10 hours of walking in NYC as a woman

[KinksandCoils]

Women don't want to be sized up. The good mornings and hellos were nice. But saying damn and following is doing to much. That makes people feel like you are undressing them with your eyes. I've had old men follow me in the grocery store after telling them I wasn't interested. Yea that's harassment.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

to be fair, you can't get dudes from nyc to shut the fukk up no matter what the situation is

if I walked around nyc for 10 hours, I would have just as many street hustlers approach me trying to spit some bullshyt too. and im covered in tattoos and have an intimidating presence.

 

[WaveGang]

she aint even nice doe. 7-7.5/10 at best

they shudda got a real spice

 

[AkaDemiK]

Here's another one. "Stop telling women to smile"

http://stoptellingwomentosmile.com/

this is borderline retarded....the day we "stop telling them to smile" is the day when they label us as weak, too passive for not paying any attention to them and their needs/feelings...

get the entire fukk outta here with this bullshyt campaign

 

[Rice N Beans]

This 2 minute clip is culled from 10 hours of footage in one of the busiest cities in the world with a woman wearing skin tight clothing to show off her body. In the clip, I see one thirsty dude who is following her and being overly persistent, one creepy stalker who is following her, and the rest are composed of black and latin men giving her compliments and not pursuing or doing anything else as she ignores them and keeps walking. I don't see the huge issue, other than the one weirdo who is following her for 5 minutes. Editing footage like that, you can pretty much make whatever point you feel. I can put on a fancy suit, a bunch of jewelry, walk through a busy city, film selective women gawking and make comments and then talk about how I was 'being harrassed.' If this is the best they can do after 10 hours of footage, then I don't see some sort of pandemic. I fail to see what's so wrong with giving a woman a compliment in a public setting or saying hello. Grabbing her arm or following her around if she doesn't feel you... THAT'S street harrassment.

Unfortunately you don't define what is harassment to another person, especially a woman.

Secondly, it's fairly obvious the intention of most of the comments and calls directed towards her, hence the video. Yeah her experiment was a bit much and she did look good, but I'm not going to subject her to presumably unwanted comments.

Thirdly, that is the issue. Most women don't want to be pelted with veiled comments by randoms as they go about their day. Does that mean that all comments are off limits? Of course not. Circumstances do change and etc but for the most part this is what women experience both as a harmless compliment and the Rico Suave dating act.

Lastly, if the very first comment to a woman is how good she looks then you're already looking for trouble.

 

[beanz]

i knew when i saw this video yesterday that the thread would do numbers on the coli but

 

[kevm3]

this is borderline retarded....the day we "stop telling them to smile" is the day when they label us as weak, too passive for not paying any attention to them and their needs/feelings...

get the entire fukk outta here with this bullshyt campaign

In some of these videos, you'll see a woman in some short shorts and completely flaunting her body and then acting outraged that she is getting noticed and getting attention... but then when we create the society that these women supposedly want where guys aren't paying them attention, they'll be complaining about how guys aren't aggressive enough and how guys aren't approaching them. These feminists want to go out here, wear attention whore outfits and be able to sift through who is able to make a compliment to her or even look at her. They engage in behavior to actively seek attention and then act outraged when they get it, and then when it's removed, they'll be complaining about losing something they said they wanted gone. Utter insanity.

 

[beanz]

i knew this cool ass dude that just talked to women with enough game and smoothness to make the hardest lesbian ready to spread her legs.

one time we were working together in soho in downtown manhattan. he was posted up doing his usual "good morning" routine to all the pretty pawgs and paags and he must have said it to the wrong girl. she kept walking and turned around and came back like

"why would u do that? "

"why would i do what? say good morning?"

"you are sexually harrassing me. i am someone's daughter and i dont need random men catcalling me in the street all day "

"miss all i did was say good morning to u "

she walked away and we were all fukking mindblown at that. she was tearing up and my boy was terrified that she would complain about him to our bosses.

 

[kevm3]

Unfortunately you don't define what is harassment to another person, especially a woman.

Secondly, it's fairly obvious the intention of most of the comments and calls directed towards her, hence the video. Yeah her experiment was a bit much and she did look good, but I'm not going to subject her to presumably unwanted comments.

Thirdly, that is the issue. Most women don't want to be pelted with veiled comments by randoms as they go about their day. Does that mean that all comments are off limits? Of course not. Circumstances do change and etc but for the most part this is what women experience both as a harmless compliment and the Rico Suave dating act.

Lastly, if the very first comment to a woman is how good she looks then you're already looking for trouble.

So over 10 hours of recorded footage in one of the busiest cities in the world and we get a two minute clip filled with Black and Latin guys saying hi to her, some commenting on her looks, 1 thirsty guy and 1 actual loser and this is some sort of pandemic. I guess guys better never say hi or approach an attractive woman ever, because their intentions are known and sinister right? Don't go up to a woman in a club or bar and introduce yourself because she might feel threatened and you're only introducing yourself for one thing. In the mall? You still only want one thing, so don't bother saying hi.

 

[Knicksman20]

Yeah but the Coli is not representative of real life. There was once a thread where posters thought they could legit go toe to toe with a chimpanzee. Some of them were trolling but at least a few of them legit think they would be able to stop the assault of a creature that is at least 2-3 times the strength of an average person.

You getting harassed is totally dependent on time and location. If you're in the hood with hood nikkas and knuckleheads yeah you're gonna get harassed and that's not your fault, that's just the nature of the beast.

If you're out in the city on a Saturday night, chances are that shyt is not happening to you. You might get a cat call or two but dudes aren't gonna follow you like that....not unless they're drunk or some other shyt.

 

[b_priest9mm]

I haven't read the thread yet, but all the rules that women set generally go out the window when a man who she finds attractive enters the picture.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

So basically you gotta be rich and white to talk to women

So being a working/ middle class dude is a crime when talking to women. Got it

No dawg. Don't be stupid on purpose, that's a bad look.

U can talk to whatever woman u want... in the right setting. When a chick is speeding to/from work or somewhere important the last thing she wants to do is stop and talk to some bum ass nikka trying to fukk. Its just like those 'do u care about children' people who stand around Midtown trying to guilt people into giving money, or LITERALLY like bums standing around begging for change. I am not a smooth or handsome dude, but I have "bagged" plenty of women without having to approach them on the street. shyt there have been times women have heard about me and seen me around and approached me. So if the only way u are able to meet chicks is on the street, 1. u are probably dealing with low class women, 2 u are probably a lame w/nothing going on and no friends- u cant meet women through people u know? Thats the easiest way to do it.

 

[b_priest9mm]

It would happen anywhere. It's not the location.


Have you read some of the things people say around here? Yeah..... Especially the first situation. Seems harmless to ask for someone for a number but if I've already said no once, what makes you think that seeing you running after me from my peripheral is going to make me say yes? I don't get the logic behind that.

If Roman approached you, does any of what you said still stand?

 

[b_priest9mm]

Well that's it brehs. I was already gonna roll out of America because of cacs, but this shyt clinches it for me. I seriously doubt women elsewhere on planet Earth deal with attention from men as fukked up as American women.

Deuces.

 

[Sk3ptical]

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