After a stressful late night, was finally able to finish this FET situation. Had sent most of my coins from CB to Ledger. Then was trying to use their token bridge to convert from erc20 to their native exchange since its not erc20 on their mainnet anymore. The ones I had on metamask converted automatically when everything got changed over to new system but the ones on exchanges didnt. I kept trying and failing and trying to speed up the gas and making sure all the settings were good but nothing. So I left it and woke up this morning to see some replies on the discord since I asked there. Checked my ledger and saw the tokens were gone. Did end up paying a bit more than expected in fees with all the damn speed ups but nothing too crazy. Was then able to send it to the right wallet and put them in staking. Now just gotta build another stack in CB and not check those staked amounts until I do, which will be a while so it can hopefully grow a decent amount until then.