Would You Seriously Date and/or Marry A "Pick Me?"

[badtguy]

Lmfao right never heard no dumb as shyt like that before in the DMV or other cities.

That shyt is only some internet based shyt

Moe gtfo ain't no straight nikkas in the DMV saying no pick me. I ain't read that gay ass phrase until I started seeing the shif all on he internet.

 

[Kenny West]

"I guess" ? Maaaaaaaan

If black man = "yes. unequivocally. 100% pandering

"

if not = "

uhhhh maybe?"

 

[badtguy]

Stahhp. It

So, let me first visually show an example of a classic "Pick Me:"



- typically overweight
- typically just cute
- typically low standards and lack of self-love/esteem.

Lmfao I watched this girls video and said "damn she sounds like my sister"

And my sister is very attractive, educated, married to a millionaire has sons. She calls other women whores sluts, etc. Not a feminist AT ALL.

I don't know about what a pick me is. But there are women in IRL who identify with certain male views

Majority of women labeling others "pick me" are not married or have sons alot of those on the internet have been sexually abused in someway shape or form by men in their families.

When a woman becomes married, births sons, family oriented, her ideals change.

Likewise I know some dudes who were chauvinistic, but get married have daughters and are all about equal rights for women.

 

[badtguy]

Majority of social media users are younger people who are single. That pick me shyt is internet based and used by single women

If these women get married or have sons their views will change esp when other women come around trying to seduce their husbands, take advantage of their sons, or break up their homes.

 

[NotaPAWG]

I don't like anyone who purposely agrees with me or doesn't think for themselves. It's annoying.

I agree they won't have a problem - and they don't - but does it lead to a emotionally connecting and stimulating relationship? I don't wanna hear all the stuff they think I want to hear all the time. I want to learn something - to hear other opinions from my mate.

just because you don't agree with her doesn't mean she doesn't think for herself. you just seem bitter that her video is getting praised by guys meanwhile you're probably a femi-nazi who gets negative male attention

she's right BTW

 

[Hoodoo Child]

If black man = "yes. unequivocally. 100% pandering

"

if not = "

uhhhh maybe?"

 

[Still Benefited]

are you asking me would i pick a woman who obviously has been given proper guidance,over one who hasnt?

this woman has simply found a good man,all women become "pick me's" once they get picked and are happy....women cant wait to be a robot.

only miserable lonely women have never experienced this yet,I hope they will

 

[Still Benefited]

and are women really saying men are wrong for picking the female equal to the nice guy?

this just goes to show some womens mindsets is all fukked up.

maybe you women should stop being so superficial

 

[Phoenix Rising]

Cuz feminist are the attractive ones??

Where?

Anyway, I don't think it's about this "pick me" thing the OP is talking about. Some women don't agree with feminist and think women have flaws.

But honestly, most people just need to get over themselves, stop judging the masses an learn how to be the best they can be. All these isms need to go some where...

 

[TheBlackSun]

Yall nikkas are really something else... What the woman said in the video is nothing short of the truth. How she looks is irrelevant; since I ain't checkin for her like that no way. You nikkas will deflect from the discussion/argument to someone's looks or other irrelevant shyt, because it proves ya'll have no argument basis to stand on no way. A woman calling out the behavior of females bullshyt is a real great, and honestly deserves a standing ovation, because a lot of these black women will cosign bullshyt and fukkery that these hoes in the media promote. She ain't no female simp, and she ain't looking for no seat at the table. She's obviously married-if that is a real ring) so she's pretty legit.

 

[Phoenix Rising]

Thanks for your concern. I just ended a relationship. And not everyone wants to be married. I'm happily single

But the married lady in the video is the "pick me"? Girl bye..

 

[TheBlackSun]

pick me's are the female equivalent to simps. the same way a simp says "every man should wait months or even years, however long it is until a woman decides to give you some. And you should shower her with expensive gifts to show her you are worthy of her affection" and the entire coli universe bushes him. its like a pick me saying "every woman should give p*ssy on command, whenever wherever and do any freaky shyt and threesomes to satisfy him. And you should cook everything he asks you too cook" and black women bush her ass. See in both cases the opposite sex may applaud them and say how perfect they are and all men/women should be just like them, but for some reason these simps/pickmes are chronically single or cant hold onto a relationship for more than a few weeks or months. So everyone is telling them how perfect they are but they never get the results they are looking for. That usually turns into anger and resentment

Yeah but the one thing you missed here is that this particular "pick me" is married. Most of ya'll are not, and will never be. Once again, she ain't no female simp- she's just calling shyt as she see's it. A lot of hoes on facebook and twitter seem to believe they are beyond reproach, and will make up every other excuse under the sun as a reason to why she's still single, and why there's not good men out here; black men ain't shyt ect. The REAL "pick me" are the chicks who pander and simp to men after they've hit 35, still single, are past the wall due to a whole bunch of out kids out of wedlock, and want that good black man to pick them and save them from the hole they've dug themselves.

 

[Phoenix Rising]

Also, what's so wrong about wanting a man to pick you? I mean...if you're single and looking, making yourself desirable to men if that's what you're into should be what you try to do. I can see how the "nice guy" label doesn't work out for guys because that persona doesn't help guys get chose, but for a woman, the "nice girl" card, isn't a bad one to play..now the feminist card is a nice way to stay single for life...

If you're happy with being single why criticize a woman who wants to get chose by a man? I'm confused as what the point of this thread is...I'll see myself out...

 

[TheBlackSun]

It is that serious.
These feminist dirtbags soul purpose is distrupt and divide.
What are these "pick me's" really doing thats hurting anybody besides going against the grain of these feminist werdios?
Meanwhile these feminist hoes and their influence is one of the primary reasons generations of black kids grew up without fathers and still are
Pick me's>>feminist scum

Yup. Just look at Twitters Feminist loans. Damn near 40, a kid out of wedlock- and rumored to be by a white man at that), and not a single red cent to her name.

 

[Zero]

I have no idea whats going on in here :whiteparadise: