Women claim 30+ yr old Men with no kids is a major red flag

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alpo said:
Once again, why do y’all care about opinions of hoodrats???
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IMO..

It isn't just about an opinion. People will treat you according to how they feel about you.

So, my solution is for people who have negative feelings towards a certain person to simply stay away from said person. They will be better off associating w/ people who they have favorable opinions towards because they will treat those people better.
 
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Scustin Bieburr said:
Imagine being hurt that a woman who has made several mistakes in her life doesn't want you. This is like being a billionaire and being heated over the fact that the economy and business class sections of the plane are full. Why care when you don't have to?
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Stop, stop she’s already dead breh :wow:
 
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I can't imagine myself waking up everyday and picturing myself honoring the opinions of stupid people.
I always say that social media gave people the platform to say and do stupid shyt.
People don't use social media to look for ways to get money.
Instead most of them rather use it to voice their unneeded and over the top opinions.
And these same stupid antics don't do shyt but cause more division among black people.
 
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Personally, I could have been on child support 10 years ago if the female I was dealing with didn't have a miscarriage..

Lot of men push thru red lights just to live up to a social construct that has been tarnished a long time ago..I was a victim of doing just that...

Over the years, I've seen nikkas that fell for the Okey doke multiple times over to the point where they had to work overtime just to SURVIVE...and that's gonna be their life for another 18 years..

At 35, even if dosent work with whoever I give sperm to, I'm in a better emotional/mature state to deal with whatever comes...
 
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it’s not just “hoodrats” who say this shyt…they’re seemingly just more vocal about it since that’s who some of you seem to mostly pay attention to on here…a lot of ppl view it as “strange” tho when a straight man doesn’t have a wife/kids past a certain age…I’ve even seen studies where they say it’s harder for a single man to climb the ladder in certain professions…that being said fukk all that if you’re sincerely content with not having a child…obviously it’s an immense responsibility that you shouldn’t be guilted into for the sake of appeasing other ppl…that’s weak as shyt
 
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surf said:
it’s not just “hoodrats” who say this shyt…they’re seemingly just more vocal about it since that’s who some of you seem to mostly pay attention to on here…a lot of ppl view it as “strange” tho when a straight man doesn’t have a wife/kids past a certain age…I’ve even seen studies where they say it’s harder for a single man to climb the ladder in certain professions…that being said fukk all that if you’re sincerely content with not having a child…obviously it’s an immense responsibility that you shouldn’t be guilted into for the sake of appeasing other ppl…that’s weak as shyt
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This kid was 23 and worrying about having a child...and I'm like why the rush?

He said he wanted to grow with the child...

But he didn't even have a job...lol

Lot of times, when women dominate your upbringing, you take on their philosophies...
 
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surf said:
it’s not just “hoodrats” who say this shyt…they’re seemingly just more vocal about it since that’s who some of you seem to mostly pay attention to on here…a lot of ppl view it as “strange” tho when a straight man doesn’t have a wife/kids past a certain age…I’ve even seen studies where they say it’s harder for a single man to climb the ladder in certain professions…that being said fukk all that if you’re sincerely content with not having a child…obviously it’s an immense responsibility that you shouldn’t be guilted into for the sake of appeasing other ppl…that’s weak as shyt
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I don't think people view it as "strange". They just don't want to admit why they find it off putting.

Career wise, you know that someone with mouths to feed is less likely to cut and run. Employers won't exactly advertise that they want people who cannot walk away from the stress and bullshyt they put ok their shoulders.

Relationship wise, someone with kids is bound by responsibilities and is less likely to want to bring more into equation. Women are not going to advertise that they're worried about being considered too old or dealing with someone who doesn't have to put up with their rubbish.
 
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