lol I guess. Sounds kinda like a woman bashing thread to me. If your point was balance, this wasn't executed right.
But nah.. on the real did you even understand my post? It ain't even a woman bashing threadPeople that seek excitement from others are boring people.
That makes me gay? LOL. And you know damn well women on average look to men to bring excitement and new shyt into their lives.
Women Are Boring And It's Our Job To Entertain Them
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Might wanna re-read my post playa
I'm an Alpha male I don't listen to other male suggestions
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
Call him daddy while you're at it
itsyoung!!
Veteran
one of the best quotes I ever heard
"you can be anything you want to a woman but boring"
youngins pay attention
"you can be anything you want to a woman but boring"
youngins pay attention
SheWantTheD
Veteran
They don't wanna hear it breh.one of the best quotes I ever heard
"you can be anything you want to a woman but boring"
youngins pay attention
Women with hobbies and goals are actually important. Im busy and i dont have time to constantly entertain someone. If she doesnt have the ability to entertain herself without being a thirst trapping thotty then 
Redwood
Superstar
OP is actually right. There are very few women that are exciting beyond just sex. It's almost like finding a needle in a haystack nowadays.
Marc Spector
the 4'11 Cuban
This thread got a lotta of unnecessary hate on the first page
Anyway OP
I think the notion that men have to be the spark of excitement in a relationship is a byproduct of archaic relationship dynamics.
Back in the day males were the primary (and really ONLY) breadwinners. Because a woman had little to no power or autonomy outside of her parents/betrothed husband, it was up to a man to provide the entertainment in a relationship. Especially during the courtship phase as a man had to prove he could be not only a provider but an ENTERTAINING provider as well.
Nowadays its morphed into this fukked sense of entitlement.
Before I get accused of woman bashing....A similar phenom occurs with men in regards to viewing women as sex objects...and how quickly we get "bored' and move on to this new thing.
Anyway OP
I think the notion that men have to be the spark of excitement in a relationship is a byproduct of archaic relationship dynamics.
Back in the day males were the primary (and really ONLY) breadwinners. Because a woman had little to no power or autonomy outside of her parents/betrothed husband, it was up to a man to provide the entertainment in a relationship. Especially during the courtship phase as a man had to prove he could be not only a provider but an ENTERTAINING provider as well.
Nowadays its morphed into this fukked sense of entitlement.
Before I get accused of woman bashing....A similar phenom occurs with men in regards to viewing women as sex objects...and how quickly we get "bored' and move on to this new thing.
if you can't entertain a chick by just being yourself then she ain't for you
and i wish y'all would stop writing these long ass dissertations about shyt like this cause it ain't that serious or complicated
and i wish y'all would stop writing these long ass dissertations about shyt like this cause it ain't that serious or complicated
I think it depends on the person and their personality...not their gender...on whether they are boring or not.
I dated a boring female before and she was cute but conversation was lame. I always had to plan everything but she was particular about shyt. I know many females who are fun and have entertaining and outgoing personalities. Now yes some women follow their men when it comes to their hobbies because she trying to build something with him and to spend time with him. I've seen where men would do shyt their woman like to do like watch chick flicks and reality TV like Real Housewives of ATL and married to medicine because their gf or wife asked or just to spend time with her.
I dated a boring female before and she was cute but conversation was lame. I always had to plan everything but she was particular about shyt. I know many females who are fun and have entertaining and outgoing personalities. Now yes some women follow their men when it comes to their hobbies because she trying to build something with him and to spend time with him. I've seen where men would do shyt their woman like to do like watch chick flicks and reality TV like Real Housewives of ATL and married to medicine because their gf or wife asked or just to spend time with her.
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no.
girls just wanna have funds
Well, ideally it's your goal to keep each other from getting bored, but sometimes there are bigger considerations in life than that and sometimes it happens despite your best efforts. It's just what time does to relationships. I wouldn't say it's a man's job
because men get bored with relationships too and women try to keep them interested too. 
What? Seriously, what? Do you really think women walk like their boyfriends, talk like their boyfriends (observe a real world couple please, men and women walk very differently and the woman likely has her own individual speech patterns). I don't even know how you can put forward a theory like that lol. Maybe you're mistaking an interest in the hobbies of their boyfriend (someone they like) with women suddenly abandoning all their hobbies and interests and exchanging them for his.
Voice of Reason
Veteran
OP is right.I've never heard a dude say, "she's too boring or I need an exciting female"
Not bashing just the truth
Reginald Noble
Banned
You don't have to deal with this when dealing with Women from other cultures.
This is exclusively an American problem for the most part.
Miranda and Ling Ling are not leaving you because you don't pop bottles 3x a week in the club
But I'm starting to realize now I actually WANT these dudes to keep struggling with Shaniqua (and in many cases Becky).
Ultimately this means NO competition for me when it comes to sane, humble, accomplished, submissive and intelligent non-Western women. Because many of them are absolutely entranced by Black American men.
So if yall want to keep struggling for some "noble" cause with these bi-polar schizophrenics, by all means do so. The rest of us will continue to eat stress free with no BS.
Black Man got enough to put up with in this life without having to entertain some over-rated butch 24/7/365 while bringing home bacon
This is exclusively an American problem for the most part.
Miranda and Ling Ling are not leaving you because you don't pop bottles 3x a week in the club
But I'm starting to realize now I actually WANT these dudes to keep struggling with Shaniqua (and in many cases Becky).
Ultimately this means NO competition for me when it comes to sane, humble, accomplished, submissive and intelligent non-Western women. Because many of them are absolutely entranced by Black American men.
So if yall want to keep struggling for some "noble" cause with these bi-polar schizophrenics, by all means do so. The rest of us will continue to eat stress free with no BS.
Black Man got enough to put up with in this life without having to entertain some over-rated butch 24/7/365 while bringing home bacon
Voice of Reason
Veteran
You don't have to deal with this when dealing with Women from other cultures.
This is exclusively an American problem for the most part.
Miranda and Ling Ling are not leaving you because you don't pop bottles 3x a week in the club
But I'm starting to realize now I actually WANT these dudes to keep struggling with Shaniqua (and in many cases Becky).
Ultimately this means NO competition for me when it comes to sane, humble, accomplished, submissive and intelligent non-Western women. Because many of them are absolutely entranced by Black American men.
So if yall want to keep struggling for some "noble" cause with these bi-polar schizophrenics, by all means do so. The rest of us will continue to eat stress free with no BS.
Black Man got enough to put up with in this life without having to entertain some over-rated butch 24/7/365 while bringing home bacon
I don't entertain bytches.