I agree, the backlash is to be expected, but that doesn't condone it, same way I expect racism in many situations but don't condone it. I think the choice/judgment issue you raise is complicated, but my first instinct here is just as a human being- someone who had prior mental issues and so was more vulnerable than most committed suicide because of the cruelty of strangers. The kind of dismissive attitudes here, calling her weak, deserving, or even making fun of her- that's disgusting to me on a basic human level.
You know me well enough to know that I don't engage in that kind of demonic speech, friend. I am surprised you misunderstood.
