Question? Are you living with said female? Or does she come over to your place or vice verse and you expect to be treated as if you govern a household.
Unless you're actually married to a female who displays the qualities in which you type, its a man choice to deal with it. If there's nothing binding you down to a woman who lacks the qualities you prefer to make a successful relationship, why stay. Then complain about your decision
Shaming? not at all...
Especially if you were willing, ready and able to feed yourself before we met. Wanting someone to do for you what you can do for yourself is the equivalent of being treated as a child, who cannot fend for themselves.
It's as if some men think, okay now that I have a woman in my life I no longer have to do everything I did to sustain myself before we got together. That's a bigger turn off than a woman refusing to cater to your every whim. No one likes to carry around dead weight.
I knew the game completely changed when there was a huge discussion on my FB timeline where some chick I went to college with was genuinely insulted when a dude asked her if she knew how to cook on their first date. She had women cosigning left and right. Keep in mind these are the same women that would give their soul to have a man take care of them. I have no problem with a woman that wants the housewife life and stay home while the husband works, but if you don't/can't cook what the fukk is the point of you being there? It's like they want to be tranditional when it benefits them yet nontraditional on that new age independent woman shyt. You can't have it both ways. I tried to explain this and they all hit me with the 
and accused me of being sexist. Some women are just hopeless.
)? The women I'm talking about act like they don't or can't cook outside of frozen food or clean up after a man period.
Who the fukk gets offended by getting asked if they know how to cook
