Your girl just moved in with you...

[ultraflexed]

does she HAVE to pay half of rent or a bill?

Would you let her skate with just cooking and taking care of the place?

Edit: she does have a job and takes care of things around the house

Edit: asking because my bro bout to have his girl move in with him and I'm just tryna to make sure I'm not in the wrong by telling him that he should have pay half cause she using half

It depends on the how we want to build a life together. If the goal is the to a simple or modest family (apartment life) then no I wouldn't make her work just cleaning an cooking and raising the kids.

But if she wants the most out of life, the houses the cars, kids, travel, some wealth, then she is going to have to work too. Maybe not long term but long enough to get the foundation set until things take off then she can slowly cut back, this could take about 10 years at least.

 

[Gimini00]

I would have been very uncomfortable with that arrangement. What did you provide in return?

She was pregnant at that time, i wasn't good financially and she wanted to settle down with me, she understood i needed some time to build myself, it was just temporary situation so nothing to be ashamed.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Where he live, in the DMV, both pay rent. In Atlanta, he should be able to hold down the ship

He's in South Carolina

 

[EARFQUAKE]

Just went through this thread Sunday night fukkery

 

[Mowgli]

does she HAVE to pay half of rent or a bill?

Would you let her skate with just cooking and taking care of the place?

Edit: she does have a job and takes care of things around the house

Edit: asking because my bro bout to have his girl move in with him and I'm just tryna to make sure I'm not in the wrong by telling him that he should have pay half cause she using half

It's couple specific. In our marriage

I pay the living expenses and internet and she pays the utilities and groceries. Because our childcare is virtually free she's able to put more money away and she works alot of OT.

We eatin.

And if she try to take that money and run, ima take half that shyt in court.

 

[RandomDudeOnColi]

This thread got to 9 pages under an hour.

 

[Giselle]

Ladies if your man was moving it with you would he have to pay half of rent or would you be cool with him cooking and providing hard dikk on demand?

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He will be paying ALL of the rent

& I would do the cooking, cleaning ect.

I would contribute to groceries and other smaller bills.

does she HAVE to pay half of rent or a bill?

Would you let her skate with just cooking and taking care of the place?

Edit: she does have a job and takes care of things around the house

Edit: asking because my bro bout to have his girl move in with him and I'm just tryna to make sure I'm not in the wrong by telling him that he should have pay half cause she using half

If she asked to move in, then I think she should pay half. If he asked her to move in, then I think he should continue to pay the rent, but they should both pay for food and all of the other stuff.

 

[Amy Traphouse]

True but if u weren't with him u would be paying rent somewhere too right...

You're right I would be paying rent at my own place and if another guy came to live with me and offered then I wouldn't pass it up but again, I would still be paying rent to keep a dwelling over my head whether he did or didn't because its my responsibility.

Now if we're signing leases and such then we will sit down beforehand and discuss how these financial dealings will happen because its our place.

Lol. This is why I would never pay Rent for a girl unless unless I mismanaged myself and got her knocked up. Even then. If you ain't at least trying to pay for half I know you will jump to r he next dude with bread. Can't commit to paying half then you clearly ain't serious.

And thats fine. You both maintain separate living spaces throughout the course of your relationships. A few nights at my house, few nights at yours. Nothing wrong with that at all.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

If he asked your opinion that's good. I don't know the situation and the financial ability of those involved.






Personally I would advise people not to live together before they get married. I'm old school though.

I hear you. I'm kinda "new school" I guess. I'd hate to live with someone then find out that I can't stand their habits and how they maintain a household. I'd feel trapped

 

[EARFQUAKE]

He gotta pay rent and give dikk on demand?

Sheesh

He could always go back to live with his mother if he doesn't like it

 

[Daio]

if I'm paying all the rent that's my apartment now

 

[The5thLetter]

Ladies if your man was moving it with you would he have to pay half of rent or would you be cool with him cooking and providing hard dikk on demand?

@Libra @Rue @Lady.Libra. @MoonGoddess @KinksandCoils @BlackPearl @ChiefQueen @Paradise @Athenna @Coco @Regine Hunter @Kant @CinnaSlim @Jasmine20 @misery @Abayo @gogogubari @LeeDoubleLee @Leissyondabrain @Marti @Giselle @InDePickWest @Libra Meal @Amy Traphouse @GoldCoastSaint @The5thLetter @Ashley Banks @Holy Berry @m0rninggl0ry

I want it all

 

[Mac Brown]

does she HAVE to pay half of rent or a bill?

Would you let her skate with just cooking and taking care of the place?

Edit: she does have a job and takes care of things around the house

Edit: asking because my bro bout to have his girl move in with him and I'm just tryna to make sure I'm not in the wrong by telling him that he should have pay half cause she using half

She needs to pay half the rent or all the utilities, and he pays the rent.

 

[Gimini00]

man i truthfully couldn't do that, unless she was rich.

I just wouldn't feel comfortable or like that place was also mine.

I had nothing to lose, if it didn't work, i would have moved on, but we're still together.

 

[AlainLocke]

if I'm paying all the rent that's my apartment now

A woman wouldn't want me to pay all the rent...bytch would be chained to the bed and getting skull fukked everyday....