70% becomes the new 80%..........80 Percent of new Divorces Are Filed By Women

[StickStickly]

The problem is simple.

Men know that Marriage is hell and are somewhat prepare for what's to come. That's why it's so hard for us to agree to get married.
Women dream of a fairytale wedding and marriage. America teaches our women that the deserve all of their hearts desires. Endless love and happiness no matter what horrible decision they make.


Marriage is so stupid nowadays. The only marriages I see working are my brothers in Louisiana. Where the girls come from the country with both parents. Where the man is a leader and alpha male type. And the woman is down to earth, submissive, realistic, non-material, non-ratchet. The type that put family over careers. You fools can't see the type to marry anyway. You can't contain these career driven, love to travel, love to eat out, hangout, be out all the time type chicks. You can't please them. Nothing is enough. Get married bruhs.

Are you introverted? I ask this because the traits you listed are traits of extroverted women. Introverted men and women find it daunting and difficult to keep up with this extroverted partners and may feel inadequate, tired, and frustrated when they think they have to change themselves for their mate.

 

[Chris.B]

Are you introverted? I ask this because the traits you listed are traits of extroverted women. Introverted men and women find it daunting and difficult to keep up with this extroverted partners and may feel inadequate, tired, and frustrated when they think they have to change themselves for their mate.

most people as they grow up tend to more introverted.

 

[Chris.B]

women won't put up with the bullsh*t that they used to in the old days and the beta males of the "get married brehs coalition" can't stand it.

is that accurate?

80% is too much of a sizable number to draw that conclusion.
80% of men can't be at fault in these marriages. It's impossible.

 

[Cape]

These women want a WEDDING not an actual marriage. They fix their mouths to say all the vows which include better worse richer poorer all that sh!t (or at least they already know that those are the traditional vows) and then be like "This is worse and poorer so I want out". So why did you sit up there in front of G-d, and your family and fake jacks. More importantly, why toy with a man and some unwanted kids like this?

Women for the most part are not at their best unless they have anstrong hand to guide them. Liberalism has convinced people that personal enjoyment is the highest goal and everything else.. even the well being of yoir own kids... be damned.

I was married to a selfish ass modern independant woman. When I explained to her that she would have to pick a city to raise our children in cause it's not healthy to move them every few years just cause we think Arizona looks interesting - once it really sunk in that she would have to give up her whims for the sake of our children - she suddenly didn't want children anymore. Think about your own parents choosing travel over your existence. (never had kids with her)

She should be able to travel and have kids. I'm tired of the rampant misogyny that is exhibited on the coli. A woman can be strong, independent AND still be a capable mother and wife. Be honest you want a female slave?

 

[Wild self]

She should be able to travel and have kids. I'm tired of the rampant misogyny that is exhibited on the coli. A woman can be strong, independent AND still be a capable mother and wife. Be honest you want a female slave?

If "slave" you mean by being comfortable in her own skin to appreciate the small things in life (spending her spare time with her husband, the kids, volunteer work to help needy people), then yes, I would rather have a "slave" that is humble than an "independent" lady that endangers everything for her own selfish goals.

 

[Cape]

If "slave" you mean by being comfortable in her own skin to appreciate the small things in life (spending her spare time with her husband, the kids, volunteer work to help needy people), then yes, I would rather have a "slave" that is humble than an "independent" lady that endangers everything for her own selfish goals.

You want a woman to be in the kitchen and be accessible to sex whenever YOU want. She should be able to work, run her own business, watch pointless television and mimic it anytime she wants. It is 2013!! We are not under sharia law. My wife could spit on me and i'd glady massage it into my skin, we are in a real relationship.

 

[Wild self]

You want a woman to be in the kitchen and be accessible to sex whenever YOU want. She should be able to work, run her own business, watch pointless television and mimic it anytime she wants. It is 2013!! We are not under sharia law. My wife could spit on me and i'd glady massage it into my skin, we are in a real relationship.

you a Grade A

 

[Un-AmericanDreamer]

You want a woman to be in the kitchen and be accessible to sex whenever YOU want. She should be able to work, run her own business, watch pointless television and mimic it anytime she wants. It is 2013!! We are not under sharia law. My wife could spit on me and i'd glady massage it into my skin, we are in a real relationship.

It took me awhile to figure out the angle but it's brilliant breh.This cape alias might be the truth.

 

[mcdivit85]

I also dont agree with the men always ruling shyt. He can rule some but when your wife is completely submissive, dont expect for her to be a go-getter. So you want a chick that has her own, out there beating nikkas up in the corporate world, taking charge and being aggressive enough to provide for herself...but come home to you and take your orders?

I mean it sounds great but its not realistic. What IS realistic is letting the man feel like he is in charge, alst while being the actual ringleader. Worked for my grandparents on both sides. The man got to stunt in public, the wife ran shyt behind closed doors. Win-win. And both sets of grandparents loved eachother till the day one of them died.

You're making the assumption that men want that kind of woman, which I think is an issue with the interaction between men and women these days. Some women seem to believe that men find attractive the same things that women find attractive in men. If a man is true "go-getter, alpha male" type, then he's not going to want the "boss b#tch" type. Don't let fugasi hip hop slogans fool you.

There's this idea of "bosses getting with bosses" or "a real dude wants a boss chick in his life", which is patently false in the real world. A man who's secure in himself can respect and appreciate a woman who is a strong person...sure. However, respecting strength of character does not mean wanting a woman who is competing for leadership of the relationship. It also does not mean wanting a woman who feels that she needs to "let" her man do things.

Too many women confuse strength with being combative, under-handed, sexually alluring to various men and other confrontational traits. However, some examples that men would consider truly strong are:

- the strength of character to know who to date and who not to date...choosing men for substance instead of swag...not giving the best of you to the worst of men
- the strength of character to know that if he's someone who you choose to be with(substance), then he should be worth your submission
- the strength of character to understand that submission is a gift to your man and not a curse to yourself...that a quality man uses that gift for the benefit of both of you
- the strength of character to not cheat even if the relationship is not as fun as it once was or just to get back at him for pissing you off
- the strength of character to be loyal in spite of the fact that your co-workers and ex-boyfriends are constantly hitting you up and blowing your ego into the 10th stratosphere
- the strength of character to apologize when you're wrong and not be combative just to save face(hell everyone of the Coli could take a cue from this one)

So, I see your point, but the same men who are taking issue with this topic are probably not the same men who would play the role of your grandfathers.

Peace

 

[Groanman]

"What? You gone divorce me now?"

"Well, go on then."

 

[StickStickly]

most people as they grow up tend to more introverted.

most people as they grow up tend to more introverted.

True. But I think you're interpreting introverted as staying home. That's not necessarily the case. Yes as people age they tend to stay home more and their social circles become smaller as well as their desire to "go out", however introversion and extroversion in the psych field refers to pervasive personality traits that endure over a lifetime. Introversion and extroversion are ways of viewing and interpreting one's existence in the world. Extroverted women like how Stunt described are energized and fulfilled by being around people and experiencing new things. Introverted people are energized by the opposite, but can still enjoy extroversion and vice versa. I think introverted people can become attracted to extroverts because they at first their ability to draw them out of their shell is attractive. But after awhile it can become exhausting and they may resent the extrovert. IMO Stunt is grouping all women into a category that explains personality traits, not feminism, not career building. Perhaps he had a bad experience and now resents these types of people.

 

[Scientific]

Lets be real. It could just mean men cheat more.

 

[Chris.B]

Lets be real. It could just mean men cheat more.

80% of men cheat?

 

[Sharp]

If a man gets married it's because he has decided to stay with that woman for life.

It's a much more longer decision/process for us to get married than women. Women live for this day, while most men just concede to it.

We're normally content, while women expect more and more from you once you're married. All we normally ask is that you feed, sex us, keep a steady job, and occasionally chill out at times.

Most women get bored easily. They need constant excitement (marriage is not an amusement park full of games and rides)

 

[Chris.B]

If a man gets married it's because he has decided to stay with that woman for life.

It's a much more longer decision/process for us to get married than women. Women live for this day, while most men just concede to it.

We're normally content, while women expect more and more from you once you're married. All we normally ask is that you feed, sex us, keep a steady job, and occasionally chill out at times.

Most women get bored easily. They need constant excitement (marriage is not an amusement park full of games and rides)

Women were never filing for diivorces at this rate 50 years ago