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What, specifically, in that vid was harassment as you see it?
I watched the video yesterday and dont have access to it now. So I cant call out specifics.

But breh. U know how far shyt can go. I would say anything involving touching or following a chick = harassment. And u know a lot of dudes are not above that at all. I cant remember if there was any touching in the vid but there was def following. What a lot of nikkas call "persistence" I would call harassment.
 
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I watched the video yesterday and dont have access to it now. So I cant call out specifics.

But breh. U know how far shyt can go. I would say anything involving touching or following a chick = harassment. And u know a lot of dudes are not above that at all. I cant remember if there was any touching in the vid but there was def following. What a lot of nikkas call "persistence" I would call harassment.

No one touched her. One dude followed her (the only instance of harassment, imo). There were also a few instances of 'lewd' comments (not really lewd, but objectifying comments...for instance, yelling "damn" as she walked by)...I could accept that as the lowest form of harassment.

The rest were just compliments and general salutations.

Far less than 2/3 of that vid was harassment.
 

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No one touched her. One dude followed her (the only instance of harassment, imo). There were also a few instances of 'lewd' comments (not really lewd, but objectifying comments...for instance, yelling "damn" as she walked by)...I could accept that as the lowest form of harassment.

The rest were just compliments and general salutations.

Far less than 2/3 of that vid was harassment.
muse said 2/3rds of the vid was harassment, not me.

And even if it wasn't harassment, it's still annoying. And then when women don't respond to these guys, the guys say they are rude.

With what looks like such a low success rate, as well as the perpetuation of such a dusty, thirsty energy, I don't understand why dudes are so eager to defend this shyt. What do we gain from being able to complement women on the street who don't want to talk to us?
 

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I just find it interesting that you consider most of what she recorded harassment, but chose to focus on the exceptions that weren't to downplay the issue she was trying to raise.

I'm really at a loss as to what pleasure dudes get from "complimenting" random women on the street. shyt is drive by simping. These chicks are generally not fukking dudes who approach them that way. It's very dusty energy. There are much easier ways to "bag" women. And odds are if u are a nikka on his shyt u wont have time to stand around like that in the first place. So what do nikkas really gain from this?
At the end of the day you're supporting this being labeled criminal behavior.

A lot of women don't want to be approached on the street

But you know what a lot of other women do.

There are already harassment laws on the books. No need to amend them to men saying hello.
 

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I see some women on twitter and posts on here saying NYC men are thirsty :stopitslime: this same video can be filmed in any major city and you will have thirsty men who can't take no for an answer, ignore the signs that she is not interested. The thing about NYC is everybody is in a rush to get to their destination so with women i can understand how a guy approaching you may throw you off. IMO social media plays a part in this also i say this because some people lack verbal communication skills they can't have a conversation outside of twitter, text messages, and message boards so they might come off a lil arkward outside in the real world because we can do everything online now we're glued to our phones, ipads, etc. walk down the street in any city men and women are looking down at their phones.
 

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At the end of the day you're supporting this being labeled criminal behavior.

A lot of women don't want to be approached on the street

But you know what a lot of other women do.

There are already harassment laws on the books. No need to amend them to men saying hello.
Im not necessarily for this becoming a law. It would just be another avenue for the NYPD to abuse black men, and it reeks of Jim Crow era racism.

At the same time though, JCE racism had people being lynched literally for nothing. Nowadays women actually are being harassed. So the question I have is, how is continuing to perpetuate this behavior, legal or not, a net plus for us? What do nikkas gain from being able to complement a woman who probably doesnt want to talk to him?
 

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Cool, maybe next time I need to call the police because the woman who rings me up at the grocery store smiles at me and says 'have a great day', because you know, that's harrassment.

Maybe we need to shame women into stop speaking during football or during PS4 sessions and stop with the game harrassment because you know, that makes men feel disturbed and they don't want to be disturbed.

that's how stupid this is. There was 1 persistent dude who was borderline and 1 creepy dude in the footage who followed her, and this was what they could cull from TEN HOURS of footage.
 

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I see some women on twitter and posts on here saying NYC men are thirsty :stopitslime: this same video can be filmed in any major city and you will have thirsty men who can't take no for an answer, ignore the signs that she is not interested. The thing about NYC is everybody is in a rush to get to their destination so with women i can understand how a guy approaching you may throw you off. IMO social media plays a part in this also i say this because some people lack verbal communication skills they can't have a conversation outside of twitter, text messages, and message boards so they might come off a lil arkward outside in the real world because we can do everything online now we're glued to our phones, ipads, etc. walk down the street in any city men and women are looking down at their phones.
Breh, there are a lot of thirsty nikkas in NYC. Dont try and downplay it.

And yea, people are busy and trying to get where they are going. That has nothing to do with being awkward. U live in NYC.... do u stop and talk to everybody who approaches u? You would never get anywhere in Manhattan.
 

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None of these statements are true. I messed around with a chick just a few days ago. I ain't bummy or anything of that sort. Thanks for asking :myman:

Now stop spreading rumors like bird brain hoes n debate like grown people. That 12 year old shyt is why no one can respect :cape: type of people

Are you including yourself in this statement? :mjpls:


Glad you're acknowledging this



:ehh: I agree

:sadcam: U soundin real thirsty and no-p*ssy-getting-ish right here

So your answer to "sexual frustration" is street harassment?

When is the last time u got some ass breh? Wats that restraining order count lookin like? :mjcry:

This is way worse than I thought.
 

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Cool, maybe next time I need to call the police because the woman who rings me up at the grocery store smiles at me and says 'have a great day', because you know, that's harrassment.

Maybe we need to shame women into stop speaking during football or during PS4 sessions and stop with the game harrassment because you know, that makes men feel disturbed and they don't want to be disturbed.

that's how stupid this is. There was 1 persistent dude who was borderline and 1 creepy dude in the footage who followed her, and this was what they could cull from TEN HOURS of footage.
What % of women that uve been with, did u meet by approaching them on the street?
 

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None of these statements are true. I messed around with a chick just a few days ago. I ain't bummy or anything of that sort. Thanks for asking :myman:

Now stop spreading rumors like bird brain hoes n debate like grown people. That 12 year old shyt is why no one can respect :cape: type of people
Did u meet her on the street?

How many chicks have u fukked that u met that way?

What's your % success rate with that approach?
 

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What % of women that uve been with, did u meet by approaching them on the street?
Define street. Is harassment confined to the street or just public in general? If anything nikkas will grope a girl more in a houseparty/club because there's a higher chance nobody is looking and that they can get away with it. shyt I've had girls grab my ass in the club too.

I've had two girlfriends in my life...one i knew since I was young the other I bagged in public at the train station. The latter was a better girlfriend than the former too.

The last girl to come close to being my girlfriend (i found out she was too immature and a hardcore muslim so i deaded it) i also bagged off the street after we both got off the bus. Woulda fukked if she wasnt so religious and a virgin :manny:. I saw her in my class days before and decided to cross the street and say something to her.

Last girl I fukked days ago...met her getting off the bus as we were both walking home about a year ago. She stays on my dikk too and has been since the week i met her. Not every dude on the street is a degenerate but these girls use heuristics and assume we are.


Overall, I would say that a good 25-33% of the girls I've had sex with (total of 12) or even talked to I met off the street. The other % are mainly from parties/the club.

Bagging girls in the street/public >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> :blessed:. It's fun.
 
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What % of women that uve been with, did u meet by approaching them on the street?

What does it matter what percentage I've met on the street? That's not even relevant to this discussion. The issue at hand is why should feminists be able to legally or socially bar men from even greeting women in passing? There's a huge difference between a man groping a woman, grabbing a woman, and following a woman and between a man saying "Hey, how you doing today"
 
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