I’ll add this:
If a woman jumps into bed with you, you think she’s easy, and has done this with too many other men. Are you taking her seriously if you hit after a week, or two weeks? Are you looking at that women as wife material? This is why some women are apprehensive about the first sexual encounter with a new man.
And this:
A lot of women are encouraged to date men they have no physical attraction to, and are told they’ll be single forever if they don’t. So sometimes, this is why y’all are getting these girls that seem like they aren’t into you. They aren’t, but they are giving you a chance, because they are afraid to end up alone. If you don’t have money, they really aren’t going to develop feelings , or stick around just because you’re nice. Too many men who don’t have it like that are wasting money trying to impress a woman who most likely will take everything you buy her, and not give you anything in return. (Sex, commitment) To tell them they shouldn’t care about your appearance, while you obviously care about their’s is ridiculous. You wouldn’t have approached her if you didn’t think she was smashable. The problem is men find far more women smashable than women find men smashable.
And this:
Just because a woman puts you first, and treats you well doesn’t mean you will want her, and get serious with her, or marry her. A woman can do everything right, but you just aren’t feeling her like that. Some men do waste women’s time until the one we really want comes along. I did this right before I got married. I had a long term FWB, and I was considering getting serious with her because I was convinced there weren’t any good women left. She was attractive, cool to hangout with, and had good qualities, but it just wasn’t enough for me to commit. I was keeping my options open. As soon as I had a chance with my wife, it was over. I felt bad, but ultimately, you can’t force yourself to commit to someone just because they have good qualities. This works both ways.