Dying alone is no longer the serve it used to be. Older women are shown to have rich communities of friends and family. They also tend to have less health problems and report being happier than older married women. In the end though, all of us die alone so this never made sense anyway.
And if fear is the only perk somebody has to offer, it’s not much of one.
That “get with me, put up with my shyt, so you can wipe my ass when I’m 70 b/c ur probably gonna outlive me anyway” package just ain’t hitting. And I personally believe good, stable, quality relationships and marriages are the pinnacle of all human interactions. But only if it’s with someone you truly want, that also wants you and is willing to be a true partner in every sense of the word.
Otherwise, it’s not worth it…to your health or quality of life.
A lotta men won’t admit it, but they’re real life in competition with women. They lowkey see children as bondage or a disruption in the pursuit of true happiness. It decreases a woman’s value.. They can’t imagine women not wanting children in any capacity ..married w/children (is seen as a deduction) or single mother (where the shaming is even worse) ‘levels’ the playing field and gives men one less reason to shyt on women that’s single, successful, independent and happy.. this increases their appeal. In some men who suffer deep seeded issues/resentment with the opposite sex it incites bitterness and indignation.. sometimes even envy. Strange phenomenon that happens here
My dad used to tell me some men back in the day hoped children would keep women in their place while they got to play.
I didn’t get what he was saying when I was younger but I do now.
Yeah it’s sad but this is a hole many dug for themselves and pride won’t let them admit to their fukk ups, so they double down on the woman hate and call it “accountability”, while still failing to account for their own hubris that brought humanity to this point. I honestly don’t understand how people COULDN’T see this happening.
And yeah, crony capitalism is very much related to this. The quality of life of women in any economy is a marker of the success of the nation. Attempts at being HOHs retards growth and evolution but people too slow to get it. We are going to lose generations globally due to this shyt. It’s just one big existential Darwin award. But there is still hope as this isn’t most women…yet. But it is spreading.
Personally I don’t think dogs are gonna fill the biological imperative of motherhood
(for some of these women this shyt is a cop out) but at the same time, working and putting up with shyt women did in the past, AND raising kids with somebody you barely want, just doesn’t sound like an attractive option either.