This makes sense because its based on something you said or did...not somebody just saying you look like you only fck with white women. I dont even know how a broad can say that unless you dressing like urkel.
Well the last instance where it happened to I was texting some girl I met at work a couple years back. We're both Ghanaian and started talking about relationships or something. She said her past boyfriends were Ghanaian. She then said how she's damn near done with Ghanaian dudes because the vast majority (at least in Tor.) are on some bullshyt except me, a dude named _____ that went to my highschool...and some other dude. After I said my girlfriends were both African. She said how when she first got to know me (2 years back), she and another girl thought that I messed with white girls. (Probably because i didnt waste time trying to holla like these thirsty old heads at work...defense mechanism like you said).
Dressing like Urkel was out the question cause this was a meat factory...wore sweatpants and a tee to work on the daily. I can only speak for myself though
I said "No comment" and was like but then . I'm used to it.