I don't agree with saving sex until marriage. Sexual compatibility is important.
Delaying sex is good for a relationship though.
Are you saying you are pro fornication?
I don't agree with saving sex until marriage. Sexual compatibility is important.
Delaying sex is good for a relationship though.
If he can't make you have an orgasm you will hate sex and wonder why people want to do it all the time. He won't understand why you won't want to have sex and probably not realise what he is doing wrong. Also, your bodies could not be compatible. There is nothing worse than having sex with someone who doesn't have a compatible body. I can't imagine being stuck with that forever.
Sexual incompatibility can't be fixed? Why do people think that the first sexual experience with your spouse can't be fixed? If they chose do date and get married in the first place, the attraction is already there. Do sparks have to fly on the first try? Is there a "you only get one shot to make me orgasm" rule when it comes to sex?If he can't make you have an orgasm you will hate sex and wonder why people want to do it all the time. He won't understand why you won't want to have sex and probably not realise what he is doing wrong. Also, your bodies could not be compatible. There is nothing worse than having sex with someone who doesn't have a compatible body. I can't imagine being stuck with that forever.
Are you saying you are pro fornication?
I find it funny when people use the sex compatibility argument.
I counsel married people everyday who have great sex lives and they are still unfaithful and unhappy in their marriages.
@ people who think good sex is going to carry you through a 30,40,50 year marriage with all of lifes uncertainties.
I'm glad my father taught me that sex is nothing more than a physical sensation and it's not the most important aspect of a marriage.
No one is saying good sex = strong marriage, but it sure doesn't hurt. Plus bad sex can doom a marriage.
IT HAPPENED TO ME: I Waited Until My Wedding Night to Lose My Virginity and I Wish I Hadn'tI need to look that up. Thats an interesting perspective.
If you have only been with that person how would you know what you are missing?
Are you saying that the entire total sum of a relationship is you having 7-10 seconds of musle contractions/spasms?
Ummm sexual incompatibility is usually experienced over a period of time. Nothing I said suggested a one and done.Sexual incompatibility can't be fixed? Why do people think that the first sexual experience with your spouse can't be fixed? If they chose do date and get married in the first place, the attraction is already there. Do sparks have to fly on the first try? Is there a "you only get one shot to make me orgasm" rule when it comes to sex?
If you're married can you not ask him you're looking for him to do you sexually to bring you pleasure? Couples can always try...