i had 2 incidents where my gf displayed this type of behavior
1. labor day weekend last year we went to DC for my homie's wedding. since it was my friend i planned and paid for everything on the trip: airfare, hotel, rental car, food. she got a free trip out of the deal Now on the day we touched down in DC my homie's bachelor party was that night and i told my gf that i was going to go..she got all indignant like "what am i supposed to do?"..i was like well if you want you can drop me off at the restaurant and pick me up at whatever time...she didn't want to do that because she doesnt like driving or having to follow a gps.
i tried to arrange for her to have my homie's wife-to-be pick her up and go to her bachelorette party...but something happened and it fell through. i gave her like 30 bucks for whatever dinner and told her you're not a prisoner you can go somewhere..then she's like i dont want to go out by myself..i was like whatever ill be back later...i came back annihilated sometime around 4:30 and she got mad at me for coming in that late, waking her up, and turning on the hallway room lights. When i came to 5 hours later i went downstairs looking for her and saw she was at the hotel computer playing around. Having the nerve to not speak to me.
I told her straight up "there wasn't going to be all that no talking nonsense....you came on this trip as my date because youre my gf on my dime...you can be mad all you want but whatever pre wedding activities my homie is doing then im doing...i could have easily went on this by myself"..we were going to meet my brother for brunch and i didnt want him seeing that shyt..had to make things real clear...we had no problems for the rest of the trip
2. me and a couple of my boys are planning a trip to jamaica...a trip my gf is not a fan of because she's not a fan of most of my boys due to how they treat women and the shyt they get into...she thinks their bad behaviors will rub off on me being so far away...i told her i didnt trip when you and your best friend (who's currently a sideline ho for a married cat) went to trinidad and some other south american country and if im going to go i will go...she sent me an e-mail a little later on what i can't do if i go to jamaica
she was serious with this shyt while i was rollin....silly ass females man