Woman marries" high value man" who turns out to be a predator.

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I’m passionate about shyt like this, and this is why I go so hard in these threads.

Y’all have no clue how many ppl literally do not tell young women ANYTHING when it comes to the real world and interacting with men.

Like, she was moving stupid but the ultimate point is: there are predators around, and you need to keep your eyes open and be discerning.

Shoo, after a month you’re still a stranger. Her decisions are unfathomable.
:francis: life delivered exactly what she wanted and she made it easy

she walked into a damn evil genie wish
 

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Married moved in with him a week or so after they started dating. And she already had 2 kids.
She thought this was a Disney movie. This should have raised red flags immediately because any man doing this either doesn’t have shyt going for himself or has some ulterior motives.

And if I’m her daughters’ father I would be furious at her moving my child in with a guy after a week. What the fukk?
 

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She thought this was a Disney movie. This should have raised red flags immediately because any man doing this either doesn’t have shyt going for himself or has some ulterior motives.

And if I’m her daughters’ father I would be furious at her moving my child in with a guy after a week. What the fukk?

When I married my wife I had to write a letter to her dad, pay a bride price and go to the family home where i got grilled by elders of her tribe
 

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I’m passionate about shyt like this, and this is why I go so hard in these threads.

Y’all have no clue how many ppl literally do not tell young women ANYTHING when it comes to the real world and interacting with men.

Like, she was moving stupid but the ultimate point is: there are predators around, and you need to keep your eyes open and be discerning.

Shoo, after a month you’re still a stranger. Her decisions are unfathomable.


Nah. We know. Lol.
 

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She says he portrayed himself as a righteous Christian man, and changed when they got married. People show you what they want you to see, and can switch up.

This is not going to turn into: date the ugly broke corny guy because he will treat you better. Anyone is capable of hiding who they are until they get you to a certain point.
That is true, people can maintain a mask when dealing with you until they have you. So, how do you get a peek under the mask. Well, you pay attention to how they treat and talk about others. When their true-self peeks through in their interactions with people they are not trying to impress, you need to pay attention to it. That is what is going to come out after they no longer feel the need to maintain the facade.
 

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She says he portrayed himself as a righteous Christian man, and changed when they got married. People show you what they want you to see, and can switch up.

This is not going to turn into: date the ugly broke corny guy because he will treat you better. Anyone is capable of hiding who they are until they get you to a certain point.
This.

And at least she left as soon as she found out. So many women wouldn't have.

So many women let that single or single mom title drive themselves into the arms of monsters.
 

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This idea that we can all spot a predator is wild. Ya'll don't have the formal. Many of ya'll are friends and family with predators and don't even know it...or predators your damn self.

Let's not pretend like someone whose whole identity is about deception is going to have it written on their forehead

I know of men who lived in the house with children for a decade before they started molesting them.

The only way to keep your children safe is not to take the chance in the first place.


Should have killed him
She has 5 kids. Unfortunately not an option.
 
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