70% becomes the new 80%..........80 Percent of new Divorces Are Filed By Women

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It's clear that women seem to settle a lot. They just want a family and that whole ideal American life so they get with men they know they don't really want but they're willing to settle for and regardless of how much that man does, that woman will not be happy because he is not who she really wanted.

Then of course there's financial reasons, then men and women most of time are just really not compatible at all, they don't have the same interests, the same long-term goals, plus men and women don't communicate the same and interpret things differently etc..

Any marriage that last is an amazing thing especially if the couple is still happy with each other.
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It's clear that women seem to settle a lot. They just want a family and that whole ideal American life so they get with men they know they don't really want but they're willing to settle for and regardless of how much that man does, that woman will not be happy because he is not who she really wanted.

Then of course there's financial reasons, then men and women most of time are just really not compatible at all, they don't have the same interests, the same long-term goals, plus men and women don't communicate the same and interpret things differently etc..

Any marriage that last is an amazing thing especially if the couple is still happy with each other.
Why do you say that women settle?
I'm just getting the feeling that you're saying women settle, but men don't. Or that men settle less often.

Just curious why you think that is

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I see your reasons in here. But I'm trying to understand...if women are settling...but women are also initiating divorce...what does that say about men? Meaning...does that imply that men are comfortable sticking out a relationship more than women because they don't initiate divorce at the same rate?

Serious question. Not trying to troll.
 

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no one is perfect in this life...if you are looking for a white knight on a horse to save you...you will be disappointed

Ok to whatever the hell you're talking about.

Why do you say that women settle?
I'm just getting the feeling that you're saying women settle, but men don't. Or that men settle less often.

Just curious why you think that is

Im not saying that. Men settle too but they are also easier to please ( non coli men of course).

You don't have to give a man much to make him happy.

This is based on my observations.
 

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Ok to whatever the hell you're talking about.



Im not saying that. Men settle too but they are also easier to please ( non coli men of course).

You don't have to give a man much to make him happy.

This is based on my observations.
I edited my post but I think you answered it anyway
 

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:ehh:I'd put a ring on ya finger.

Just don't break my heart. :lupe:
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Most of that is due to financial reasons, I bet. It can seriously tear a relationship apart, especially if one partner isn't financially responsible at all. Being laid off and not being able to find a job, or being stuck in a job that pays very little doesn't help either.
 

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The problem is simple.

Men know that Marriage is hell and are somewhat prepare for what's to come. That's why it's so hard for us to agree to get married.
Women dream of a fairytale wedding and marriage. America teaches our women that the deserve all their desires. Endless love and happiness no matter what horrible decision they make.


Marriage is so stupid nowadays. The only marriages I see working are my brothers in Louisiana. Where the girls come from the country with both parents. Where the man is a leader and alpha male type. And the woman is down to earth, submissive, realistic, non-material, non-ratchet. The type that put family over careers. You fools can't see the type to marry anyway. You can't contain these career driven, love to travel, love to eat out, hangout, be out all the time type chicks. You can't please them. Nothing is enough. Get married bruhs.

Never wife an extroverted chick. Especially if she from the Western World.

I see that marriage will come to an end in the western world and people only meet up for casual sex well into their 60's
 

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Solution: Don't marry American women :manny:

Shows like Scandal and Sex and the City, subconsciously program these women. An Amish chick >> Professional woman. These woman aren't in a relationship with you, they are COMPETING WITH YOU. btw do other races of women bring up their Degrees in an argument like Black women? :lupe:
 

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Worse part is, with the way society is going, its NOT going to get any better :whew: :wow:

The young girls of this generation are 100x more ratchet and wild than the women who are divorcing their partners right now :snoop: :to:

Heh, these bytches will do anything for a payday. They have no value system or no stance to anything, but to get more money and more "fun." and by "more," it means never enough.
 
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