I'm not trolling this time lolignoring pk trolling all of you, if you're moving in with a woman and haven't already established all of this shyt way beforehand then you both lost and your relationship will fail.
Your girl just moved in with you...
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martin payne
All Star
damn right she paying rent
UpAndComing
Veteran
i make great money
and still she gotta pay half
i'm not taking care of another adult.
Thank you
Lately I've seen a huge backlash among black women when it comes to splitting bills. Like, they are starting to feel like they shouldn't have to pay anything unless they want to. A chick on Facebook was talking about how in her marriage to an older white man (which failed by the way) he paid everything because his grandparents told him if a woman had to help that meant he wasn't really a man. I'm sure his grand-pappy told him not to have mulatto children with a black woman either. 
Of course all the women were liking her comment.
I can handle rent and utilities as long as the pantry and fridge stay full and miscellaneous nuisance bills (phone, cable, various household needs) are taken care of. That comes to about a 60/40 or 65/35 arrangement depending.
Of course all the women were liking her comment. I can handle rent and utilities as long as the pantry and fridge stay full and miscellaneous nuisance bills (phone, cable, various household needs) are taken care of. That comes to about a 60/40 or 65/35 arrangement depending.
Rockstar Mom
PhatGurlSwag
So rent isnt the real issue. She's not paying for anything at all. Thats a different story.
I'm not one of those people that thinks relationships have to be 50/50. It doesnt have to be exactly equal. There's more than 1 way to pull your weight in a relationship.
Don't couplings engage in sexual activity because the desire and drive are mutual?Men want a woman thats a maid/sex slave, AND pay rent at the same time?
Nah.
Both should do cooking, cleaning, and if they are normal, both should probably fukk on a semi-regular basis depending on their sex drives, health, moods, and schedules.
I don't live with a woman I'm in a relationship expecting my dirty dishes to be cleaned by her
I'm sure she doesn't expect to only use our bed for cuddling either
Tongues aren't just for talking
prince_peoples
Superstar
its not even about the money tho.For all the 6 cert 6 figure talk on here a lot of dudes saying they make their girl kick in
Then again everyone on the coli is also #HOH so that might be why
its about principle
i wouldn't even wanna date a woman who feels like she shouldn't have to chip in half.
Lately I've seen a huge backlash among black women when it comes to splitting bills. Like, they are starting to feel like they shouldn't have to pay anything unless they want to. A chick on Facebook was talking about how in her marriage to an older white man (which failed by the way) he paid everything because his grandparents told him if a woman had to help that meant he wasn't really a man. I'm sure his grand-pappy told him not to have mulatto children with a black woman either.
I can handle rent and utilities as long as the pantry and fridge stay full and miscellaneous nuisance bills (phone, cable, various household needs) are taken care of. That comes to about a 60/40 or 65/35 arrangement depending.
Sheesh lol
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
Doesn't have to be half, but she needs to contribute something. There are no free rides. You need to bring something to the table, or I have no reason to be with you.
Half 
Chances are she was living somewhere where she was paying rent and/or a mortgage. If she was renting, then it'll be less money for both of you on the monthly budget.
If she was owning, then have someone rent out the place, then share costs on the single house.
Both ways people are coming out ahead.
Chances are she was living somewhere where she was paying rent and/or a mortgage. If she was renting, then it'll be less money for both of you on the monthly budget.
If she was owning, then have someone rent out the place, then share costs on the single house.
Both ways people are coming out ahead.
She's cool! I talk to her from time to time and she's not bad at all
AlainLocke
Banned
Soon as a woman start talking about how she's a "Traditional" woman....
I cancel that bytch...
All that shyt means...she wants a man to pay for shyt...
Gimini00
Bytch Off The Bando
I didn't pay rent or any bills when i moved in my wife's apartment, this lasted for 2 years until we bought a home