the question is always geared towards dead beat men though. no one ever ask why y'all are intentionally choosing these men.
just take yourself for example. can you answer why many women willfully get impregnated by men they know aint shyt?
Since I haven't personally done this stupid shyt I can only hazard some guesses.
Lack of intelligence
Low self esteem
Never been forced to deal with serious consequences of their actions
Desperately wanting to believe the sounds good shyt some man tells them
Not grounded in reality
Thinking they're "bulletproof" (or sperm proof)
Repeating the environment they've been raised in
Just don't give a fukk
Etc. Etc.
those are just some and I'm sure most apply to men too
I'm not here to lay blame on solely the man or the woman.
Clearly both made bad decisions.
what I want to know is aside from telling people not to have sex cause that's totally unrealistic
How can we as a community raise the level of black children who have 2 active parents in their lives
whether the parents are still involved romantically or not.
Just saying "well women shouldn't fukk these no good nikkas" isn't the answer and I know yall are smart enough to know this.