-Met her husband as a single mom.
I stopped reading here. Evidently there seems to be a lack of great mate selection process. Hope the kid pulls through & justice is delivered swift and ruthlessly.
-Met her husband as a single mom.
Married moved in with him a week or so after they started dating. And she already had 2 kids.
EXACTLY!!!!!This is the result of women watching movies, and thinking real life works like this. This is also a result of women listening to the relationship influencers telling them some Prince Charming is going to come along, and rescue her. And of course, bad decisions. That’s not long enough to even have a man around your children, let alone live with him, and predators do go after single moms to have access to their children.
-Met her husband as a single mom.
-Ignored red flags
-She got pregnant by him
-after giving birth, she left him. It turns out he molested both of her daughters(2&4 years old)
-She was abused as a child herself and is a product of rape.
What does this have to do with HVM? Her entire page focuses on attracting them and she literally calls herself a trophy wife. So now that brand is dead. I'm not going to go on about how she should have been more focused on the man's personality, history and values over his lifestyle, looks and funds because it isn't about her. It's about the situation she's put those children in. That man has to die. If I was a male relative I'd have to crash out.
Who's supposed to tell these young women this info?I’m passionate about shyt like this, and this is why I go so hard in these threads.
Y’all have no clue how many ppl literally do not tell young women ANYTHING when it comes to the real world and interacting with men.
Like, she was moving stupid but the ultimate point is: there are predators around, and you need to keep your eyes open and be discerning.
Shoo, after a month you’re still a stranger. Her decisions are unfathomable.
Family obviously!Who's supposed to tell these young women this info?
I’m passionate about shyt like this, and this is why I go so hard in these threads.
Y’all have no clue how many ppl literally do not tell young women ANYTHING when it comes to the real world and interacting with men.
You have people who didn't even reach their kids to wear condoms. It doesn't seem likely these kinds of conversations are being had at all.Family obviously!
I’ve been saying, Black folks ain’t real with girls when it comes to dating, sex, etc. Mothers usually aren’t open about their experiences because of the pain, and dads…I’ll just say you can usually tell which girls have dads/uncles who kept it real.
A lot don’t. That’s the problemInteresting that family and friends didn't teach her this growing up.
Interesting that family and friends didn't teach her this growing up.
@Neuromancer that’s my entire point!You have people who didn't even reach their kids to wear condoms. It doesn't seem likely these kinds of conversations are being had at all.
Anybody trying to get you to commit as soon as possible is doing it so they csn have you locked down before you find out their real personality is shytty.
That I understand. It also seems that this woman was looking for a come-up from her situation. If her page is about attracting HVM. It's a shame her children had to pay for it.@Neuromancer that’s my entire point!
People really be throwing kids out into the wind to “figure it out”.
A lot of us who grew up with structure, boundaries and life lessons have no idea what it’s like to have parents who don’t tell you shyt.
Hell I was super sheltered but still avoided certain pitfalls because my family was drilling certain things in my head since I was a kid