40+ Successful professional black women are getting in vitro to be "single mothers by choice"

[Wiseborn]

My older brother is on his second marriage, going on 10 years, and this is what he told me...
A lot of these women don't ask for marriage because marriage comes with a "burden of performance" for both the man and the woman.
It's sad but a lot of these women simply don't wanna be under that "burden of performance," that's why they don't ask for it.
They simply want the man's seed and very little else to do with that man.
They don't value what the man brings to a healthy relationship/marriage.

I sat there listening like:

They want the money and status too.

That's the main reason hoes get married

nikka starts making plans and demands and she leaves with half his shyt.

 

[Wiseborn]

Thing that used to confuse me was why anyone would want to raise a baby alone cause of how babies are naturally, it's hell at times but my own wife made me realize a lot of women think baby rearing is as easy as patting their back to sleep and changing a diaper. shyt a lot of these women don't even have plans for the kid too. Really women have been incentivized to live through life on autopilot and shyt is pretty scary cause they having such a juvenile mindset about it.

A lot of women look at kids as doll babies and accessories.
Look at that trap house baby shower

Her older kid doesn't know what that is that was all about her.
They figure that between child support, welfare and a good government job will handle the rest.

 

[Braman]

Brehs…. I kid you not. In the past two months, my fiancée has been to five baby showers. Not one of them are married or are with the child’s father.

And these are professional women, not hoodrats. Women from good homes, well educated and attractive (I saw the pictures). All in their early to mid 30s.

This is getting out of hand. Our “community” is well and truly cooked. I get that there are trash men out there but holy shyt, they’d rather raise a child in a broken home than attempt to raise a stable family?

I don’t even know what to say anymore. My other half didn’t even want to attend most of them because she was so disappointed.

More baby showers than engagement parties.

Ngga get it together Why are you so emotional about this

The bottom line is society as a whole has decided women cannot be checked. So it’s a train off the rails. You factor in that social media floods women with thr illusion of more options and a better reality and the way their life ‘could’ be, so just an ordinary mundane life is no longer enough. Men are deciding it ain’t worth it.

I dated one of these close to 40 powerful women with frozen eggs. I make 6 figures own my home check all the boxes. Ultimately that wasn’t enough she wanted to travel half the year and stay in 5 star resorts. Another chick i talked to is an empath, she’s one of those ‘black women are under siege I can’t live in America! ‘ types so she only wants to date a man who’s ready to move to Mexico in the next year. . Another chick doesn’t want to work but wants to travel year round as a kept woman. They getting all this from the internet. It’s made regular life seem like a chore most women are chasing a dream who wants to sign up for that

 

[Wiseborn]

I'm not with the double last name shyt either but it tells that there's a pedigree

We shyt on Black women but were fukked up too

nikkas post the worse women alive but as long as she got fat ass nothing else matters
Look at the pinky thread.

Not even gonna talk about the weight but she's a pornstar and nikkas is talking eatinv the turds out of her ass.

Black people do need to gatekeep ourselves some thick chick comes around and instead of just throwing out dikk

Maybe ask who she is and who raised her.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Ngga get it together Why are you so emotional about this

The bottom line is society as a whole has decided women cannot be checked. So it’s a train off the rails. You factor in that social media floods women with thr illusion of more options and a better reality and the way their life ‘could’ be, so just an ordinary mundane life is no longer enough. Men are deciding it ain’t worth it.

I dated one of these close to 40 powerful women with frozen eggs. I make 6 figures own my home check all the boxes. Ultimately that wasn’t enough she wanted to travel half the year and stay in 5 star resorts. Another chick i talked to is an empath, she’s one of those ‘I. Can’t out in America! ‘ types so she only ants to date a man who’s ready to move to Mexico in the next year. Another chick doesn’t want to work but wants to travel year round as a kept woman. They getting all this from the internet. It’s made regular life seem like a chore most women are chasing a dream who wants to sign up for that

let these delusional hoes filter themselves out

Be on that whole "yass gurl!" goofy shyt on the internet but a cat lady at home or dyking.

bytches thinking they too good for Cheesecake Factory and Red Lobster but don't got a dime to their name.

 

[Apollo Creed]

let these delusional hoes filter themselves out

Be on that whole "yass gurl!" goofy shyt on the internet but a cat lady at home or dyking.

bytches thinking they too good for Cheesecake Factory and Red Lobster but don't got a dime to their name.

thing is most dudes don't got the heart to let these hoes just suffer and vanish so you got dudes tryna debate hoes into being normal lol. Nah let this shyt go and move on.

 

[Wiseborn]

Ngga get it together Why are you so emotional about this

The bottom line is society as a whole has decided women cannot be checked. So it’s a train off the rails. You factor in that social media floods women with thr illusion of more options and a better reality and the way their life ‘could’ be, so just an ordinary mundane life is no longer enough. Men are deciding it ain’t worth it.

I dated one of these close to 40 powerful women with frozen eggs. I make 6 figures own my home check all the boxes. Ultimately that wasn’t enough she wanted to travel half the year and stay in 5 star resorts. Another chick i talked to is an empath, she’s one of those ‘I. Can’t out in America! ‘ types so she only ants to date a man who’s ready to move to Mexico in the next year. Another chick doesn’t want to work but wants to travel year round as a kept woman. They getting all this from the internet. It’s made regular life seem like a chore most women are chasing a dream who wants to sign up for that

Man the weird passport sisters I met are super delusional

Most of them are buying dikk.

I randomly watched a chick who made a cost of living video about las terranas.

She talked about the cost of her kids schooling

She had one daughter when she started her channel I guess a brehito gave her another baby that she will raise alone

 

[Wiseborn]

thing is most dudes don't got the heart to let these hoes just suffer and vanish so you got dudes tryna debate hoes into being normal lol. Nah let this shyt go and move on.

KS was the last Brother trying to talk sense into these hoes

Just let them go the smart ones will figure it out before its too late for them

 

[Braman]

I'm not with the double last name shyt either but it tells that there's a pedigree

We shyt on Black women but were fukked up too

nikkas post the worse women alive but as long as she got fat ass nothing else matters
Look at the pinky thread.

Not even gonna talk about the weight but she's a pornstar and nikkas is talking eatinv the turds out of her ass.

Black people do need to gatekeep ourselves some thick chick comes around and instead of just throwing out dikk

Maybe ask who she is and who raised her.

This is one wild rollercoaster ride of a comment but it is true tho

Both physically and mentally, nggas accept shyt no other race does. Attitude, overweight, materialism, etc

 

[Wiseborn]

This is one wild rollercoaster ride of a comment but it is true tho

Both physically and mentally, nggas accept shyt no other race does. Attitude, overweight, materialism, etc

Yeah we can dunk on delusional hoes all day but bytchez can Google.

We can say get a cat and die alone but their DMs are flooded if they post a single picture with an asscheeck tooted on a sink.

 

[Rekkapryde]

thing is most dudes don't got the heart to let these hoes just suffer and vanish so you got dudes tryna debate hoes into being normal lol. Nah let this shyt go and move on.

exactly.

If that means marrying out or whatever then so be it. Attention whoring, selfish, financially goofy people ain't it.

 

[#1 pick]

Brehs…. I kid you not. In the past two months, my fiancée has been to five baby showers. Not one of them are married or are with the child’s father.

And these are professional women, not hoodrats. Women from good homes, well educated and attractive (I saw the pictures). All in their early to mid 30s.

This is getting out of hand. Our “community” is well and truly cooked. I get that there are trash men out there but holy shyt, they’d rather raise a child in a broken home than attempt to raise a stable family?

I don’t even know what to say anymore. My other half didn’t even want to attend most of them because she was so disappointed.

More baby showers than engagement parties.

A lot of them got HIGH expectations of men. It's kinda wild. Like sis, maybe your dating level ain't your marriage level. Plenty of nikkas can marry up but couldn't fukk a baddie if their life dependent on it. Maybe your husband score just ain't as high as your dating score. Be realistic.

 

[#1 pick]

My older brother is on his second marriage, going on 10 years, and this is what he told me...
A lot of these women don't ask for marriage because marriage comes with a "burden of performance" for both the man and the woman.
It's sad but a lot of these women simply don't wanna be under that "burden of performance," that's why they don't ask for it.
They simply want the man's seed and very little else to do with that man.
They don't value what the man brings to a healthy relationship/marriage.

I sat there listening like:

Yep! Many women are garbage.

 

[Wiseborn]

A lot of them got HIGH expectations of men. It's kinda wild. Like sis, maybe your dating level ain't your marriage level. Plenty of nikkas can marry up but couldn't fukk a baddie if their life dependent on it. Maybe your husband score just ain't as high as your dating score. Be realistic.

They're confusing a late night smash with dudes down to wife them

 

[#1 pick]

They're confusing a late night smash with dudes down to wife them

I think both genders can do this. It's easy to wife a baddie than smash one for most men. It's easy to get smashed by a hvm than it is to get married by one