10 hours of walking in NYC as a woman

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Agreed. I actually discussed this earlier with a few friends and one of them brought up a good point:

" there is no sincere meaning behind the hello. Most of the time they are simply saying it for their own and their friends enjoyment. They don't care how I am doing. They aren't interested in being my friend and their "hello" is as empty as the "HOO HOO" you shout when you walk up to the Chimpanzee cage at the zoo so they will turn around and you can get a better look at them. Guys can tell themselves all day that they are just "being friendly" but most of the time, we all know that these greetings are just a way to get the girls attention, whether it is a sad attempt to pick her up, or just so she will turn around and look at you. If this isn't so, why don't they say hello and smile to old ladies walking by, or other men?"

1.) Everyone smiles and speaks to old women, sometimes even helping with whatever they're doing(lifting bags/boxes, etc.), and 2) What would we smile and say hello to a dude for? We just give them a "Sup.", a head nod, and keep it moving. Your friend did NOT have a 'good point' at all. :laff:
 

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This is actually an interesting modern day debate. It surely should be completely harmless to wish a person of the opposite gender 'good morning' on the way to work? especially if you see the same person at the same time of day every day? But society is so fukked up these days, that even this could be misconstrued as 'creepy' . Is it any wonder that people these days have such trouble finding others to be in relationships with? and I mean lasting relationships, not drunken fumbles or meeting mostly weirdos or cheaters online.

I blame a number of factors and this video illustrates some of them, first feminism, but also the easily offended overly sensitive culture we live in now, means many,men in particular find it difficult to talk to women. Then we have the iphone, online and social media culture that means people men and women find it hard to interact with people outside their social bubble and their social bubble may be far more limited than they realise because online gives the illusion they have more friends than they truly have, in reality they aren't the centre of anything. .Many females seem to think online praise translates to real life, and walk around with a permanent stick embedded in their ass with impossible requirements , and wander why they haven't met 'the one' yet. This means we have legions of social retards wandering the streets ,who have no clue about decent civilised friendly behaviours. And at times they clash.

Something else, I think needs to be talked about.Men not understanding why many women react like they do or believe they should do to 'compliments' or sexual suggestions by people of the opposite gender. I think the reason many men think this ,is because they have never experienced it themselves. I give you a real life scenario , and wonder how many of you would be truly comfortable with it. My dad , worked in a bar while a student, another bar staff member who happened to be female and much older , decided to make constant comments to him about his body, and also his relationships and sexuality,it began as a bit of fun or he treated like that but after a while it got annoying till he dreaded going to work .She never touched him to begin with,it was just comments, she would talk like this in front of other workers and customers. It wasn't so much the comments that bothered him,it was the humliation. He put up with it,because he badly needed the money,and also being a man, felt he would be labeled 'gay' if he complained. He felt like a bytch basically. It was when she started groping him to the amusement of customers in the bar, that he left.

Now many guys would say,'I would have just fukked her', 'shoved my dikk in her mouth', but reality is very different.
Yeah your dad sounding suspect cause I wouldn't care unless I had a girl and that's real. Also if I was that uncomfortable I'd let her know and the shyt would stop so your dad looking bad on this one fam.

Unfortunately you don't define what is harassment to another person, especially a woman.

Secondly, it's fairly obvious the intention of most of the comments and calls directed towards her, hence the video. Yeah her experiment was a bit much and she did look good, but I'm not going to subject her to presumably unwanted comments.

Thirdly, that is the issue. Most women don't want to be pelted with veiled comments by randoms as they go about their day. Does that mean that all comments are off limits? Of course not. Circumstances do change and etc but for the most part this is what women experience both as a harmless compliment and the Rico Suave dating act.

Lastly, if the very first comment to a woman is how good she looks then you're already looking for trouble.
Bold is stupid because without wanting to have sex with the person there isn't going to be much happening regardless for the vast majority so why even mention the more than obvious?

I just find it interesting that you consider most of what she recorded harassment, but chose to focus on the exceptions that weren't to downplay the issue she was trying to raise.

I'm really at a loss as to what pleasure dudes get from "complimenting" random women on the street. shyt is drive by simping. These chicks are generally not fukking dudes who approach them that way. It's very dusty energy. There are much easier ways to "bag" women. And odds are if u are a nikka on his shyt u wont have time to stand around like that in the first place. So what do nikkas really gain from this?
I agree with most of bold because any dude saying they just doing it just because I don't believe that. They doing it for an opening and I'm not mad at that but saying its just for gp nah homie. I don't agree its simping but more so amatuer hollering skills but it works at times so :yeshrug: And on top of that you may never see that chick again so why not try to get her attention. Ive saw more than a few chicks give play and in some cases fukk dudes approaching in the street so that isn't close to reality. Maybe you a ugly dude and it don't work for you but for some cats believe it or not it does work.

Yes, and I asked you what you considered to be harassment in here and couldn't get an answer.

But I agree it is annoying. However, being stonefaced ignoring salutations is rude. If you don't care about these random guys why do you care if they think you're rude?


Not that this is something I do but people are social beings by nature. Many of those guys didnt expect to bag, they were just making conversation. It's not about success rates (which is low in most situations anyway, if you're using 'fukking' as the barometer). Who knows what a conversation can lead to? Many people have that mentality. Others were just trying to pass the time, its not that serious.

Outside of touching, following, objectifying remarks, what's the problem here?
Now you know bold is some bullshyt. I don't really care if dudes do it but under some guise of I'm just that type of guy? Nah that's bullshyt these dudes hoping the chick trying to take the interaction further (which I understand) so need to lie and say dudes doing it for fun. Most dudes ain't just making convo with no random dudes just for fun so that's why I say keep it real and stop fronting.
 

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To play devil's advocate for a sec, is it cyber bulling or harassment when women get unwanted compliments & likes on their social media accounts? Or is this just regulated to public places?

The internet is a whole different field. They get nothing but creepy comments from thirsty guys. Even the fat unattractive ones. :scusthov:

And then you get those ones who show off their body in videos but then get angry at the comments talking about her body. :pachaha:
 

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The internet is a whole different field. They get nothing but creepy comments from thirsty guys. Even the fat unattractive ones. :scusthov:

And then you get those ones who show off their body in videos but then get angry at the comments talking about her body. :pachaha:

I might do this to one of my IG followers just to start some f*ckery :troll:
 
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Now you know bold is some bullshyt. I don't really care if dudes do it but under some guise of I'm just that type of guy? Nah that's bullshyt these dudes hoping the chick trying to take the interaction further (which I understand) so need to lie and say dudes doing it for fun. Most dudes ain't just making convo with no random dudes just for fun so that's why I say keep it real and stop fronting.

Never said they were, that doesn't mean they expect to bag. Like I said, some enjoy flirting and conversing with bad chicks. Some just wanted to acknowledged her. Most are feeling her out, but wouldn't proceed any further if she gave a short response or no response at all.
 

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That's pretty accurate. Just last week this guy was harrassing me for my number. I literally had to take a detour home because I was afraid he'd follow me.

On Saturday, a cab dropped me off on the corner and as I was walking home these guys pulled up my dress and groped my ass. All I could croak out was a "what the fukk?!". As soon as I turned the corner I ran home.

shyt like that shouldn't be normal or acceptable or guys just being guys.

Biiiiiiiiig difference between being harassed or assaulted and someone merely speaking to you. Obviously guys taking it too far is a problem but guys trying to engage women is normal and acceptable and necessary.
 

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What was the point of this video? What is it even trying to accomplish.

Just a way for feminists to explain why men are evil and why women should hate men.

We all know there are creepy guys out there and thirsty guys who don't know how to act but videos like this won't make them change.
 

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Do you know that some feminists think all men are rapists just that some can supress the urge :mjlol:


Just a way for feminists to explain why men are evil and why women should hate men.

We all know there are creepy guys out there and thirsty guys who don't know how to act but videos like this won't make them change.
 

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Just a way for feminists to explain why men are evil and why women should hate men.

We all know there are creepy guys out there and thirsty guys who don't know how to act but videos like this won't make them change.

But they deflate their own agenda. In the video it states she is clearly wearing sexually appealing clothing. What? They thought she would not get looks or compliments!????? Especially in Upper Manhattan!!???:ohmy::ohmy::ohmy::ohmy::ohmy: She should be lucky she made it out safe!

Again the video is stupid and only proves further that feminist are bored idiots with mere first world problems.

It would have had a stronger agenda if they would have had a natural beautiful women just wearing normal clothing. But as we know feminist aren't that bright.
 

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Agreed. I actually discussed this earlier with a few friends and one of them brought up a good point:

" there is no sincere meaning behind the hello. Most of the time they are simply saying it for their own and their friends enjoyment. They don't care how I am doing. They aren't interested in being my friend and their "hello" is as empty as the "HOO HOO" you shout when you walk up to the Chimpanzee cage at the zoo so they will turn around and you can get a better look at them. Guys can tell themselves all day that they are just "being friendly" but most of the time, we all know that these greetings are just a way to get the girls attention, whether it is a sad attempt to pick her up, or just so she will turn around and look at you. If this isn't so, why don't they say hello and smile to old ladies walking by, or other men?"

What exactly is wrong with a guy trying to get a girl's attention? Isn't that kinda how this mating thing works? We gonna act like women don't wear certain clothing or walk a certain way in order to garner attention? There is nothing wrong with a guy approaching a women/trying to get her attention. That in and of itself is not a problem and shouldn't be treated like one. Guys continuing to press the issue after being shot down or becoming aggressive is the problem.
 

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for real.

I want some broads to call me beautiful while I strut around the mall. most of these females see an attractive guy and look away, tense up and blush and then when you walk past, look back. stare you down.

nah say what you think, yell damn. :blessed:
EXACTLY. I hate when females do that shyt (the look away once you look in their direction, etc.). Especially if she's something I'd holla at. Makes me wonder "Is she attracted, or is it just my brain......?"

I'd LOVE to be catcalled by females. Not only would it be an ego boost, it's just be entertaining to hear what they say.
 

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Never said they were, that doesn't mean they expect to bag. Like I said, some enjoy flirting and conversing with bad chicks. Some just wanted to acknowledged her. Most are feeling her out, but wouldn't proceed any further if she gave a short response or no response at all.
You don't have to actually say something to imply it though and I also wasn't speaking just about you. I can understand how you took it that way though but dudes even IRL I know try to kick that bullshyt to me. I don't remember saying or implying they expect to bag for sure but they are definitely hoping that it goes good. Nobody can sell me on they just doing it for gp flirting and conversing with bad chicks. They want some if not all of these chicks to give them some type of action is all I'm saying and if you believe otherwise ok but I feel you are being naive in this instance.
 
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