10 Great Reasons To Save Sex Until Marriage
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This would of been a good model to follow back in the days, for today it's outdated. Mostly because the chances of a female and male virgin meeting each other are virtually impossible. When it used to be the standard that sex was confined to marriage, the chances of two people with little to no baggage meeting each other and forming a healthy relationship not based around sex were relatively high. Those people were essentially operating from a clean slate. Nowadays everyone has some sort of baggage they're carrying from previous relationships that leaves them jaded to a certain extent. Ideals have changed and now the sexual aspect of a relationship has much more importance to most people of today. People engage in sex before they barely know each other for that instant gratification and then try to form a relationship afterwards and many times it doesn't work out which leads to men and women both being hurt in the process. So by the time the average man and woman gets together these days they've already been damaged to the point where they can't conceive forming a healthy relationship that isn't based around sex. In other words its too late for them.
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
honestly.....if i could go back
i would have waited....
a lot of bad choices ive made in life have had to do with sex
i would have waited....
a lot of bad choices ive made in life have had to do with sex
BLΔCK⁂W⊙LF
All Star
'Sin' just means, "missing the mark". Missing out on being a better person, personal growth, etc... I don't know whether sex before marriage would qualify as such given the current state of society. You also have to consider the context of the day. If you had sex in the past, there was a high chance of having a kid. Having sex outside of marriage led to a kid being born that the parents didn't prepare for, and that kid would grow up with parents that probably did not have money and the proper resources to care for it. It showed a lack of discipline and proper planning. That is the sin.
Today, people have condoms, plan B's, etc... So is it really missing the mark to have sex outside of marriage if the chances of having a kid are low?
Now, there is a rapid increase in the number of STD cases which tells me people are being reckless/undisciplined in their actions, and that is a sin because it harms society and stunts your personal growth.
'Sin' just means, "missing the mark". Missing out on being a better person, personal growth, etc... I don't know whether sex before marriage would qualify as such given the current state of society. You also have to consider the context of the day. If you had sex in the past, there was a high chance of having a kid. Having sex outside of marriage led to a kid being born that the parents didn't prepare for, and that kid would grow up with parents that probably did not have money and the proper resources to care for it. It showed a lack of discipline and proper planning. That is the sin.
Today, people have condoms, plan B's, etc... So is it really missing the mark to have sex outside of marriage if the chances of having a kid are low?
Now, there is a rapid increase in the number of STD cases which tells me people are being reckless/undisciplined in their actions, and that is a sin because it harms society and stunts your personal growth.
Sex between two persons that are unmarried is fornication.
Fornication is sin.
This is based upon a Judaeo-Christian moral belief/framework.
BLΔCK⁂W⊙LF
All Star
I think there is more to it, but I am not going to go down that route.
What if you find out you aren't sexually compatible with each other? That's the main issue with waiting.
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ChiefQueen
HBIC
Tight, wet p*ssy is never wack, ya lame.
Elle Seven
Superstar
My plan was to wait until I got married, too. At first, it was for religious reasons, but it evolved into practical reasons.I don't care what any other woman says in defense of fukking a lot like some men do - women stand to lose the most when a sexual encounter goes awry in a heterosexual relationship (i.e. the woman gets pregnant).
One could argue the moral and financial responsibility of the man involved, but that doesn't change the biological truth that the female will have to decide to either carry a child to term and raise it, carry it to term and give it away, or abort it. That burden is on me as a woman.
Knowing that, it just never made sense to have sex outside of a committed relationship, and in that relationship, it made no sense to fukk a man I could tell was "off" or couldn't be father material.
This is what I'm going to teach my children - sex is ideal within a marriage because it's for the purposes of creating children, first and foremost. And since most people can't understand the true emotional and spiritual implications of having sex with another person, it's easier to just look at the physical consequences which can come about from it and base your decisions on that.
Elle Seven
Superstar
I would want the woman I marry to follow this. In the mean time I'm smashing everything I can.
Lol, I think this is a lot of men.
I always found it interested that my best friend was having a lot of sex at an early age, even with older women. Yet, when he got married to a girl who was much less experienced, he started getting frustrated because he, unbeknownst to her, was comparing her to other women he had been with.
She was being held to the standards of his ghosts past and she didn't even know it. And he couldn't enjoy her as she was because he was too focused on what she wasn't able to do.
I think this is probably another reason to abstain from sex outside of marriage, or at least without a commitment.
Henri Christophe
Son Of Afrika
Shut ya dumb ass up... Just cause ya p*ssy wet doesnt mean you kno how to fukk.
ChiefQueen
HBIC
Tight + wet p*ssy is all a man needs. He'll do the rest. Ask any of the dudes on here and they'll confirm this. Nobody wants a stretched out p*ssy with mileage and experience. The threads on body counts on here is evident. Also, If men wanted pornstars in the bedroom they'd all be happily married with children instead of being single in their 40s/50s.
sexual soul ties are real be careful brehs