30+ Brehs… What’s up with these old chicks wanting babies?

[Strapped]

Shorty celebrating her 40th talking bout....."I'm ready to have a little piece of me living on this earth"....


bytch u will die on the surgery table at this point...

Nah dawg , a female can have babies with fertility drugs easily ,you have to have money though

 

[Easy-E]

But men also contribute to that too, every year men acquire 2 new genetic mutations, so by 35 you’re passing on double the genetic mutations you would be passing on at 20 but yet I don’t see y’all judging 45 year old fathers. Older father also contribute to the rise in autism, schizophrenia etc but it’s only women Yall worried about.

The average first time father age is 27 in America

Those problem start in your mid 40's

The Risks of Becoming a Dad Later in Life

A study published in the journal BMJ in October 2018 found that children of men ages 45 to 54 have a 14% higher risk of premature birth and low birth weight, compared with those fathered by men ages 25 to 34.

Again, I think we're trying to make men and women have kids in their 30's, for the first time, the same.

 

[Wild self]

But men also contribute to that too, every year men acquire 2 new genetic mutations, so by 35 you’re passing on double the genetic mutations you would be passing on at 20 but yet I don’t see y’all judging 45 year old fathers. Older father also contribute to the rise in autism, schizophrenia etc but it’s only women Yall worried about.

Cost of living is why men not having kids. Its just too high as it is, and doesnt promote growth of a family.

Having kids while young is a recipe for financial disaster.

 

[Ashley Banks]

The average first time father age is 27 in America

Those problem start in your mid 40's





Again, I think we're trying to make men and women have kids in their 30's, for the first time, the same.

No one is trying to make anything the same, it’s HER child, y’all say y’all don’t even date women past a certain age so why are you shaming those women for waiting until they have a stable life to have kids??? It’s like y’all want alllll women to live how YOU want them to live whether you want them or not. How is 40 year old woman not on your radar but you’re mad that she wants kids but you’ll also judge her for saying she doesn’t want kids.

 

[Weaver31]

Wanting kids is one thing but waiting around thinking you’re going to find Mr. Perfect until you’re touching 40 and then all of a sudden becoming reasonable is something else. It’s selfish and it’s automatically high risk…

True but many people nowadays are waiting til later to have kids. Some women want to be married or at least engaged before having kids. Some folks want to establish themselves and be prepared financially as well as mentally, emotionally and even spiritually well before bringing kids into this world.

A friend of the family have a granddaughter who just got COVID had a baby at a young age...baby has a preexisting condition and she said she wants to club and go out and always asking folks to babysit. She said she had her daughter too young. Some folks wanna wait til they are ready.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Cost of living is why men not having kids. Its just too high as it is, and doesnt promote growth of a family.

Having kids while young is a recipe for financial disaster.

I agree, the cost of living is just as high for women but according to the coli women should just have kids at 25 whether they’re ready or not, financially stable or not, in a stable relationship or not.

I did a clinical rotation in ob back in nursing school and there are lots of women over 30 with their first pregnancy and most had healthy pregnancies/babies. Of course there were complications when the mother was unhealthy but for the most part when the mom took good care of herself (which all women of all ages should do) they were fine. My mom also had 3 kids after 35 and they were all perfectly fine.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

you must be high af

I'm agreeing with you. Some nikkas love to just assume any ol broad who is still childless over 30 must have been a slut all thru her 20s.

Thinking like this makes it easier to cope with the fact that they got rejected by women they wanted

I am high… you right



but facts. I guess because I didn’t see a dap before the quote I assumed it was negative.

But i agree with you. After meeting at least 2 both were married and both just didn’t work out with their husbands. Not saying they do/don’t got bodies on them, just saying it’s more of circumstances than choices for some.


And ones with kids still want to have one more before it becomes risky. Especially with you

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

higher chance of "defects" whatever that means...but not autism. You also said 30s...now you're changing it to 40+. Acting like young people can't birth autistic children.

young people can too, i should have added that to my post since i figured it would be brought up.

BUT the chances of giving birth to a child with some type of disorder whether it's diabetes, autism, schizophrenia, etc. go UP with age. So in your 30's you have a higher likelihood than your 20s. Once you hit 40s it's a much higher.

 

[spliz]

This thread is fukking stupid and lacks any semblance of real life experience or context. Like. There is PLENTY legitimate reasons women have kids in their 30s. I know a woman who kept having miscarriages everytime she got pregnant and even lost one of her babies that was premature months after she was born. She finally had a healthy baby in her mid 30s. Plenty married people have kids in their 30s as well. There’s various reasons this type of shyt happens. U nikkas don’t get out or what?

 

[African Peasant]

This thread triggered a lot of people.

If you're woman and you want to have a family and kids, start thinking about it ( and making moves) in your mid-20's at last. Don't wait to be in you're mid 30's: the quantity and quality of men available for you will have dropped and you will have more dificulties to conceive than when you were 23.

If you're man and you want to have a family and kids, start thinking about it ( and making moves) in your mid-30's at last. Don't wait to be in your mid 40's.

Don't believe the hype.

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

Receipts

here is a black female doctor with receipts. Yes this is a red pill video but the part I highlighted is from Vox, which is about as left leaning as you can get in American media

first she brings up the decline in fertility over time and then the increase in likelihood of defects over time

 

[African Peasant]

But men also contribute to that too, every year men acquire 2 new genetic mutations, so by 35 you’re passing on double the genetic mutations you would be passing on at 20 but yet I don’t see y’all judging 45 year old fathers. Older father also contribute to the rise in autism, schizophrenia etc but it’s only women Yall worried about.

Yes, they do, but way less than mothers. If you add to that the difficulties of conceiving and the fact that you can't have that much kids after a certain age, it's definitely a bad bargain.

Women pay a bigger toll when it comes to maternity. I'm not teaching you anything on that. There is no equality between men and women on that level, despite what feminists are trying to push.

 

[Wild self]

Yes, they do, but way less than mothers. If you add to that the difficulties of conceiving and the fact that you can't have that much kids after a certain age, it's definitely a bad bargain.

Women pay a bigger toll when it comes to maternity. I'm not teaching you anything on that. There is no equality between men and women on that level, despite what feminists are trying to push.

It will only happen, if you lower the cost of living. If not, your entire perspective is null.

Make getting money easier, and you will see birthrates increase again.

 

[Shadow King]

It’s an epidemic.

I matched with a chick on one of the dating apps the other day. She was 42 and had a 1yr old. I just shook my head...

A chick who has had kids after about 33-35 is a hard pass for me as I get older. You want to be living a life with just you and your lady when you hit your late 40s early 50s...not spending that precious time still dealing with kids at the house.

It’s a big difference in your peace.

EDIT: some men legit love raising kids tho so there are men for all types. Most men get older and want to be easing into the last half of life.

Unless you got married at 25 and had like 1 kid you will still have kids at home around 50.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Yes, they do, but way less than mothers. If you add to that the difficulties of conceiving and the fact that you can't have that much kids after a certain age, it's definitely a bad bargain.

Women pay a bigger toll when it comes to maternity. I'm not teaching you anything on that. There is no equality between men and women on that level, despite what feminists are trying to push.

Im a nurse, i don’t need to be taught. I already learned this in semester 3 clinicals and theory and from real life experience. Did plenty of patient education, care plans etc for mother’s that we’re gravida 1 at 35+ Which is why I know exactly what I’m talking about. No one is saying to wait until your 45 to have kids but if you choose to or that’s just how life happened, you shouldn’t be shamed for it. Unless you’re having children with these women, why worry about their choices?