They are lazy, and thats it. Dude at my job is like this. Like you said, hes a schmuck. Shes got a degree, and has had it for years now. She got pregnant, and stopped working. Kid is almost 3 now. She hasnt worked since. He asked me what he should do.TBH....I don't get women who the day they get pregnant that's it to their career.
I know they say it's best for the kids but I wonder how many were just lazy unambitious people in the first place ?
I get when kids are young....but I have always wondered what sort of person just says fukk it and NEVER goes back. to ANYTHING.
Those women are strange and they usually have some shmuck who is funding their lifestyle. So many women aspire to the 'real housewives' lifestyle but I wonder who the idiot is at the other end.
Minus financial, I always wonder what they DO especially after the kids leave...
I think what happens and a lot of women don't want to admit this, but once they find a partner and get pregnant, motherhood and generally speaking domestic life are preferable to the rigors of a career and moving up the ladder. Once the husband got to the point in his career where he can support a household it made no sense from the wife's standpoint to pursue any real work. Once the kids got older, she became acclimated to a life where she doesn't have to get up at 6:30 AM and be back by 8PM, where she can pursue her hobbies and personal interests without fear of the house falling apart. I usually don't advocate for this but the husband seems extremely unhappy and with the kids grown, he should probably divorce his wife.
I will say though that these women won, it's sad that 9/10 times theres an idiot at the other end damn near dead to fund it all for them.
I wouldnt want her to work if WE dont have to. Unless you are filthy rich, 2 incomes are better than 1. shyt, she can even keep the money from her job all to herself.He sound like a bytch
I dont believe any man really wants his s/o to work if she dont want to
They are lazy, and thats it. Dude at my job is like this. Like you said, hes a schmuck. Shes got a degree, and has had it for years now. She got pregnant, and stopped working. Kid is almost 3 now. She hasnt worked since. He asked me what he should do.
Yeah an anonymous letter is going to make her look for a job
Nikka u ever heard of bills?He sound like a bytch
I dont believe any man really wants his s/o to work if she dont want to