Sunalmighty
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This is one of the reasons I don't do clubs, at all. My coworker lost his brother in a club. Got shot in the head, over the advances of a chick he wasn't diggin. The nicca that shot him? Her brother
Woman shot, killed for not giving man her number
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Taadow
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We also live in a society where black people are shytted on 24/7. Does that make it right and do you want it to continue?
Like I said earlier, are you trying to build to a better society or preserve a comfortable status quo? If the latter, we're on 2 different wavelengths. I promise.
The status quo is not "comfortable".
"Building a better society" starts with each person. I have no problem being "OD cautious" or "nice" as part of my contribution.
DaChampIsHere
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Being OD cautious doesn't change the "rules" or social norms. It makes people think they are right and that you know you are wrong, even if you've done nothing wrong and you will get taken advantage of.
The world doesn't change by following the "rules" and "society". Your point of action changes nothing about the world. White racists tell you not to vote and threaten you if you do so, you stay home and cower? Or do you go and vote? Live boldly breh.
Funny how.people are selective on which case to condemn.
its fukked up man. the thing is dudes will get clowned for letting a person disrespect them whether its insulting them in a large group, stepping on their shoes, robbing them, stealing their woman from them, dissing their moms...whatever. but let the form of disrespect be a girl rejecting them and said dudes are all of a sudden supposed to swallow all pride.
we still got idiots saying that jay-z was a bytch for letting Solange beak at him in the elevator. It be the same nikkas clowningfor girls in similar situations though. hmmm...oochie wallie or one mic.
I salute Jay-Z and ridicule the fakkit who shot the girl in this situation personally.
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
what the fukk is life anymore man im sick of this shyt.
DaChampIsHere
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I think we are. I think you just probably realized your line of logic when it comes to women being harassed doesn't match your logic in other facets of life.
You're overly cautious in everyday life? You never stick up for yourself? You never let people know when they are doing you wrong? You never get "mad"? Well, then, you are what we call a "pushover" and very adamant about being one.
You said part of your contribution to the world was being nice and cautious. But I know that's not true or rather even halfway true, because no human is 100% nice or 100% cautious all the time. Just like no one is 100% evil all the time. You are a human, not perfect. There are times when I'm sure you've been mad at someone and let them know in not such a nice way. II'm sure you've done/said something someone didn't like. If they would have killed or harmed you, would you want mom and crew to be like "Well, Taadow shoulda never said that shyt and that person wouldn't have hurt them"?
Nah. Like I said, we are human and imperfect. Your imperfections don't warrant your right to life being at risk just because it's a timely imperfection for someone else;s idea of what you should be by their rules/emotions.
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
havoc
Superstar
I hope that you won't conceive a daughter. She will be neglected by you and your future sons. I'm not trying to be funny either.
DaChampIsHere
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Do you mind expounding on what you mean in relation to what YOU decided to quote ME with? I'm guessing you didn't get what I was originally posting with your reply then.
I consider myself a nice person who tries to be cautious of other's feelings. That doesn't stop me from shunning the respectability politics BS/making excuses for crime. I'm of the idea that people should be able to be people freely, without physical harm. Right to life and shyt.
If you aren't talking about what I'm talking about and you know that, I really have no idea why you quoted and responded to what you did in the first place, but oh well. Lol.
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
I agree with the bolded completely. That said, the rub with "people being people freely" is that so many people want to be
a$$holes freely, which can provoke conflicts. That undesirable society you mentioned in your post I quoted is already present imo.
If I had a daughter (or son), as you also mentioned, I would teach her that she can be herself and be bold when the situation
calls for it...but she can do so without being inflammatory. I would do my utmost to train her to be "nice" as a default setting,
and "cautious" because it's a dirty world.
DaChampIsHere
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If only we got a free "well this is the way society is"- pass to commit crime because someone was mean to us, life would be so much better.
If someone being an a$$hole makes you commit a crime that will impose upon your OWN freedom.........
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
If only we got a free "well this is the way society is"- pass to commit crime because someone was mean to us, life would be so much better.
I ain't saying it's right - but these are the elements we are among, and we must protect ourselves accordingly.
Drew Wonder
Superstar
@Wild self whether a chick was polite, rude, whatever, it doesn't fukkin matter. no woman, let alone, no person in general, deserves to get their life taken away over some fukkin words, that's savage behavior. you're frontin' like you're being objective here but really you're using this woman's death as a platform for another "woe is me, men are so victimized" rant, shyt's disgusting. you're like that conservative white dude who comments on a story about a white police officer killing an unarmed black teen talking about "but what did the teen do? was he aggressive? was he up to no good? was he complying to the officer's demand? black people need to stop looking suspicious, etc." you're placing the responsibility on the victim, rather than the aggressor.
and the most hilarious thing is that a lot of ya'll who are in here lecturing women about being nice to thirsty dudes are the same people who would tell a dude to throw their girl in the bushes if they caught them being friendly with another man who was trying to holler, let alone talking to him.
look, I get it. a lot of women are ruthless and do men dirty and vice versa. but when you start using examples in which a woman is clearly the victim and a dude is a clearly in the wrong to push some "hard on hoes" agenda it comes across as delusional at best and straight up disturbing at worst
and the most hilarious thing is that a lot of ya'll who are in here lecturing women about being nice to thirsty dudes are the same people who would tell a dude to throw their girl in the bushes if they caught them being friendly with another man who was trying to holler, let alone talking to him.
look, I get it. a lot of women are ruthless and do men dirty and vice versa. but when you start using examples in which a woman is clearly the victim and a dude is a clearly in the wrong to push some "hard on hoes" agenda it comes across as delusional at best and straight up disturbing at worst