Women claim 30+ yr old Men with no kids is a major red flag

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I don't think people view it as "strange". They just don't want to admit why they find it off putting.

Career wise, you know that someone with mouths to feed is less likely to cut and run. Employers won't exactly advertise that they want people who cannot walk away from the stress and bullshyt they put ok their shoulders.

Relationship wise, someone with kids is bound by responsibilities and is less likely to want to bring more into equation. Women are not going to advertise that they're worried about being considered too old or dealing with someone who doesn't have to put up with their rubbish.

I put “strange” in quotes to provide a quick label and not get into all the reasons why folks view it a way but I agree with what you’re saying
 

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Once again, why do y’all care about opinions of hoodrats???
Because in 2023 many women who fit the bill the Coli pushes for a man to pursue are at heart, "hoodrats" :skip: this isn't the 90s where bold lines are drawn. "The most educated/fastest growing entrepreneurial group" naturally can't exclude them.
 

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Because in 2023 many women who fit the bill the Coli pushes for a man to pursue are at heart, "hoodrats" :skip: this isn't the 90s where bold lines are drawn. "The most educated/fastest growing entrepreneurial group" naturally can't exclude them.
“The Coli pushes”

What about worrying who you choose to deal with in real life…….
 

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The black women who make those statements are usually chicks still in the hood and women with kids from my experience since the 90s

Broads be like :what::dahell: u don’t have kids and give u that side eye look

A lot of bytches want u down on they low level so it doesn’t make it seem like u better than them…
 

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I can't imagine myself waking up everyday and picturing myself honoring the opinions of stupid people.
I always say that social media gave people the platform to say and do stupid shyt.
People don't use social media to look for ways to get money.
Instead most of them rather use it to voice their unneeded and over the top opinions.
And these same stupid antics don't do shyt but cause more division among black people.
They are getting money because their is financial gain in shytting on men
Especially sullying the name and image of black men
Every group sees how shytting on black men gets them attention
That’s why you got third world face ass Filipinas saying goofy shyt online
Bad built Latina bytches saying goofy shyt
White hoes feeling comfortable critiquing black men
As weird as it may seem, followers=currency
This is the New World Order
 

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I have heard this nonsense. But, I have also heard the opposite. Some people feel that not having kids is a wise decision. *shrugs*

Thing is, people who feel that being 30+ w/o kids is a red 🚩 need to stay away & get w/ people who have kids! It isn't hard to do...

It is a wise decision. Shows discipline and self control.
 
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