this man without something to show for it.”

Having said that, if women marry for security, what are men marrying for? You can still have all the same benefits without marriage.

Like I said in another thread, most married women didn’t even marry their third choice.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

What kind of man is personally watching pull their dikks out on at least 3 occasions?

Have you stepped on a naval ship breh. There's not much space. My division alone only had two spaces: one was our office and the other was our "workshop". When you get off watch sometimes you go to the workshop. I have walked in on 3 trains in my workcenter breh. You really can't avoid it. It's not "personally watching" there's really only a few places you can go on a ship to relax. The messdecks (usually packed), the smoke pit (I don't smoke), your workcenter (where most people fukkkk) and berthing (lights are usually off because people are sleeping). Most people end up going to their workcenter to relax = you often walk in on people fukkkking at night.

 

[cobra]

if men were on a ship with majority women 24/7 they would cheat too
i dont care if they have meg thee stallion at home

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Monogamy is unnatural

We honestly need to go back to polygamy. it makes the most sense and is biologically what was natural to us.

 

[Saltmoney]

I do have to say though that there is much more of a chance for attraction to grow exponentially from a woman's point of view than from a man's.

Even if a woman doesn't find a guy attractive at the first meeting there is still a big chance for that to change if more time is spent together/they get to know each other more. I hear and see this all the time, in the beginning she was kind of "meh" about him but then either other attributes like intelligence, humor, loyalty etc reveal themselves and suddenly she's obsessed.

If a guy doesn't think you're cute from the beginning it's pretty much over relationship wise.

So all in all, cheating is more of a lack of character thing to me.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I wish we could bring the Wild West back, a lot less cheating would be going on knowing that man can kill you. The French got it right, you can kill another dude and get off with crime of passion. Instead we got these bullshyt CAC laws protecting filthy swines

 

[Paper Boi]

the majority of women aren't in the military.

maybe it attracts a certain kind. especially if she getting trains run on her... cheating is one thing...

 

[Cat piss martini]

this is why I stay in shape
and dont play favorites or take prisoners.
I know plenty of married women
that throw p*ssy at me like crazy.
women will fukk with a nikka she cant
control and the second he conform to
her program she'll cheat with another nikka
that remind her of how you used to be.
I'm so submerged in this player shyt.
I know broads fukk with me cause they
cant fukk with me.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I honestly disagree with this. Both genders need to consider sexual attraction as an essential aspect of spouse selection. How can your marriage last if you're not attracted to your partner .

we said the same thing, how do you disagree?

 

[Manolo]

I do have to say though that there is much more of a chance for attraction to grow exponentially from a woman's point of view than from a man's.

Even if a woman doesn't find a guy attractive at the first meeting there is still a big chance for that to change if more time is spent together/they get to know each other more. I hear and see this all the time, in the beginning she was kind of "meh" about him but then either other attributes like intelligence, humor, loyalty etc reveal themselves and suddenly she's obsessed.

If a guy doesn't think you're cute from the beginning it's pretty much over relationship wise.

I hear women say this all the time but I don't know if true attraction can be negotiated like that. Women know within minutes if they're sexually aroused by you and she has a different type of sex with men she feels that way towards. This type of situation usually turns into "I love him but I'm not in love with him."

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

I do have to say though that there is much more of a chance for attraction to grow exponentially from a woman's point of view than from a man's.

Even if a woman doesn't find a guy attractive at the first meeting there is still a big chance for that to change if more time is spent together/they get to know each other more. I hear and see this all the time, in the beginning she was kind of "meh" about him but then either other attributes like intelligence, humor, loyalty etc reveal themselves and suddenly she's obsessed.

If a guy doesn't think you're cute from the beginning it's pretty much over relationship wise.

So all in all, cheating is more of a lack of character thing to me.

I get what you're saying but all those qualities go out the window if someone more attractive than her husband enters the picture. "my husband is such a nice guy, but this other guy is ______________".