Y’all should be concerned about single men. Not single women.

[Mike809]

This thread went as I expected.

 

[Knuckles Red]

Relevant: https://www.thecoli.com/threads/when-was-the-last-time-you-were-able-to-confide-in-another-black-male.888810/

 

[Mindfield333]

I don’t understand why a woman would come to a male dominated site
And try to tell men what to think or feel
This is a bad faith thread wrapped in femcel bullshyt speech
Let’s face the facts
Both genders are on a collision course to loneliness
Because nobody knows how to have an open conversation
And when men try to have an open dialogue
It’s met with this bullshyt passive aggressive word vomit of a dissertation
You and the other chicks on here
Excluding @HarlemHottie are full of shyt to the max
You really don’t give a shyt about other women
And you damn sure don’t give a shyt about heterosexual black men and only use homosexual black men and dikkless predator nikkas as your attack hounds
Next time if you want healthy, honest discourse
Speak on why women of today are the most miserable and depressed out of any generation before them
Or why men feel more isolated than ever before
Actually approach the conversation in good faith instead of one sided dikk slangin
You just want to argue a point to a finite bias already in your head
This is why many nikkas are just

No offense to @HarlemHottie but didn’t think that was a female. Granted I don’t really clock folks posts like that… The post above made me really think about it. Also I don’t wanna derail the thread so my bad

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

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[HarlemHottie]

No offense to @HarlemHottie but didn’t think that was a female.

 

[Lemons]

I don't think the concern is fake. They're just expressing it differently than women would. And I think they've actually figured out a possible way to combat it.

The jokes are cope, much like the modern western woman's wine addiction.

We can disagree on that. I definitely see it as fake because I get a lot of, “that’s what they get for having outrageous standards while being average” from those convos. I don’t see those dudes genuinely concerned for old women being single. But if you do, that’s fine. If it was real, I would think there would be advice to young women who are single and looking for a partner that doesn’t entail “lower your standards”.

Are there studies on the current trend to push wine as an everyday coping indulgence on young women? Would love to read that because the push can’t be ignored.

 

[Emoryal]

Lots of men are single and lonely now. Just the way it is. Stoicism has been around 100 times longer than anyone who is alive right now. Nothing new under the sun.
On the other hand look at how covid affected women when it came to their social lives and well being. The reason they probably mentioned it is because even if women in general fare better on these terms it's nothing that new to men.

 

[Mindfield333]

Sorry lol. I guess it would be like a dude being active on LSA or something. Alot of cats here just seem pessimistic/negative… there used to be more of a balance in sohh but I guess most of term stayed on twitter

 

[Taadow]

*didn't read any of that*

Why?

Why be concerned about whatever is gonna happen to men?




I mean - women say they want males for stuff, but they don't even care about men.
So why the hell should I?

 

[Lemons]

Lots of men are single and lonely now. Just the way it is. Stoicism has been around 100 times longer than anyone who is alive right now. Nothing new under the sun.
On the other hand look at how covid affected women when it came to their social lives and well being. The reason they probably mentioned it is because even if women in general fare better on these terms it's nothing that new to men.

But it shouldn’t be that way. Why should men be lonely and why aren’t there open conversations about it?

I know one reason a lot of men are homeless compared to women is because of all the social safety nets women get (DV situations, mothers w/ kids are usually first in line for aid etc). But what about the social circles? Why do men have such limited social circles even with their own families? Anyone reading this can chip in on their own experiences…

 

[General Mills]

Juelzing hard here.
69 posts in 5 years is not sporadic posting. It's barely posting at all.
Your name is also lemons so you're a themed alt that comes in here and drops "sour" news in a poor attempt to create fukkery.

 

[Lemons]

You're an LSA plant.

LSSA….the board obsessed with catching a white man and how best to fit into white societyy…

Lol absolutely not. That board has gone to shyt in the last few years. I only came here bc I want to see the perspective of men I am interested in (black men). As you see I barely post. I come here once in a while, typically when things go viral and I’m interested in the male perspective.

But believe what you want, I really don’t care.

Any comments on the thread topic though?

 

[Neuromancer]

But how would you know his posting style if...


you know what? Never mind.

People just straight lying.

 

[Neuromancer]

Just report this plant and keep it moving

 

[KidJSoul]

Alot of it is pure cope

Lots of posters in this thread aren't willing to try and engage with the op because it bothers them

So they'd rather just attack and leave

Someone is probably going to retaliate to this post