Woman marries" high value man" who turns out to be a predator.

Savvir

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Yes there is. Mfs who are interested in 10+ year age gaps or more than likely fukking predators or so bad they can’t get a woman their own age. These mfs try to lie like it’s because they want young fertile women.
wait a sec....

are you saying it's easier for older men to get younger women than it is to get older women?
 

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She says he portrayed himself as a righteous Christian man, and changed when they got married. People show you what they want you to see, and can switch up.

This is not going to turn into: date the ugly broke corny guy because he will treat you better. Anyone is capable of hiding who they are until they get you to a certain point.
Very true....masks can come off at any time....this applies to both genders
 

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This is the result of women watching movies, and thinking real life works like this. This is also a result of women listening to the relationship influencers telling them some Prince Charming is going to come along, and rescue her. And of course, bad decisions. That’s not long enough to even have a man around your children, let alone live with him, and predators do go after single moms to have access to their children.
My parents divorced when i was 5. I didnt see any nikka my moms dated till i was in high school and even then she wasnt tryna live wit that nikka :francis: she aint even remarry til me and my lil sis were both in our 20s
 

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100% but we all know he was able to do this because he’s got 20 years on her and she’s a single mom. For a mf like that it’s like fish in a barrel
Oh wow...20 years...that's crazy.

This is why I think it's good people meet in high school/college and young adulthood because at least yall around the same age and know each other and have some history. Nowadays, folks crazy asf. But it's hard dating and finding right person...cuz that mask can come off at anytime.
 

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Oh wow...20 years...that's crazy.

This is why I think it's good people meet in high school/college and young adulthood because at least yall around the same age and know each other and have some history. Nowadays, folks crazy asf. But it's hard dating and finding right person...cuz that mask can come off at anytime.
I 100% agree age gap relationships are no good and super harmful
 

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This is the result of women watching movies, and thinking real life works like this. This is also a result of women listening to the relationship influencers telling them some Prince Charming is going to come along, and rescue her. And of course, bad decisions. That’s not long enough to even have a man around your children, let alone live with him, and predators do go after single moms to have access to their children.
“Bad decisions lead to last decisions”

She actually kinda lucky but not by much. If real, homie needs jail time expeditiously and she needs to do better. Stop worrying about finding a “HVM” and worry about becoming a HV woman and mother
 

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This is sad but even when women are given the necessary information they still make terrible choices:francis:It only takes one misread situation to trigger a pattern that is hard to escape. Of course, we also have to a bettter job of identifying predators and rooting them out of society.
 

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Oh wow...20 years...that's crazy.

This is why I think it's good people meet in high school/college and young adulthood because at least yall around the same age and know each other and have some history. Nowadays, folks crazy asf. But it's hard dating and finding right person...cuz that mask can come off at anytime.
Main reason I find it hard

If I don’t know her or trust her, she probably not getting too close quickly. I just read today about the dude who had a chick he was fukking break into his home and assault him with a knife while his daughter was there and police shot HIM.

Can’t even go outside without seeing people so blazingly stupid but STILL see nothing wrong with it.

Vet me because I’m definitely vetting you
 
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