70% becomes the new 80%..........80 Percent of new Divorces Are Filed By Women

[Rominati]

funny to me when I see posts like this....you have no clue.
No one goes out to marry someone they hate. People change overtime..

A concept not alot of young adults tend to understand. It goes for friends and family too. The person you know at 21 is NOT gonna be the same person at 31. So regardless of anything. You cant go into a marriage FULLY prepared. All you can enter it in, is with love and communication.

 

[I'm Billy FUCO!!]

Worse part is, with the way society is going, its NOT going to get any better

The young girls of this generation are 100x more ratchet and wild than the women who are divorcing their partners right now

But here's what gets me, though.....I'll bet you marriage still won't see a major decline despite this obvious increase in ratchetness

These same ratchet hoes and sluts are STILL gonna end up getting married. Simp-ass nikkas are gonna be on some "her past is her past" shyt and wife them up. nikkas like Kanye and Wiz are teaching our young boys that's it's OK to wife/impregnate a whore, who will most likely leave you in the long run....as long as the bytch is fine and the ass was fat, and you get to claim her for a time

Men of every race and class need to take a stand. Y'all bytches wanna be all sexually free and "I'm an independent woman who can have as many men as I want"? Fine, do you. But consider yourself unwifeable . Y'all can't be like Kobe anymore; y'all can't play the game then expect to get a ring when you're finished playing. No marriage for your hoe ass. Best you'll get out of us is child support should we slip up and get you pregnant. That's it.

But the simps won't allow such a thing.....

A concept not alot of young adults tend to understand. It goes for friends and family too. The person you know at 21 is NOT gonna be the same person at 31. So regardless of anything. You cant go into a marriage FULLY prepared. All you can enter it in, is with love and communication.

So why get married, then?

Since we're accepting the fact that eventually people change over time, and that can affect/ruin the marriage.....

If a chick and I both agree that time causes people to "change" and "grow apart", then the fukk would she wanna get married for? Why not let's just do our thing until one of us "changes", gets sick of the other, then we break and we each keep our share of what we had before the relationship? Why should the man put himself in a position where the woman can "grow apart" from him as people tend to do, then because of that change, she's allowed to take his kids, his property and a chunk of his money for present and future payments (other than child support, if necessary)? I think I'll pass on that......

 

[Chris.B]

open marriages last the longest

no way you can get most women to agree to that because she knows you will screw around at every opportunity

 

[Spoonz]

no way you can get most women to agree to that because she knows you will screw around at every opportunity

if she gets to screw around to then there's no issue.

 

[Chris.B]

if she gets to screw around to then there's no issue.

way too STD's to be playing these games bruh

 

[Ain't That Something]

funny to me when I see posts like this....you have no clue.
No one goes out to marry someone they hate. People change overtime..

At the end of the day you choose the woman you marry breh I understand there are women piranas out there. But people change is a cop out for fickle people to break their commitments. People are suppose to change that's part of growing up no one stays the same. If you are the same mentally at 40 that you were at 25 you done fukked up. Part of the marriage is work is working through the changes you grow to as a couple. Hence if your woman doesn't understand marriage is work you done

At the end of the day you made a bad investment, yes she was a trifling, conniving, evil, gold digging c*nt that fukked you over but we made the choice, life ain't fair but it's the one you got to deal with

 

[Spoonz]

way too STD's to be playing these games bruh

an open marriage is supposed to allow both people to sleep around. Not just one. Make sure she has condoms.

 

[Easy-E]

80 Percent of Divorces Are Filed By Women

According to the National Center for Health Statistics 50 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce. Of the marriages that end in divorce, 80 percent of the divorces are initiated (filed) by women.


This is an interesting, albeit sad, statistic.

First of all, it is disheartening to think that 50 percent of marriages fail.

Second, it is illuminating that 80 percent of the divorces are filed by the wife.

Husbands, I believe this says something about the problems in marriage and where many of them stem from. I want to be very clear that I do NOT believe that all problems in marriage are caused by men. Both husband and wife bring their own set of issues and concerns and together they should work through them.

What I do believe this statistic demonstrates is that there are more women unsatisfied with their marriages, at least to the point of ending them, than there are men. There are certainly many reasons for the dissatisfaction that exists but I posit that the husband and his actions (or lack of actions) plays a significant role in causing and sustaining the dissatisfaction.

I've reflected on this. I've done some more reading and research on marriage and divorce rates. I've discussed this with my wife. I've prayed about it. I've talked to and observed couples who have been married for a long time. Why?

To help us husbands do a better job keeping our wives happy.

I don't like being that guy, but; I stopped reading here.

Nice way to contradict yourselves.

I'm far from a get married, brehs dude, but; I've come to the understanding that women don't want love, but, security (financial, emotion, physical) and men are the ones fixated on romance.

Been meaning to make that thread.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

Just get a mail order bride, they keep a marriage life lasting

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm far from a get married, brehs dude, but; I've come to the understanding that women don't want love, but, security (financial, emotion, physical) and men are the ones fixated on romance.

women dont know what they want, it changes. there is no criteria to not get getting played in mariage

 

[MikelArteta]

But here's what gets me, though.....I'll bet you marriage still won't see a major decline despite this obvious increase in ratchetness

These same ratchet hoes and sluts are STILL gonna end up getting married. Simp-ass nikkas are gonna be on some "her past is her past" shyt and wife them up. nikkas like Kanye and Wiz are teaching our young boys that's it's OK to wife/impregnate a whore, who will most likely leave you in the long run....as long as the bytch is fine and the ass was fat, and you get to claim her for a time

Men of every race and class need to take a stand. Y'all bytches wanna be all sexually free and "I'm an independent woman who can have as many men as I want"? Fine, do you. But consider yourself unwifeable . Y'all can't be like Kobe anymore; y'all can't play the game then expect to get a ring when you're finished playing. No marriage for your hoe ass. Best you'll get out of us is child support should we slip up and get you pregnant. That's it.

But the simps won't allow such a thing.....




So why get married, then?

Since we're accepting the fact that eventually people change over time, and that can affect/ruin the marriage.....

If a chick and I both agree that time causes people to "change" and "grow apart", then the fukk would she wanna get married for? Why not let's just do our thing until one of us "changes", gets sick of the other, then we break and we each keep our share of what we had before the relationship? Why should the man put himself in a position where the woman can "grow apart" from him as people tend to do, then because of that change, she's allowed to take his kids, his property and a chunk of his money for present and future payments (other than child support, if necessary)? I think I'll pass on that......

women want marriage though thats the thing, you have all those cosmo, all those talk shows, r&b shows etc. tellign you your man dont love you if he doesnt put a ring on it

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

It's clear that women seem to settle a lot. They just want a family and that whole ideal American life so they get with men they know they don't really want but they're willing to settle for and regardless of how much that man does, that woman will not be happy because he is not who she really wanted.

Then of course there's financial reasons, then men and women most of time are just really not compatible at all, they don't have the same interests, the same long-term goals, plus men and women don't communicate the same and interpret things differently etc..

Any marriage that last is an amazing thing especially if the couple is still happy with each other.

 

[Rominati]

So why get married, then?

Since we're accepting the fact that eventually people change over time, and that can affect/ruin the marriage.....

If a chick and I both agree that time causes people to "change" and "grow apart", then the fukk would she wanna get married for? Why not let's just do our thing until one of us "changes", gets sick of the other, then we break and we each keep our share of what we had before the relationship? Why should the man put himself in a position where the woman can "grow apart" from him as people tend to do, then because of that change, she's allowed to take his kids, his property and a chunk of his money for present and future payments (other than child support, if necessary)? I think I'll pass on that......

The game is cold

Jus kno, I aint make the rules to it, im jus a participant in this crazy game

 

[Guess Who]

I don't like being that guy, but; I stopped reading here.

Nice way to contradict yourselves.

I'm far from a get married, brehs dude, but; I've come to the understanding that women don't want love, but, security (financial, emotion, physical) and men are the ones fixated on romance.

Been meaning to make that thread.

To follow, women want marry security but want to fukk love. Therein lies the problem, cuz they often don't come in the same package for women.

 

[ltheghost]

Don't worry about statistics. Worry about your marriage. Keep it good at home and you should be okay.....but if she starts talking that divorce bullshyt....