I think you have @The Real mixed up... he is one of the fairest on team atheist/agnostic by far. I don't think he's trying to flip the script and just outright accuse you of hypocrisy but I actually understand what hes saying. There are plenty of direct commands from Jesus in the bible along with his actions that you're supposed to emulate that clearly outline something contrary to what you may have said in this thread.
While I have to extend tough love to our 18 year old dead friend, I don't think it makes very much sense to use our own sense of morality which may be based on Abrahamic values, and then ignore those same values in a more direct fashion when disdaining compassion. I don't blame the kids for roasting her just like I don't blame her for killing herself. It all to me seems like a blameless and senseless tragedy.
Fair points.