Wrong.
This is what happened:
After WWII, white families got VA Loans and suburban gov't subsidized housing. That enabled a large percentage of white trash individuals to leave the jects/urban areas and buy homes. Black men did not get VA loans or any type of subsidizing...WHATSOEVER.
Compound that with this tradition: In the American south, male family members would work the fields and send the smartest female sibling up north to go to school. They, in turn, would return to the south and teach in the poorly staffed schools...They stopped coming back down during the 1st great migration. Their siblings came up with them to work manufacturing jobs in the growing midwestern cities.
A bit of redlining here, a war there...Automation...Now you have a depressed area. No more manufacturing jobs for the brehs. Substandard schools with a 90% female staff base.
OH, and did I mention:
The birth of subsidized housing for BLACK people...guess what? There's a new rule: The man can't live in the household...
Stop making it seem like "brothas just left"...Do you know what the draft is? Do you know how affirmative action really works? I do.
Black men were pushed out of the household when a large percentage of women put their kids first...and that makes perfect sense. The next generation has to survive.
Welfare, hiring preference, section 8, MHA...They got a good amount of padding. That padding wasn't real padding, though. They kept welfare folks on a short leash...gave em barely enough...Barely enough is better than nothing, though.
You know what our welfare is? PRISON.
Black women also outnumber us by a huge margin. They are a bit easier to control...because they give birth.
Children are the future...and a burden. You threaten to take that baby away and a woman will do anything you want...