Women Don't Know Where They Land On The Attractiveness Scale

[Aphrodite]

lemme see I won't send nobody, you have my word.

I'll send you a lil something too

 

[Critical Distance]

My bad I forgot that's your girl

 

[SheWantTheD]

I just wanna see what she looks like.

All the shyt she talk on here, she should be straight dime status.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Let's not get ahead of ourselves, doggie.

You've seen a pic of @Giselle?

 

[Youseenmywork]

Sombody needs to post patrices 1-30 scale

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Attraction is waaay too complicated to be quantified by a scale. I think when people realize u can be attracted to someone who looks NOTHING like ur preferences, they'll understand true chemistry.

Sometimes the connection doesn't give a fukk about what u thought u were into.
But this is the Internet so I don't expect people to be honest or they may not have experienced true attraction before. A lot of times it transcends conventional wisdom. I can't quite describe it.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

What? Then go approach your future husband if you want him. Women ignore all the men that approach them then get mad that they can find anyone. fukk outta here

I don't want anyone though I want The One

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

It's a very humanly frustrating thing to be in front of someone who is beautiful or attractive and feel zero. But it happens. Somebody once told me that ur soulmate rarely looks like what u imagine them to be because they appeal to something deeper.

I dunno but that's just life. As soon as we arrogantly think we got it figured out, reality throws a monkey wrench in the plans.

 

[Aphrodite]

I wanted to clarify as that while all the women-blaming is going on right now, men aren't that critical of themselves vs others either. Everyone judges the next on some measure (some people try to correct "judging" and finding actual depth and knowing that everyone is equal as far as worth). But the way that these women are "judging" or "critiquing" average men is no different than the way most of the men on this forum are homophobic or transphobic or colorist.

Guys on here will unknowingly post a transexual, saying she's a dime. Then find out she's transexual and say she's ugly and act disgusted.

Everyone has a bias.

On both ends, I see people disgusted. I've seen people on here grow too.

I will say this a million times more, no person on this EARTH will be attractive to everyone. It's not possible. People say Halle Berry is overrated all the time. You will find a flaw or think someone is overrated if it's about shallowness/superficiality.

However when you get into the character of people, you see that multi dimensional personality and that's what can make and break you.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Attraction is waaay too complicated to be quantified by a scale. I think when people realize u can be attracted to someone who looks NOTHING like ur preferences, they'll understand true chemistry.

Sometimes the connection doesn't give a fukk about what u thought u were into.
But this is the Internet so I don't expect people to be honest or they may not have experienced true attraction before. A lot of times it transcends conventional wisdom. I can't quite describe it.

No one's talking about connection, chemistry and all that. We are talking from a purely physical standpoint where you don't have nothing else to judge off of.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I wanted to clarify as that while all the women-blaming is going on right now, men aren't that critical of themselves vs others either. Everyone judges the next on some measure (some people try to correct "judging" and finding actual depth and knowing that everyone is equal as far as worth). But the way that these women are "judging" or "critiquing" average men is no different than the way most of the men on this forum are homophobic or transphobic or colorist.

Guys on here will unknowingly post a transexual, saying she's a dime. Then find out she's transexual and say she's ugly and act disgusted.

Everyone has a bias.

On both ends, I see people disgusted. I've seen people on here grow too.

I will say this a million times more, no person on this EARTH will be attractive to everyone. It's not possible. People say Halle Berry is overrated all the time. You will find a flaw or think someone is overrated if it's about shallowness/superficiality.

However when you get into the character of people, you see that multi dimensional personality and that's what can make and break you.

That ain't what this thread is about, and there have been multiple posters saying it's men's fault for approaching women they don't find attractive because they just want to have sex.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Most women would rate themselves a 7 or above, when we know there's an overwhelming number of average women.

Was watching a youtube video and several women posted comments about how they are very attractive and they are sick and tired of men who aren't "up to par" in the looks department approaching and talking to them.

If you look at their pictures they are not only average but overweight. Calling a spade a spade but most men ain't gonna take a double look at these women unless they got big titties or a phat ass.

If you have a certain caliber of men approaching you and you don't find them attractive, you probably are average or just above average.

Men know where we land and for the most part we go for women on our level in terms of looks or lower.

This is patently false. A man may know his level and still feel attracted to, pursue and chase women above his level. Men feel like this is the right of being men.

I thought this was pretty much common knowledge.
Why guys go for outta-their-league ladies
(Edit: By the way, I don't believe in levels...)

Personally I don't have a problem with it if the same men weren't actively encouraging women to lower their looks standards or shaming them for wanting above their level as well and vice versa.

The main people complaining about the opposite sex being too picky are ALWAYS unwilling to evaluate the absurdity of their own standards.
Why not encourage both men AND women to improve themselves to get what they desire, while also being open to the idea that he/she may not look the way u fantasized.

 

[Aphrodite]

That ain't what this thread is about, and there have been multiple posters saying it's men's fault for approaching women they don't find attractive because they just want to have sex.

Most people judge/are critical of others vs themselves.
Look at Religions.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

The irony of the thread topic and thread starter

damn

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

No one's talking about connection, chemistry and all that. We are talking from a purely physical standpoint where you don't have nothing else to judge off of.

Hard for me to divorce the two. I immediately wanna know what u are like if I find u physically attractive. I've run into far too many attractive people whose personalities literally made them do NOTHING for me. I don't even know how to describe it. Not saying looks aren't important but u can fine and still ugly.