Women Are Boring And It's Our Job To Entertain Them

[SheWantTheD]

Most people are boring, period.
I mean really, what is it everyone does every day that's so interesting? We all wake up and go to work, eat 3 meals a day, sleep for 7-8 hours, maybe work some hobby in there for the rest of the time... For men that either means the gym, video games, or sports. For women, probably shopping or reality television. The vast majority of shyt we do really isn't that interesting. We might go on a vacation a couple times a year but ask anyone "What is the most interesting thing that's happened to you this year." and 9 times out of ten you'll get a blank stare.

All those things you listed are boring to the vast majority of women.. and they view men who do those things as boring and as a result get bored in the relationship. Most men may find shopping or reality tv boring, but they won't end things with a chick because she does those things.

I don't ever hear men complain about how he left because his woman was boring.. they may give reasons like the excitement was no longer there... but that most likely pertains to sex. People that get bored within relationships are boring themselves. They are probably doing the same thing everyday with no switching up and blame the other person. This obviously goes both ways, not just for women but I was referring to that thread where the guy's wife became emotionally detached.

It's like men not really caring what a woman went to school for. It doesn't make us more attracted to you, maybe a more suitable long term partner and someone to build a family with.. but it doesn't give us erections lol.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

I HATE when I feel like I have to entertain some chick. I'm not your court jester.

Make all that effort and they hit you with a one word text, they ruthless

 

[SheWantTheD]

10 1 star ratings.

trash thread and trying too hard.

No.. I just got a couple haters that 1 star my threads. There was no bashing in my post. It just seems like woman don't want to hear about who they are which I said was actually a good thing. Boring people live boring lives and other people shouldn't be blamed for their boring lives. That was basically the premise of my post.

 

[SheWantTheD]

being interesting is not terribly challenging

storytelling has two tracks
1) the sequential narrative or factual explanation
2) the perspective or unique details
..weave them together

#1 is speaking on things you know
#2 is how you feel about those things

you have to mix
Going all #1 or all #2 makes you insufferable

And most important ., when you listen to others
Let them talk but help them with their mix if it's off
Sometimes they need to get more factual, other times they need to share more personal
That builds true rapport

You don't even have to be a story teller to be interesting. A lot of women find men who are passionate and are always making moves to be interesting. Dude could legit be a straight square, lame, etc but if he's making moves and making things into reality then many women may find him interesting. I never said there was a problem with this, and even stated that most successful relationships are this way.

 

[Redwood]

No.. I just got a couple haters that 1 star my threads. There was no bashing in my post. It just seems like woman don't want to hear about who they are which I said was actually a good thing. Boring people live boring lives and other people shouldn't be blamed for their boring lives. That was basically the premise of my post.

You broke the cardinal rule with women breh. Women CANNOT be criticized even if it is completely in a constructive context.

 

[Neuromancer]

I see where this is going. For the record @BocaRear, @SheWantTheD and @xXOGKILLERXx need a MGTOW red pill podcast.

 

[Luck]

Like what was said already, the vast majority of people are "boring" this really ain't a women thing but I see your point. You could've illustrated it better and got a more positive response

A lot of the problem with the situation you spoke on with a spouse getting bored in a relation comes from that spouse not having shyt going on themselves and depending to much on their partner to be entertained. You see this a lot with clingy women/men who always want to be around their spouses

Point is a person should be doing things that peak their own interests and not depending on somebody else to do that for em. That's why people need their own hobbies and social circles apart from their relationship

 

[BezO]

So, no one takes responsibility for who they attract/choose? What's attractin' you to all these borin' women? What's attractin' them to you?

I'm surprised none of the ladies posted the Chris Rock "Ain't shyt" clip. It applies to men too.

 

[LeftCoast]

nikkas who keep women entertained just Lie alot about random bullshyt, just start Lying brehs.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

It is very simple OP

Women are naturally boring because they don't have to be interesting to survive.

Men we have social skills out the ass because we had to build them in order to approach and talk to women.
If you ask 10 women,
"What do you like in a man?"

At least 9 of them will say,

"Funny, can hold a conversation, understanding etc... "

Personality traits that they either lack themselves or don't have much of

They don't have to learn those because they typically don't have to have to court us.

That's why men can get along with other men better than women trying to get along with other women.

Picture it like this. Let's say since you were born to now, you have always had people drive you around. Anywhere you needed to go somebody was there to drive you. You would have no motivation to ever learn how to drive yourself because in your mind, other people are supposed to drive you no matter what. And if you did try to do it yourself you'd crash.

As a man you are a provider to her, and that includes entertainment. That's just how it is. We gotta deal with it.
On the flipside though, 9/10 if a chick is bored with you.... You probably actually are boring honestly.


You will probably never find a woman just as "interesting" as you are. If you somehow do, check back after that post clarity nut.

 

[Urahara_Kisuke]

 

[Reginald Noble]

How u meet her bruh? U in japan?

Met in NYC through a mutual Japanese friend at a Nomikai (Nomikai - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia )

All this can be summed up with the following....it don't got nothing to do with you being boring. You're just a loser to her because you're a regular guy. Women want THE BEST MEN. Thus, regular guys are boring and lame. You see, back in the day, women depended on men for their livelihood. It was frowned upon to be a single mother or a loose woman with multiple sexual partners. So women snatched down a nice man with a job and were satisfied. This guy (as in most of our grandfathers) would've been considered a LAME today but, most women back in the 40, 50s, 60s were satisfied with this because it was what was expected of women.

Then feminism happened. Women were tired of being dependent on men. Tired of being in marriages to men they weren't attracted to (they wanted top 20% men). They wanted their own jobs. They were also sick of being shamed for their sexually. They wanted to fukk as many men as they wanted, fukk as many top 20% men as they wanted and they didn't want to be branded with a scarlet letter for it.

Now in 2016 you have a dynamic where women don't have to date the regular guys their grandmothers did. They are placed on a pedestal through social media. They feel entitled to the best men, the absolute 1% of men. And they have access to these men in 2016 because casual sex is now accepted whereas 50 or 60 years ago it wasn't.

But it ends bad for most girls.

Women have sex with all these men and get things confused. Men will have sex with any girl who's halfway cute. But he's only going to marry someone he considers worthy. So women have sex with guys out of their league because their egos are out of control and they wonder why the guy won't marry them or why he left her with a baby. It's probably because you're a 6 on your best day and he's a 9. These chicks waste their youth (18 - 27) doing this, getting ran through, getting used up, becoming single mothers. Then when they're 30 they hit an inflection point where they realize they're getting old....AND THEN.....they finally start going after their real equal. But the male 6 doesn't want to marry a single mother or a female 6 that spent the last 10 years ignoring him and fukking 20 guys. He wanted you to choose him at 22 when you were young and full of life. Not at 32 when you're old and busted. This is why our generation has abysmal marriage rates (it's down to 23% vs. 65% in the 1950s). This is why 75% of children are born to single mothers. Our generation, especially women, are going to have a very difficult time getting old. It's all fun and games when you're 21 and cute but, what happens when you're 35 and fat?

Instead of using that currency of beauty and youth to lock down a nice man on YOUR LEVEL to get married to you wasted it going men WAY ABOVE YOUR LEVEL who will never ever ever EVER EVER marry you. That's the dating game in 2016. And it's hilarious to watch. Because every girl does it. They can't control it. It's their hypergamy in FULL DRIVE. I also think people are really overestimating how many simps will be around to marry these chicks once they hit their late 20s and 30s. Take a look at the women who are 35 years old right now? How many men are asking them out? How's it going for them?

 

[StickStickly]

All those things you listed are boring to the vast majority of women.. and they view men who do those things as boring and as a result get bored in the relationship. Most men may find shopping or reality tv boring, but they won't end things with a chick because she does those things.

I don't ever hear men complain about how he left because his woman was boring.. they may give reasons like the excitement was no longer there... but that most likely pertains to sex. People that get bored within relationships are boring themselves. They are probably doing the same thing everyday with no switching up and blame the other person. This obviously goes both ways, not just for women but I was referring to that thread where the guy's wife became emotionally detached.
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but isn't that still significantly relevant since sexual novelty is a big reason why men cheat and leave.