Husband material is a guy that's willing to compromise, work with you for both short and long term, he's really into you and you both want to make this work and understand that relationships are hard and constant adjustment have to be made. He has full appreciation for you. He provides to the best of his abilities. He's loyal and if he's not, you don't got a husband material. That's where me and Kev differ. I believe a man should be faithful, not just as faithful as his options. Men who are only as faithful as their opinions shouldn't be getting married to no woman and I know friends who did and of course, it ended in divorce.
That's what I believe. I believe too many BM aren't marriage material but I do think over 50% are. With BW, I think it's like 30% tops that are marriage material.
I do believe most men would like to get married under their ideals which might be unrealistic and an impossible ask.
I do believe most women would like to get married under their ideals which is also unrealistic and an impossible ask.
Because of sexual relations, I think they are a lot more marriage material men than women as woman feel they never have to settle. Many men come in with temper expectations due to their reality.