10 hours of walking in NYC as a woman
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R.E.N. Spells Ren
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This is kind of nuanced so I get the confusion and I'll try to articulate what I'm saying more clearly.
I was addressing the 'success rate' angle dude was pushing. I think we both agree they found her attractive (which, by definition, means they wanted to smash), and it was her attractiveness that, primarily, caused them to greet her. What I'm refuting is the notion that this qualifies as 'hollering' and should even be looked at in the same lens as a success rate.
In my opinion this is closer to other small gestures of kindness (such as holding doors)...just cuz holding a door for a chick rarely results in anything more, doesn't mean you're crazy for continuing to do it.
thernbroom
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She's just walking down the street minding her own business trying to get to where she wants to get to and to get all that unwanted attention, is pretty bad IMO. There's a time & place to holla at a girl And lets BE REAL, those compliments were only said w/the intention of getting in her pants, seeing as how they were said to her and only her. And any woman that even acknowledges those compliments opens the door for any other behavior by that dude, so it's better for them to just keep it pushin' and at the least stop receiving that attention.
Because it is obvious in the video that is why. You can make a passing compliment with good intentions but it doesn't look right because of the scenario at hand. If you're commenting that a passerby that she looks good you look like "one of those people". I don't write the rules for this, I just don't cape for guys who feel like they have to say something.
You didn't read my post all the way in.Yes the video probably showcased the thirstier guys, which apparently is a high chunk of most interactions women experience when being complimented randomly.
And you love taking the extreme route to try and refute the point. As I said, there is a time and place. Approaching a woman at the club would be better because it's a social environment and one you'll be inside of for a good amount of time. If you're trying to trade numbers and get some booty from passerbys on the street then it's a different look all together.
Yea but saying hello to someone for the sole purpose of hoping to open a window to smashing is hardly an act of kindness. And women are not stupid, they know this, which is why that fake niceness is annoying.
It's not much different from guys who put themselves into the friend zone in the hopes of "niceing" themselves into the p*ssy. Hardly the same as holding a door for an old lady or another dude, out of legitimate niceness.
CrossBones
Louder than words
it isnt a crime to greet someone, or to try and start a conversation. thats the point of saying hello. and to tell you the truth, I watched the video and can tell you that she has no manners or social class herself, ignoring people and walking around with the stink face all day. she looks retarded, to tell you the truth. but anyways, looking at her and how she acts, you can see shes a stuck up bytch. and youre free to be that, but you still stuck up. now no matter your gender, looks or whatever, if youre going around snubbing people, youre the bytch. you can tell she has no social skills - or is doing all this while straight-faced and tight lipped in order to look like she was under torture and duress. they have drugs today for social anxiety, you know.
now thats just to flip in on you and get you looking at both sides for a second ...
back to the issue here, its not the fault of regular assed people that they want to be social. thats just life. they said everyone, from latino to black and even white hollered and greeted her. wow, how horrible for people to address you, compliment you, and want to get to know you. lol at greeting someone is supposed to be an offense .. smh. this video says its a crime, like shes under the gun all day because people said "hi" to her or complimented her and tried to talk. for everyone clamoring about "dusty" ass folks, just remember that shes only showing us two minutes of a ten hour walk, and throughout a city of millions. but they said all types talked to her.. hmm, it just looks too much like an agenda is in play here. they only wanted to villainize the hood here
when I hear of "social experiment" I think of that kony shyt, and all of this social media thats being used to study things. sometimes I have to wonder what, or who in particular theyre studying.. something to think about.
now thats just to flip in on you and get you looking at both sides for a second ...
back to the issue here, its not the fault of regular assed people that they want to be social. thats just life. they said everyone, from latino to black and even white hollered and greeted her. wow, how horrible for people to address you, compliment you, and want to get to know you. lol at greeting someone is supposed to be an offense .. smh. this video says its a crime, like shes under the gun all day because people said "hi" to her or complimented her and tried to talk. for everyone clamoring about "dusty" ass folks, just remember that shes only showing us two minutes of a ten hour walk, and throughout a city of millions. but they said all types talked to her.. hmm, it just looks too much like an agenda is in play here. they only wanted to villainize the hood here
when I hear of "social experiment" I think of that kony shyt, and all of this social media thats being used to study things. sometimes I have to wonder what, or who in particular theyre studying.. something to think about.
nomoreneveragain
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There's these 2 fine ass women who work in my building but work for a different company, they'd say good morning, hello, smile, have a good day to me when they saw me in the elevator. I didn't know their names.
They were Harassing me and I didn't even know it
They were Harassing me and I didn't even know it
damn breh, sounds awful. I hope you called the policeThere's these 2 fine ass women who work in my building but work for a different company, they'd say good morning, hello, smile, have a good day to me when they saw me in the elevator. I didn't know their names.
They were Harassing me and I didn't even know it
Ronnie Lott
#49erGang
Basically this bytch walked thru a bunch of dusty ass broke nikkaz. 
Some of these cats need to fall back and stop bein so gatdamn thirsty. Who raised these nikkaz
Those tactics only work on ratchets or unless u are a smooth fly cat with his game tight 
Some of these cats need to fall back and stop bein so gatdamn thirsty. Who raised these nikkaz
Those tactics only work on ratchets or unless u are a smooth fly cat with his game tight
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Box Cutta
Bumbling Sidekick
What is the solution to all of this? More policing? In what has to be one of the most policed cities in the world in NYC?
All of this new "street harassment" crap is tied into gentrification, racist profiling, etc. These fukking rural and country girls, who grew up in lily white. small towns, want to be "cool" and move to a big city. But when they get there, they are not used to the culture and more aggressive males (Who have to be that way in places like this just to have a fukking chance to get a girl). They think it's their area now and that they shouldn't have to put up with men, especially colored ones, talking to them.
I don't cat call or gawk. And it honestly makes me uncomfortable when I'm with friends that do the shyt too aggressively. But this new labeling as "street harassment" is just more culture controlling police state bullshyt.
Put on some headphones or move back to Idaho.
All of this new "street harassment" crap is tied into gentrification, racist profiling, etc. These fukking rural and country girls, who grew up in lily white. small towns, want to be "cool" and move to a big city. But when they get there, they are not used to the culture and more aggressive males (Who have to be that way in places like this just to have a fukking chance to get a girl). They think it's their area now and that they shouldn't have to put up with men, especially colored ones, talking to them.
I don't cat call or gawk. And it honestly makes me uncomfortable when I'm with friends that do the shyt too aggressively. But this new labeling as "street harassment" is just more culture controlling police state bullshyt.
Put on some headphones or move back to Idaho.
I'm watching Inside Edition and the chick who made this video is claiming she's getting threats of rape over this vid. Even in the interview she came off as stuck up, and she's an aspiring actress.
I give it ~2 pages before someone in here says she deserves it
After all if a woman is "disrespectful", a man can't be held responsible for what happens afterwards............................................
We are just thirsty, emotional, violent creatures, and women have to understand and deal with that
philmonroe
Superstar
Yeah I don't agree or care about the "success rate" stuff because man dudes should be doing that respectfully of course instead of hoping and praying to just get a girl by luck. I disagree with you because I do look like it as "hollering" but I have no problem with it. I just don't like when dudes in general trying to insult my intelligence and say they just doing it like they wipe they ass or something. Its a reason you doing it (which I understand ) ain't no need to lie about it IMO.
Regarding holding the door and stuff I also have no problem with cats doing it but my problem comes when cats whine about doing it and somebody doesn't say thanks. While that is the right thing to do everybody isn't going to say it and if you doing it with pure intentions it doesn't matter if they thank you or not. That's how I feel and I know everybody don't agree but for the most part we seem to agree with a few variations here and there.
I don't cape for guys just being nice either but looking like "one of those guys" is really if you're attracted or not and that's all I'm trying to say for parties. Keep it real males/females and things would be better off.Because it is obvious in the video that is why. You can make a passing compliment with good intentions but it doesn't look right because of the scenario at hand. If you're commenting that a passerby that she looks good you look like "one of those people". I don't write the rules for this, I just don't cape for guys who feel like they have to say something.
Yes the video probably showcased the thirstier guys, which apparently is a high chunk of most interactions women experience when being complimented randomly.
And you love taking the extreme route to try and refute the point. As I said, there is a time and place. Approaching a woman at the club would be better because it's a social environment and one you'll be inside of for a good amount of time. If you're trying to trade numbers and get some booty from passerbys on the street then it's a different look all together.
Edit:Guys should only holler at chicks in the club honestly that's stupid on so many levels. What if you don't frequent them types of environments? What if she don't? I should potentially pass up on a great person cause I'm not at the club, bar, other "meat market" spots? That don't make a lot of sense truthfully and cat take that advice. That's advice only suckers and cowards would roll with.
I agree with this 100% and don't understand how some guys don't see it as such. Let's be honest how many dudes trying to say hello to mostly
Just because? That's how we know its bullshyt but like said I don't have no problem with it outside when dudes try to lie like you were born yesterday when its not necessary at all. Who don't understand you want to get a chicks so why even lie about the reasons for saying "hi" and the like?
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They want men to be on some pet dog mentality. These mentally dysfunctional women hate anything masculine and call freedom of speech "harassment." Soon, these fascist feminists are gonna put computer chips in your brain.
Some brehs take a woman not being interested as disrespect.
And even if a woman is disrespectful, how does that warrant her facing physical harm? Are u so sensitive u think a chick saying no in anything less than a pandering pleasing voice is OK to get clapped for
U can't tell if a woman isn't feeling you? Its pretty simple.... if u make eye contact and she keeps it moving + doesn't smile she probably isn't feeling u. U dont have to be a mind reader but not being able to read body language as an adult male means u mite be an idiot.
And the whole "let someone disrespect u" thing is BS.... are u one of those nikkas who punches bytches out for not giving the answer u wanted? Regardless of what u do, once you are disrespected you are disrespected... only way to prevent that is to not interact with anybody
If those private places decide thats what they want to do, thats on them
You got it all wrong. So totally wrong. Assumptions like that can get you sued for slander. I ain't going to jail for no broad, but she gonna know that no one will ever treat her right with that shyt. But let p*ssy and feminists control you like it is now, I'm sure women gave you tons of p*ssy for kissing their ass and simping them.
