I never knew it was that deep for dudes b/c some dudes talk a big game like this but there are literally pornstars who are married.
Meanwhile how does one even guess a chick's sexual past if she isn't forthcoming about it. And omg...what if she...wait for it...LIES!
So obviously there are women with bodies that are in relationships and marriages.
Because it's part of their finesse. These chicks were low key hustlers. Low key dudes fell prey to these types and as much as men pretend to care about bodies, that never stopped dudes from legit knocking down their doors to get to these chicks. And not just fukk them btw.
And they Betty Crockers now b/c they can be. It's their evolution. Despite cheeks and ass being spread at homecoming and those walks of shame, experimenting with other chicks, the works---they are married to their husband of 8 years with three kids and now they go to school every day to teach reading and hold literature circles for their kindergarteners. It be the MAIN ones you'd never think.
"Oh no! Not Ms. Wannamaker!" She brings those little cakes to the PTA potluck!"
Meanwhile I know some straightlaced, bitter ass chicks that are literally fuming b/c they did everything "right" and still single.
(LSA but I won't go there).
I have a theory on why this shyt happens. I think ur personality and how flexible and open and resilient u are is a better predictor of the success and longevity of ur relationships than ur body count is. I do honestly think hyperpromiscuity is more often than not an indication of some mental trauma that can damage relationships but it is by no means the be all end all. If u are ready for something serious, and ready to grow up then the next part of ur life is waiting if ur personality will allow for it.
True love and relationships require a certain disposition and a willingness to commit. Love is funny in that sometimes the right person coming into ur life can literally signal that change in you. But if u don't have it, it won't matter if u have fukked 100 or 0 partners, u won't be relationship ready.