30+ Brehs… What’s up with these old chicks wanting babies?

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here is a black female doctor with receipts. Yes this is a red pill video but the part I highlighted is from Vox, which is about as left leaning as you can get in American media

first she brings up the decline in fertility over time and then the increase in likelihood of defects over time



here is a black female doctor with receipts. Yes this is a red pill video but the part I highlighted is from Vox, which is about as left leaning as you can get in American media

first she brings up the decline in fertility over time and then the increase in likelihood of defects over time


you said 30+ goofball. Also, the health of the woman is a major factor. My wife had a child 35+ so we did a lot of research and and actually speaking with many doctors.

your video is also suspect where the clown goes on a rant that racism is a cop out.
 

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How about

MARRIAGE FIRST, THEN CHILDREN

I was 35 at the time(39 now) and this chick who was 35 at the time, literally told me can I give her a baby and said u don’t have to be around.. I went :gucci: :dwillhuh:

When she told me that, I was like:camby::mjcry: at the same time… because I missed out hitting a big butt, but I knew she wasn’t worth it
 

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I think what's happened is that our society runs counter to our nature. The best time for people of both sexes to have children is in our mid/late 20s, we're at our physical peak and this will result in the healthiest babies when we should have a reasonable amount of maturity and energy to take care of them.

But, we live in a society that's more complex than that, where most people can't really prosper until their late 20s or past their prime and so individuals must make concessions with their lives. A single man typically isn't making enough to support a family on his own and so women must value their own personal stability before considering a family and this wait does put them more at risk of a troublesome pregnancy.

But what are we to do? None of us can beat or break this system at the moment we need it to and so it'll either progress slowly or we'll get to a place that's too far from what we truly are and hit a breaking point.

Until then we'll live these fukked up lives where our population is shrinking, people are single for longer and longer and the only people who are having children are the ones who can afford it.
 
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It will only happen, if you lower the cost of living. If not, your entire perspective is null.

Make getting money easier, and you will see birthrates increase again.
-Lower the cost of living

-Have salary wages actually keep up with the cost of living

-Standardize benefits that allow people to comfortably start having kids. A society where a mother only has a week or 2 of maternity leave at the average job is a complete failure.

America's focus on making money 24/7 doesn't really mesh well with having a family at all. It's no wonder fertility rates have plummeted
 

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one thing brehs on this site don't understand is once a women 30+ starts having kids the sex stops in the relationship most times because her primary focus is motherhood and not you She had her fun fukking in her teens and 20s.
thats why I tell all men 30+ mess with women in there 20s they have a longer shelf life plus they can give you as many children as you want while still getting the sex
 

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There's alot of disingenuous folks in here acting like it takes until 35 to get "stability" :mjlol:, and acting like all of these women are out here waiting until their 30s to settle down for "stability" purposes :mjlol:

Nevermind the fact that a man and a woman combining resources, sharing rent/mortgage and expenses and possibly investing in properties etc with the excess together will, for most folks, be a much faster path to "stability" than going it on your own.

I don't see anything wrong with the idea that, especially for women, if marriage and children is the goal then it's best to start dating with a purpose sooner than later, not trying to be a hot girl until you're in your mid-30s and then scrambling to settle with whoever you can find and conceive in high risk pregnancy territory.
 

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Sing this chorus to her :mjgrin:


Hol’ up:ohhh:


This shyt kinda riding :gladbron:
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Or maybe those women want to create stable homes for their future children and most cultures worldwide understand the basic fact that commitment is needed from both parties.

The human experience dictates we all won't find the right person at the same age.

O. P is clearly a juvenile.
This. We don't have a community that provides direction or generational wealth. People have to get it out the mud and that takes time. We as a community marry later on average.
 

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There are millions more blk women than blk men. So no matter how much we bytch at blk women, unless they wanna share a man, many aren’t going to get the picket fence ya’ll pseudo-conservatives want to use as a way to encourage young chicks to fukk ya’ll in their youth.:mjlol:
Because this is the next variation of men trying to get women on their dikks.

First it was the old cat lady fearmongering.
Men: “Find a man or die alone with cats!”:damn:
Women: “But women die alone most times anyway and I like cats. Scratch that…make it a puppy!”
:unimpressed:

Next is…

Men: “Hurry up and have babies or they gon need helmets!”:damn:
Women: “Ya know what? I can adopt. And men are so insufferable that ya’ll put me off motherhood altogether. I’m straight. My dog is my baby.”
:unimpressed:
Men gon be still trying to use that vinegar courtship in their 60s and 70s to get younger chicks using them for pensions, while older chicks will be wearing Bermuda shorts at casinos getting spa treatments. Women ain’t trying to die poor. Especially blk women. A lot of ya’ll don’t see how a shyt ton of blk women are making different moves these days. CEOs, homeownership, opening businesses, stacking coins…my entire department at one of the HBCUs I’m partnered with is all blk women. The department chair, deans…and they winning awards for research…all types of shyt.
:wow:

In this economy, and as shytty as people are these days, and with the nasty disposition a lot of men have, …a woman had BETTER get financially stable prior to even THINKING about activating that womb card. Too many people are unreliable when it comes to sticking around to raise the baby. Too many side chicks, trifling behavior and economic strife to take that chance.:manny: Ya’ll demonized single moms and refuse to take a good hard look at men, so women are saying “fukk it”.

Until the odds get better and women have something other than fearmongering about biology and fallacious logic about dying alone to sweeten the deal, women will continue to delay childbirth until their ovaries are damn near dust or forgo it completely if these new generations of incelish, neo-conservative, socially maladjusted weirdos are who they have to reproduce with.
:scusthov:
Besides, this should be a good thing since men are so GMB. And don’t even wanna be friends with these dumb broads. And since women are allegedly soooo awful, amirite? And all these bytches are hoes?
:troll::mjlol:
But don’t mind me. I’m just looking through my older posts on this site from YEARS ago when I had dudes legit mad and arguing with me over this shyt.
There are solutions. But nobody is going to like em.:yeshrug:

And yeah, yeah, yeah. I know. TLDR. Something something feminist bytch…grumble grumble.:snooze:
 

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Don't wait until 29 to stop playing the "women can be players too" game and stop thinking a career is valued by men capable and willing to provide a comfortable lifestyle.

Sense has been made.
Not every man nowadays have the means to be a sole provider. And some men who are established and able to be a sole provider, may don't want a woman who ain't on his level and not contributing to the expenses. Everyone nowadays ain't traditional or have those antiquated beliefs.
 

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I think what's happened is that our society runs counter to our nature. The best time for people of both sexes to have children is in our mid/late 20s, we're at our physical peak and this will result in the healthiest babies when we should have a reasonable amount of maturity and energy to take care of them.

But, we live in a society that's more complex than that, where most people can't really prosper until their late 20s or past their prime and so individuals must make concessions with their lives. A single man typically isn't making enough to support a family on his own and so women must value their own personal stability before considering a family and this wait does put them more at risk of a troublesome pregnancy.

But what are we to do? None of us can beat or break this system at the moment we need it to and so it'll either progress slowly or we'll get to a place that's too far from what we truly are and hit a breaking point.

Until then we'll live these fukked up lives where our population is shrinking, people are single for longer and longer and the only people who are having children are the ones who can afford it.

Truth.

Society is getting so expensive, that young men and women that are educated cannot have kids because they cannot afford basic living expenses. That is bad for humanity, because landlords/banks/utility companies jack prices up to the point where these young people are going to their doctors and sterilizing themselves due to fear of starting generational poverty.
 
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