Woman shot, killed for not giving man her number

Wild self

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This is heartbreaking. I feel for her family. Last week a man walked up to me at the gas station and was asking for my name and number. I hesitated for a sec and then just gave him some random digits. Mind you it's a little after midnight and we were the only people there besides the store clerk. I swear you could hear my heart beating from a mile away I was so scared. Luckily he didn't try to call me right then and there.

I understand that you are scared of dudes coming out of the blue late at night, but why are you scared of a dude calling your phone after you give him the digits? wanna hear your opinion.
 
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After reading up on the story, I'm certain it's much deeper than "Woman rejects man, Man shoots Woman" especially after hearing the other 5 victims were family members of hers.
 

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Aside from this, I have been slapped in the back of the head, pushed and slapped on my ass for saying no (actual words used).

Now I give my number, have a small talk and I immediately block them. :youngsabo:

You know what, I should be surprised but I really am not. When I was 15/16 one of my biggest fears was having a woman look me up and down with visible disgust on her face after I approached her; and although it never happened (and girls usually let me down softly so I never had reason to act out of anxiety) I now understand that that fear was attached to pride. Like I somehow learned growing up that being visibly dismissed by a girl is the most disrespectful thing that can happen to a man.

It took becoming an actual adult at 20 y.o. to understand that the best recipe for being rejected is to keep it moving. And it took one more year after that to learn that being rejected just means you haven't approached the right woman/the right time, it has nothing to do with myself at all because sometimes the most unlikely girl responds positively to my advances.
Way too many dudes apparently never graduate from the pride phase.:wow:
 

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Unstable gun toting loon + disrespectful rejection = very bad situation all around.

no one should ever get shot based on rejecting someone, but this is why you always have to be careful how you talk to someone. You never really know where their mindstate is at and how they can go over the edge.
 

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Unstable gun toting loon + disrespectful rejection = very bad situation all around.

no one should ever get shot based on rejecting someone, but this is why you always have to be careful how you talk to someone. You never really know where their mindstate is at and how they can go over the edge.

DAMN RIGHT!

But people don't wanna hear this.

Mind you this works for both MALE AND FEMALE. In African culture people always pray and put anointing oil on their kids head before they leave the house because they always say you don't know if you will meet an angel or devil that day.

There are some deviant degenerate people in our society. Us saying 'well, people shouldn't murder or assault' isn't helpful as humans have been doing some demonic things to each other since 1000BC so that won't work.

People need to be aware that in this society you got people who will kill you over a parking ticket so you can't just go around doing certain things. My brother has a fast mouth and when he reached a certain age I had to sit him down and tell him straight up his fast mouth could get him killed in the wrong environment.

People need to start accepting our reality right now, we live among some effed up people and you need to be careful.
 

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btw i rate @Wild self for sticking to his guns despite people tryna come for him for his opinions for 30 pages :yes: :cheers:

thats how to do it.
 

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btw i rate @Wild self for sticking to his guns despite people tryna come for him for his opinions for 30 pages :yes: :cheers:

thats how to do it.


They operated like the KKK in here. Its like Daniel staying in the cage with lions and living to talk about it.
 

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They operated like the KKK in here. Its like Daniel staying in the cage with lions and living to talk about it.

you held your own breh :yes:

well done.

i knew from the start this wasnt a man just killing someone over number knew it was some ignant big mouth beef rubbish. :snoop:
 

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No, but when a lot of women keep doing that over and over again, something gotta give. Some men just don't have the tolerance for that kind of rejection and disrespect (really what it is) on a normal basis. Being rude to people triggers that act of violence. I ain't condoning it, but understand why dudes do it.

How about nikkas keep their composure.

Yeah, but some of these dudes been going on weeks, if not, months without success. They should go on another approach to women, but when a dude is kind and respectful and the chick is "nah nikka, go back to ya mama's p*ssy,you broke bytch" :pacspit: the dude suddently gets :birdman: and attacks her. Again, not saying that it is right, but disrespect is disrespect.

The average woman is not going to respond in such a manner, especially if dude is being polite. What in the world are you talking about? :dahell: I get you're trying to make your point, but you don't have to wildly exaggerate to do so.


Deep inside, you know that is exactly what you're saying :pachaha:
 
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