30+ Brehs… What’s up with these old chicks wanting babies?

[Cloutius Maximus]

Watch 'em make excuses for this perfectly reasonable statement.

All the smart marriageable women I know did this. They started landing that plane onto the runway around 27. 29 at the LATEST. And I live in LA county which is the most pro-hedonism, anti-marriage county in America.

theres a huge difference between getting married and having a kid between 27-33 and being 38 foaming at the mouth looking for a buzzer beater baby. That leads to women tricking men into inpregnating them and all kinds of fukkery.

 

[EARFQUAKE]

Find a dependable man when you’re 22-25. Preferably one that’s 27-28. Get married. Have kids. How hard is that?

How many dependable men are willing to take on a woman's student debt? Around this age a woman is graduating from university, unless she didn't go to college. Unless this woman had a fully paid scholarship or rich parents to attend she will have a student debt to pay.

How many dependable men are willing to marry a woman who didn't attend college? What is a 22-25 year old's career options with no college?

Do you want her to be a stay at home wife / mother?

 

[EARFQUAKE]

I forgot how racist / c00nish this place can be.

 

[EARFQUAKE]

All the smart marriageable women I know did this.

Because everyone else who didn't is stupid.

 

[The Wall Is Undefeated!]

-Lower the cost of living

-Have salary wages actually keep up with the cost of living

-Standardize benefits that allow people to comfortably start having kids. A society where a mother only has a week or 2 of maternity leave at the average job is a complete failure.

America's focus on making money 24/7 doesn't really mesh well with having a family at all. It's no wonder fertility rates have plummeted

I agree with this.

 

[mariahcooper]

The argument that women should settle down in their early 20s with black men in their late 20s is a joke. When I was single most black men in their late 20s didn’t want relationships. A lot of successful “brehs” are ok with fwb until they are in their 40s.

 

[mariahcooper]

Also gross how yall prey on younger women. As if older men dont become less attractive plus their dikks stop working.

 

[Weaver31]

I forgot how racist / c00nish this place can be.

What gets me is how close-minded and one-dimensional folks on her can be. Its like everything is so black and white. Also, seems like some lack real life experience. Life will throw a curveball and sometimes multiple at u...so sometimes things don't always go as planned. Some folks have kids at early ages, some at later ages and some don't or unable to have kids at all.

I look at it like this...I ain't paying to feed a woman's kids, I ain't providing clothes, babysitting, paying bills, etc. so why should I worry about when she chooses or able to have kids. That's her and the potential baby daddy's concern. There is a social skills called boundaries and many folks don't understand that fully.

 

[The Wall Is Undefeated!]

People have to learn and accept that it's ok not to have children, or even want to have children
A lot of women really don't want to until that societal pressure kicks in as they hit their mid 30s.

At the bolded part - That's BS. Most women do want children. It has nothing to do with societal pressure. It's biological.

If people don't want to have children, that's fine. However, let's not think that isn't a minority.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Some if yall really hate women, lol

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

So what you saying is every man should aspire to date younger?

people are just trying to fukk
no one wants kids until they have had their fun

 

[The Don]

My wife is 40 (and looks 25), no kids, and has a good career. Im 35, have 3 kids, and also have a good career (now). Not every woman is hoeing around then wants a simp to save her. There were points she held me down when I had nothing to give. She could’ve said what you nikkaz are saying about me cuz I came in the relationship with all the baggage but she gave me a chance and now we’re happily married. She wants kids but doesn’t force it. The moral of the story is…..not all women are the same. Yeah there’s plenty of women out there that fit the narrative of this thread but I’m sure there are more that dont. Y’all just hate women, don’t actually deal with them and only go by what you see on Instagram, or just need to upgrade the caliper of woman you deal with

 

[The ADD]

What gets me is how close-minded and one-dimensional folks on her can be. Its like everything is so black and white. Also, seems like some lack real life experience. Life will throw a curveball and sometimes multiple at u...so sometimes things don't always go as planned. Some folks have kids at early ages, some at later ages and some don't or unable to have kids at all.

I look at it like this...I ain't paying to feed a woman's kids, I ain't providing clothes, babysitting, paying bills, etc. so why should I worry about when she chooses or able to have kids. That's her and the potential baby daddy's concern. There is a social skills called boundaries and many folks don't understand that fully.

^^^

 

[Ozymandeas]

How many dependable men are willing to take on a woman's student debt? Around this age a woman is graduating from university, unless she didn't go to college. Unless this woman had a fully paid scholarship or rich parents to attend she will have a student debt to pay.

How many dependable men are willing to marry a woman who didn't attend college? What is a 22-25 year old's career options with no college?

Do you want her to be a stay at home wife / mother?

Excuses man. All of those problems you named are going to be even worse if the woman is deep in her 30s compared to being 23, 24, 25. Yall got alot of excuses.

 

[Shadow King]

Not every man nowadays have the means to be a sole provider. And some men who are established and able to be a sole provider, may don't want a woman who ain't on his level and not contributing to the expenses. Everyone nowadays ain't traditional or have those antiquated beliefs.

Where in my post did I say every man or wants to be the sole provider?