Home Insurance(especially if you live in flood prone areas)
Health insurance (depending on if your insurance is low or high deductible)
That is a factor in just being seen by a doctor
Dental Plans(most of these plans come separate from medical)
Two cars with full coverage insurance
Car repairs
Weekly gas bills
Weekly grocery bills
House maintenance
Savings, Thrifts, 401k and other investments
Electric Bill
Family Plans for cell phones
Emergency funds
Childcare alone if they are little ones can fukk your budget up with the quickness
If you have 3 children, each will undoubtedly want to participate in after school programs
That shyt is not cheap
Basketball gear and coaches
Baseball gear and coaches
Music programs(that’s if you want to borrow from the school or just pay out of pocket for the instrument)
Academic programs/prep tutors
Private vs Public
College savings(pell grants and full rides come with heavy stipulations vs when I went to college)
Taking vacations(Disney about to kill my pockets this summer

So yes you will be spread thin on finances when you add all this up
Even at 130k but I know you will find a flaw in this because that’s what thecoli does

Especially when COL’s are different everywhere and they aren’t rising at the rate inflation is

shyt most of y’all ain’t even married or have kids
And the ones that are want their children to get it out the mud like they did

Thecoli is a magical place for dumb-smart nikkas to reside
